Serious case guy, help!

[ztsorf]

i went out with this girl more than a month back, knew her in IRC. 28yrs office job, slim and pretty, in fact she turned heads in many places when we went out. She is my 1st IRC girl i asked out. Anyway, she is staying with her frd, roomate in another apartment away from her parents. Had like 2 serious relationship and last one was 3 years ago.

we dun always meet up but sms and chat a lot online. few nights ago she asked me a question which really bothers me. She wanted my sperm! She wanted to have a baby of her own but without a father, means i will have not affair with the child after birth.

That already shocked me bad enough , and she told me that she is seeking guys for the last couple years. A few she like and she went asking them, all rejected her and one even wanted to charge her a fee... crazy guy!

She seems to had made up her mind i mean come on, seraching two years and still searching???? So while i was considering, i went for a full body check up for her to prove i am healthty, anyway i need to do check up later this year, aunnal thing. Thinking that i just donate my sperm at the clinic while they insert the cells in her when she is really. Just now got a call, wanted to meet me, i asked what happened, she say changed her mind abt the sperm implant. She wanted me to contribute thru intercourse !!! I was like, "What?"

Somehow this is not longer a sexual experience for me....it began to scare me, help ppl. i off my phone already....

[SteveAu]

r u sure abt that? do u love her in the 1st place?

[Magpies]

uhm bro..tis seems lk a weird request from her...no doubt...many guys wont mind bonking an attractive gal RAW and no obligation if she gets preg after tat...bt i tink sme bros will be worried about..is she actually 'clean', no STDs nothing or wat...and the after effect of u noeing tat u have a son or daughter around..whom u cant acknowldge and it seems lk a mental torture though...

[ztsorf]

Love???? I hardly know her in all...... she just want the baby but not to raise with me.... get it?

[SA23]

wow....man u got a big problem here, even if u mught help her who knows she might just turn around and bite u back. Pls dun do stupid things

[asdfghjkl]

i get what u mean.. bonny hicks wanted a baby in this way too.. either they are very smart like nadya (she wants this too) or siao..

[tk-king]

if u have positive feeling for her
est a relationship n move on frm there

if not i will stay away
betta safe dan sorry

u will never know wat will happen...
even 40 yrs down the road

[19thhole]

Originally Posted by ztsorf

Love???? I hardly know her in all...... she just want the baby but not to raise with me.... get it?

I have a suggestion... go ask her to go for a check up as well, to prove she's clean... then ask her to sign a contract saying that she is doing tis out of her own free will and you are not obligated to bring up the child.. tis way u might get ur free bonk easily...

[finding nemo]

Originally Posted by 19thhole

I have a suggestion... go ask her to go for a check up as well, to prove she's clean... then ask her to sign a contract saying that she is doing tis out of her own free will and you are not obligated to bring up the child.. tis way u might get ur free bonk easily...

Is it that simple ?

[kaizer]

well, dats a good idea. but dun anyhow pia.. for all u noe, she might be hiv positive.

[diesel]

Kaiser said could be true! Becareful wor! Since no guys ever fell into her trap and I hope you won't be the exceptional case.

[new30]

If your name end up on the Birth cert of the baby, then u maybe need to pay monthly maintainces fee. There are a story on the TNP last week.

[piranahpg]

Originally Posted by ztsorf

i went out with this girl more than a month back, knew her in IRC. 28yrs office job, slim and pretty, in fact she turned heads in many places when we went out. She is my 1st IRC girl i asked out. Anyway, she is staying with her frd, roomate in another apartment away from her parents. Had like 2 serious relationship and last one was 3 years ago.

we dun always meet up but sms and chat a lot online. few nights ago she asked me a question which really bothers me. She wanted my sperm! She wanted to have a baby of her own but without a father, means i will have not affair with the child after birth.

That already shocked me bad enough , and she told me that she is seeking guys for the last couple years. A few she like and she went asking them, all rejected her and one even wanted to charge her a fee... crazy guy!

She seems to had made up her mind i mean come on, seraching two years and still searching???? So while i was considering, i went for a full body check up for her to prove i am healthty, anyway i need to do check up later this year, aunnal thing. Thinking that i just donate my sperm at the clinic while they insert the cells in her when she is really. Just now got a call, wanted to meet me, i asked what happened, she say changed her mind abt the sperm implant. She wanted me to contribute thru intercourse !!! I was like, "What?"

Somehow this is not longer a sexual experience for me....it began to scare me, help ppl. i off my phone already....

get far far away from her as soon as you can....

[whiskynaam]

Originally Posted by ztsorf

Love???? I hardly know her in all...... she just want the baby but not to raise with me.... get it?

Better play safe and run far far away... not worth it la bro... u never know when it will come back n bite you. if she really want a baby.. she can jus seduce you n then let you do her raw... why have to tell you all this? if one fine day she dun want to shoulder this alone... or you become a MP... or some movie star... then she come n blackmail you how. .. imo.. no such thing as free lunch one..

[tickhel]

in my mind------ IF she got HIV or other thing, she dun need to turn a big round to ask for sperm , she can straigh away "ask" u go to bed......