feasible to start a relationship with FLs? - Page 4

BlackerKnighter · #46 19-03-2010, 05:09 PM

HAHAHAHA Steady with kway? Not say not possib but best to iron out the detail of the arrangement prior so u make sure u not TOO much on the losing end lor.... Try it! Try it! Guess sum people just like extra pain or complication si boh?!

Bro JX steady lar! How cum ur point jump up liao again? Izit U got sign up n pay for same OKT sponsor package with the tow kay lyk the last time?? Kekekekekekeke..

NewMike1304k · #47 19-03-2010, 05:26 PM

Well, I once posted that I know a guy who married a strip joint girl. Anything is possible in life, but then the thing is whether we walk into it with our eyes open or are we seeing only a part we want to see. There are girls out there who are sick of the life they lead. They may want a way out, but in so doing, the guy who gives them the out must be able to do a lot of things. Firstly, to support them so that they need not go back to their way of life. Second is to forgive and forget and start a new life with her. Third is to never ever bring up the past.

Do not go into it hoping to be a knight in shining armour and with your small head thinking. It is quid pro quo. You do something for her, she has to do something for you. If you do not want her to do something, then you jolly well do not do it too. That is where you can consider starting a relationship with a FL. After all, though she may have a past, don't we all?

see see only · #48 19-03-2010, 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackerKnighter

Bro JX steady lar! How cum ur point jump up liao again? Izit U got sign up n pay for same OKT sponsor package with the tow kay lyk the last time?? Kekekekekekeke..

Hey bro BlackerKnighter,

You no go check Bro JX .... he declared profit of year 2009 - 50% mah

hahahahahaa

His share price shoot up 100%

JIU XING · #49 19-03-2010, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackerKnighter

Bro JX steady lar! How cum ur point jump up liao again? Izit U got sign up n pay for same OKT sponsor package with the tow kay lyk the last time?? Kekekekekekeke..

nope, nv sign up new plan...just claiming back points from my last package la kekeke...

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Originally Posted by see see only

Hey bro BlackerKnighter,

You no go check Bro JX .... he declared profit of year 2009 - 50% mah hahahahahaa

His share price shoot up 100%

more than 100% la wahahah...

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #50 19-03-2010, 07:00 PM

Bro JX performed like JM Holding counter today

Good show

uobboss · #51 20-03-2010, 12:40 AM

JX oversold now tech rebound

MachX · #52 21-03-2010, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by explorez

Hi bros,

So yea, here i am asking for advice from all the bros here..... Should i try to get into a relationship with one of these FLs?

Bro, do not go down that route. As when we were young and talked of Forever and Ever with our first love and broke their hearts as we moved on, FLs are going to break your heart, your wallet and if you are not strong enough, your life.

goodpartner · #53 21-03-2010, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by NewMike1304k

You do something for her, she has to do something for you. If you do not want her to do something, then you jolly well do not do it too. That is where you can consider starting a relationship with a FL. After all, though she may have a past, don't we all?

This is some interesting adviSeS, sounds like u've been there, done it and got the T-shirt

I'm interested to know what does she has to do for you in such cases?

S.B.Y · #54 21-03-2010, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by NewMike1304k

After all, though she may have a past, don't we all?

Halo Mas NewMike1304k

Couldn't agree more. There's always two sides to a coin.

Fade · #55 22-03-2010, 02:47 PM

DELETED. Taking back what i said

X30R · #56 22-03-2010, 03:11 PM

I recall when I first started going ktvs and took out girls for sessions. Some were quite nice to me. Offer extra shots at no charge or just overall good feel. Did get me think a bit bout starting a relationship with them. However, as I go to more and more ktvs and engage more girls, start to have same thoughts bout more and more and eventually just gave up on it cos understand that I was going thro a ktv newbie phase. Grew out of it and now much better balanced than when I first started.

TS, you need to get more exposure and experience before diving in. One thing you need to keep reminding yourself is that when you start thinking any particular girl is different from the rest, it will be too late when you find out she's the same.

NewMike1304k · #57 22-03-2010, 03:12 PM

Hehehe... I kenna until really sian already. Thats why my rule is jus fuck and forget. It can even happen to you with a normal girl. My mina also took me a big bundle and then started to act like nothing happen and everything I gave her was my own free will. Hey who does not get conned? The big problem is that once you know you are being taken for a ride, do you just sit down and cry or just pack up and leave? I will not say that the girl will suffer from the loss of a "sugar daddy", perhaps she has more than one, but at least you cut your losses and then have some more for another day.

As for bro goodpartner's question, hey... I do not play with FL anymore.. nor do I play anymore.. But my fren's experience was that he asked the girl to not work anymore, to stay at home and be a good wife. She did that. At first, he was unsure, and she was also uncertain. But in the end, she proved that she will not go back to the "easy money" line and he proved that he could still support her and love her. Now they have a very pretty little daughter and happy family. It all depends on the individual lah.

uobboss · #58 22-03-2010, 03:27 PM

Actually u will be a temporary recluse till a bigger boat comes along and most of the time they have a few on standby and few on waiting list .

funnyz · #59 22-03-2010, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by explorez

I look forward to reading some of your experiences!

TS,

A few good reading materials for you regarding Thai Girls:
1. Confessions of a Bangkok Private Eye By Stephen Leather
2. Thai Girlfriends and Women

If you asked for my humble experiences:
Rule #1 - If their lips are moving, they are lying. If their lips are not moving, they are thinking of the next lie.

I ended a relationship with a mainstream thai girl just 6 months ago after being together for 2 years. Probably same storyline, but different variation. Meet the parents, discuss about sin soot (Thai Dowry) marriage etc... I thought I have found the love of my life, but I get confused when she starts to ask about money/medical expenses.. Please bear in mind that we are still the average Joe and not a Brad Pitt overnight just because we landed in the LOS.

I'm not trying to the moral police. What I'm trying to say is their instinct is to survive while what we want is different from them. There no right or wrong in here. But I would suggest you back off and look for another bonk. Now let me ask you, how long can a relationship last based on sex?

You might say: "Well, she's different." I can only tell you this, if I get a dollar everytime for that statement made, I would be a millionaire by now.

As for me, the damage is minimum as I was on an expat package then. It covers pretty much the accomodation, travelling expenses etc. Given your age, it's might good for you to try your love luck elsewhere, but please no WL/FL...

Though there are some successful stories, by and large it's mostly failures. If you want to gamble against the odds. Good Luck to you.

VeriSign · #60 23-03-2010, 08:54 PM

only if you can know for sure that they have the intention to quit after entering into a relationship with you.