Serious case guy, help!
 

i went out with this girl more than a month back, knew her in IRC. 28yrs office job, slim and pretty, in fact she turned heads in many places when we went out. She is my 1st IRC girl i asked out. Anyway, she is staying with her frd, roomate in another apartment away from her parents. Had like 2 serious relationship and last one was 3 years ago.

we dun always meet up but sms and chat a lot online. few nights ago she asked me a question which really bothers me. She wanted my sperm! She wanted to have a baby of her own but without a father, means i will have not affair with the child after birth.

That already shocked me bad enough , and she told me that she is seeking guys for the last couple years. A few she like and she went asking them, all rejected her and one even wanted to charge her a fee... crazy guy!

She seems to had made up her mind i mean come on, seraching two years and still searching???? So while i was considering, i went for a full body check up for her to prove i am healthty, anyway i need to do check up later this year, aunnal thing. Thinking that i just donate my sperm at the clinic while they insert the cells in her when she is really. Just now got a call, wanted to meet me, i asked what happened, she say changed her mind abt the sperm implant. She wanted me to contribute thru intercourse !!! I was like, "What?"

Somehow this is not longer a sexual experience for me....it began to scare me, help ppl. i off my phone already....:eek:

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

r u sure abt that? do u love her in the 1st place?:eek:

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

uhm bro..tis seems lk a weird request from her...no doubt...many guys wont mind bonking an attractive gal RAW and no obligation if she gets preg after tat...bt i tink sme bros will be worried about..is she actually 'clean', no STDs nothing or wat...and the after effect of u noeing tat u have a son or daughter around..whom u cant acknowldge and it seems lk a mental torture though...

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

Love???? I hardly know her in all...... she just want the baby but not to raise with me.... get it?

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

wow....man u got a big problem here, even if u mught help her who knows she might just turn around and bite u back. Pls dun do stupid things

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

i get what u mean.. bonny hicks wanted a baby in this way too.. either they are very smart like nadya (she wants this too) or siao.. :o

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

if u have positive feeling for her
est a relationship n move on frm there

if not i will stay away
betta safe dan sorry

u will never know wat will happen...
even 40 yrs down the road

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

I have a suggestion... go ask her to go for a check up as well, to prove she's clean... then ask her to sign a contract saying that she is doing tis out of her own free will and you are not obligated to bring up the child.. tis way u might get ur free bonk easily...

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

Is it that simple ? :cool:

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

well, dats a good idea. but dun anyhow pia.. for all u noe, she might be hiv positive.

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Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

If your name end up on the Birth cert of the baby, then u maybe need to pay monthly maintainces fee. There are a story on the TNP last week.

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

get far far away from her as soon as you can....

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

Better play safe and run far far away... not worth it la bro... u never know when it will come back n bite you. if she really want a baby.. she can jus seduce you n then let you do her raw... why have to tell you all this? if one fine day she dun want to shoulder this alone... or you become a MP... or some movie star... then she come n blackmail you how.:eek: .. imo.. no such thing as free lunch one..

Re: Serious case guy, help!
 

in my mind------ IF she got HIV or other thing, she dun need to turn a big round to ask for sperm , she can straigh away "ask" u go to bed......