im very scared..pls advice

[discusfish]

Dear all,

thank you for ur reply.

Nope..i did not hide anything, i am more than glad to reveal anything so i can get the most accurate ans of all. Really appreciate all the answers given


I would like to know, where can i get a viral load test done? is it ex? 3 weeks after exposure..do you think this test will be beneficial?

thanks

[Flying Fox]

Originally Posted by discusfish

i am really stress out. I really hate myself for putting myself into such a mess.

Rest assured u will grow out of it. U will be stronger in future

[Cummon]

Originally Posted by discusfish

i feel very guilty..it is my 1st time. every nite i close my eyes, i tink of my mum(parents are divorced) and my gf. iF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO ME..IM REALLY VERY VERY GUILTY.I WILL NVR FORGIVE MYSELF.

1st time having sex with a FL/prostitute ?
Since you have been feeling so guilty,better refrain yourself to go for 2nd time before it's too late,coz for subsequent visits,you will feel less & less guilty and finally you will find it extremely difficult to quit or retire as a cheongster,just like many of us in here

[evo3]

bro i think u dont need to worry too much so long u wear cap than should be ok lah. if u want to be on a safe side than go for a blood test or full body check up

[discusfish]

hi bros,

thanks for the replies.

I am feeling very much better now. Think is the guilt that is killing me. WIll go for a blood test next week. (my 4th in 5 weeks liao)
Pray for me guys..thank you

[ok69]

Originally Posted by Cummon

1st time having sex with a FL/prostitute ?
Since you have been feeling so guilty,better refrain yourself to go for 2nd time before it's too late,coz for subsequent visits,you will feel less & less guilty and finally you will find it extremely difficult to quit or retire as a cheongster,just like many of us in here

truly agree with u bro ..

maybe the next time the TS will post FRs and ask we all to up him
hehehe

[sitonski]

hmm.. nvm la.. don feel guilty anymore le.. thats always a 1st time to secretly eat outside =P

anyway.. if still guilty, then treat yr gf better lor.. then next time don secretly eat outside liao..

u will be fine.. take care

[rossi46]

Originally Posted by discusfish

hi bros,

thanks for the replies.

I am feeling very much better now. Think is the guilt that is killing me. WIll go for a blood test next week. (my 4th in 5 weeks liao)
Pray for me guys..thank you

Most likely you kenna infected with HIV. But not to worry lah, nowadays the drugs quite powerful, won't so early develop into full blown AIDS. Look at Magic Johnson. After so many years still have not bite the dust.

Rossi

[hairycrap]

Originally Posted by rossi46

Most likely you kenna infected with HIV. But not to worry lah, nowadays the drugs quite powerful, won't so early develop into full blown AIDS. Look at Magic Johnson. After so many years still have not bite the dust.

Rossi

Eh mai ah neh kuan lah, don't scare the shit out of him. He's already feeling guilt-ridden, so don't go around making it worse for him.

Bro Discu, you shouldn't worry too much since you did the necessary precautions. Maybe it's the guilt that's making you feel paranoid. Take care!

[JediSkull]

MJ not dead yet? wow! didn't know tat sia! but its a scary disease nevertheless!~!~ got see how thin aids victims become?

[PokePussyHard]

Should be safe since you wear condom

[samfan]

Bro,

Forget about getting a viral load test. It is not helpful, can be costly, and will only complicate matters from a diagnostic standpoint.

Furthermore, symptoms are notoriously unreliable for diagnosing HIV. The main reason being HIV itself will not directly cause the symptoms. It is the weakened immune system that is the culprit for opportunistic infections, and since most ARS varies among individuals, and may consist of common aliments; there is no reason to worry about them.

Any HIV antibody test prior to the 3 month window period is not considered conclusive, and although a negative result at any point before that may be encouraging; it is again, not conclusive. To be certain of your HIV status, you have to wait until the 3 month mark (90+ days) before getting tested.

[AfA_hmor]

Originally Posted by discusfish

I would like to know, where can i get a viral load test done? is it ex? 3 weeks after exposure..do you think this test will be beneficial?

You can get yourself tested for HIV and syphilis at our anonymous test site. See www.afa.org for test timings. The window period for the test results to be accurate is between 3 weeks to 3 months. It costs $20 to do the HIV test and $30 to do both tests (HIV and syphilis). If you are worried, do come down to DSC and get yourself tested.

More tests will be carried out for those who are found positive during the anonymous test. It may not be useful for you to do the viral load test now.

[cheongster_11]

Hi to fellow bros

First to Bro discusfish, not to worry la. i'm sure u will be fine.

Next is it really true that if use CD and assuming no breakage. chances of kena 1st prize is low?

Is it the norm for WL to use the same CD that they use to blow u for FJ as well? will the saliva affect the quality of the CD?

paiseh to hijack the thread.. but abit concerned too.

[samfan]

Bro cheongster_11,

If the condom was used correctly and did not fail, then the chance of kenna 1st price is essentially non-existent. See my thread at Worried About Ur Escapade?! for details.

WL normally will use the same condom used for BJ for FJ as well. They normally collect only one condom from the counter anyway. However this is just my opinion. What is important is that saliva will not degrade or denature the quality of the condom and render it useless. So you are safe if the condom did not fail at the end of all the slurping and banging.

And yeah you're right. Bro discusfish should be fine. The odds are extremely in his favour.

Stay safe and you will be well!