[Attached man] Having fun without hurting anyone.

[sxem]

Originally Posted by Pockypig

Chance will drop a lot when u tell them u before meeting up. But that will filter way those who will give u many problem later on.

In the past I got a Philippines gf and 2 local ex-colleagues. After meet up with pinoy, I told her when she already got horny(I haven't touch her). A bit too late but she is hack care mode le. At least I did my part. She gave me the best sex experience in my life for a few months before she went back.

As for 2 ex-colleague already knew I'm married when I join that company. So need not to touch on them.

Currently meeting a few, 4 from wechat and 1 from another forum. 2 pinoy maids, 1 local div and 2 local married. Married ones are out for fun so it's no problem telling them I'm married. Div one mind I married so nothing happen yet even I know she hungry liao. Maids, I just "break off" with one cause want to meet me daily and I sense something fishy about her. She is trying to fish my information.

Well, it's really base on fate and luck as bro stupid80 said. For a few years I encounter zero woman. Past 2 months I met 5. Not sharing details as it got nothing to do with the topic here.

I think it gets easier as you get abit older as the women are cognizant about thd stakes involved. Its those syts that give alot of problems

[Pockypig]

True also. Syt n chio bu have too many choices out there. Married man is not in their list unless u got the look and money.

Those I meet are from 32 to 44 year old.

[sxem]

I guess its a matter of sifting through until you find one.

Hope to hear more stories on how sbf people find their FWBs, FBs etc.

[Pockypig]

Originally Posted by sxem

I guess its a matter of sifting through until you find one.

Hope to hear more stories on how sbf people find their FWBs, FBs etc.

Depend on the feel and luck ba.
Who knows one of your colleague might turn into fb or FwB one day.
Just open up with them. Unless u work in a male environment.

[wondergal]

Originally Posted by sxem

Hello all.

This isn't a story sharing thread, thats another topic for another day when I feel more inclined to share.

Here we go.

I'm happily in a relationship with a very attractive girl, she's a trooper and we get on very well in and out of the bedroom, we dated for half a year and together for about 5 months now.

Here's the problem: I'm (still) on tinder and i'm no Brad Pitt but I have my fair share of matches and went out on meetups with those girls.

Most of the 'dates' go well and i always end up having lots of kino and indicators of interest (sorry for using PUA terms here) however, most girl's right marker is making out, they usually stop me right before that and being the fucker that I am, I want more and i can tell that they want it too but they always say there are not 'those kind of girls'. I totally understand of course and I don't force the issue.

Therein lies the problem: How do you communicate to a girl that you just want to have some fun? Without her having the expectation that it will end up being something more and getting her feelings hurt when nothing happens?

Attached guys do share your experiences here and ladies, do feel free to contribute too (you're welcome to call me a cunt too, if you must)

Happy tuesday y'all.

I think it is best that you tell her frankly from the start... less hurt now... more hurt later.

[MattJB]

Originally Posted by sxem

It still puzzles me that there will be girls who don't mind having fun with a married man, you must be hot enough for them to ignore logic or anything.

Then again, maybe i havent seen the world enough haha

Dont get me wrong.
Back to yr thread title, it is easier to let them know yr status upfront.
Its kinda hint them what u r looking for, sex partner or life partner.

Need a female Samster to endorse my assumption

[patrickwei]

Tell the truth first. Don't hurt other.

[sxem]

Well not too sure about the accuracy of the 'true stories' here...seems too good to be true.

Eg. Girl agree to go to hotel to 'take a nap' after drinking, want to go to MSCP to 'take a breather' , stay late in office to 'complete a project' lol the themes are so common that it seems quite funny.

Well before i come across as a sour grapes motherfucker, maybe its a matter of the girls finding an excuse because if a girl wants to fuck you, she will fucking storm a beach, crawl under 6km of barbed wire, cross a minefield and murder a child to fuck your brains out.

If only i get find a shifu.....

[lotsfits80]

Originally Posted by sxem

It still puzzles me that there will be girls who don't mind having fun with a married man, you must be hot enough for them to ignore logic or anything.

Then again, maybe i havent seen the world enough haha

It's the same as how guys might not turn away someone's wife who wants to fuck him.

[sxem]

Originally Posted by lotsfits80

It's the same as how guys might not turn away someone's wife who wants to fuck him.

Men are genetically wired to spread their seed far and wide so... I dont see the link.

[PastMeSome]

Originally Posted by sxem

Well not too sure about the accuracy of the 'true stories' here...seems too good to be true.

Eg. Girl agree to go to hotel to 'take a nap' after drinking, want to go to MSCP to 'take a breather' , stay late in office to 'complete a project' lol the themes are so common that it seems quite funny.

Well before i come across as a sour grapes motherfucker, maybe its a matter of the girls finding an excuse because if a girl wants to fuck you, she will fucking storm a beach, crawl under 6km of barbed wire, cross a minefield and murder a child to fuck your brains out.

If only i get find a shifu.....

Thank you for sharing.

[sxem]

Originally Posted by PastMeSome

Thank you for sharing.

I hardly shared anything

[Samkieu]

Originally Posted by sxem

I hardly shared anything

What you had written above means sharing.

[D-joker]

Jz tell the truth. But dont spoil the mood.
Some gals when they gets too horny. They dont even mind fucking dogs...

Some gals call it fullfilling needs.

I myself is also quite surprise with gals nowadays. My rule is i dont like to lie...

[sxem]

Originally Posted by D-joker

Jz tell the truth. But dont spoil the mood.
Some gals when they gets too horny. They dont even mind fucking dogs...

Some gals call it fullfilling needs.

I myself is also quite surprise with gals nowadays. My rule is i dont like to lie...

Am agreeable on the honesty part. As a wise man once told me, women want the truth but never full disclosure.