[Straying] How did you start...

[Johnbass]

http://www.straitstimes.com/opinion/...ildren-in-2065

Letter to my grandchildren in 2065 - Tommy Koh

LOVE SINGAPORE
First, you should love your country.

LOVE FAMILY
Third, love your family.

DO NOT WORSHIP MONEY
Fifth, do not worship money.
There is a joke that the main form of worship in Singapore is the worship of money. Singaporeans are a materialistic and money-loving people.

My attitude towards money is that we all need to make money in order to provide for our family and to be able to lead a dignified life. My goal in life is, however, not to make money but to help build a better Singapore and a better world. You should remember that money can't buy you good health, peace of mind or a happy family.

In fact, money often sows discord in families. Money can buy you a big house and a big car but not a good reputation. It is more important for you to do a job which brings you joy and satisfaction than a job which you do only because it brings you a lot of money. Pursue your talent and your passion and not money.

[zerofighter]

Bro.. dun visit Fl as we already know the gameplay. It will nt bring us any emotional fullfillment.

It will just make us more guilty whenever we faced our loved ones..

Patch back ba since u still love yr wife... best solution le..

UOTE=Vanda;13400166]I do admit i stray but the end of the day, i go back to my oc. Sometimes we stray, because we seek excitment. But the sexxions i had, was due to itch for excitment for seeking fresh sexual presuit, such as FLs with better bed skills and hotter looking body or sexier face than my oc. The most i had was hj and bbbj once a year. Never did any stray FJ or intercourse with any FLs or other women in china, there are many tempting opportunities for me or when back to sg.
I consider myself a heavy sex addict and had a fair share of fl in the past. I am surprise that i quit and change so much becos of my oc.
Now i had a relationship strain that i find very tiring and even patching back may harbour some unressolved heavy resentments, there is no place to vent my sexual frustration. I am very afraid that my old habits of visiting fls break loose, if once i started. I am considering of starting new relationship or having a fb to lick my wounds and i wanted to prevent from the bad habit of going to WLs or FLs, but there is no avenue to it.
Btw do you guys prefer FLs/WLs or FBs, i find that i have some resistance to going for FLs. Besides they are numbed to sex that it become routine and mechanical. And i am not fond of fake gfe feelings, no doubt some have excellent bed skills.
Not going to FLs is part of the reasons that i still reserve hope of patching back and i still love my oc.[/QUOTE]

[sarahxx]

Originally Posted by Vanda

I do admit i stray but the end of the day, i go back to my oc. Sometimes we stray, because we seek excitment. But the sexxions i had, was due to itch for excitment for seeking fresh sexual presuit, such as FLs with better bed skills and hotter looking body or sexier face than my oc. The most i had was hj and bbbj once a year. Never did any stray FJ or intercourse with any FLs or other women in china, there are many tempting opportunities for me or when back to sg.
I consider myself a heavy sex addict and had a fair share of fl in the past. I am surprise that i quit and change so much becos of my oc.
Now i had a relationship strain that i find very tiring and even patching back may harbour some unressolved heavy resentments, there is no place to vent my sexual frustration. I am very afraid that my old habits of visiting fls break loose, if once i started. I am considering of starting new relationship or having a fb to lick my wounds and i wanted to prevent from the bad habit of going to WLs or FLs, but there is no avenue to it.
Btw do you guys prefer FLs/WLs or FBs, i find that i have some resistance to going for FLs. Besides they are numbed to sex that it become routine and mechanical. And i am not fond of fake gfe feelings, no doubt some have excellent bed skills.
Not going to FLs is part of the reasons that i still reserve hope of patching back and i still love my oc.

I'd say if you still love your wife and still have the hopes of patching back the relationship, don't jeopardise it by eating outside. As much as it'll fulfil your physical needs temporarily, it is not sustainable unless you're going to keep going back to FLs/WLs/FWBs.. And by doing that I don't think it's fair to your wife esp you still love her. Unless the relationship mei you jiu le, then it's a different story. But kudos to you for controlling for so long, stay strong and hold on to things that's worth your time and effort.

[HelloAngel]

Yeah, agree about not cheating if you still love your wife. otherwise if you stray, be prepared for the consequences...

[Vanda]

Originally Posted by HelloAngel

Yeah, agree about not cheating if you still love your wife. otherwise if you stray, be prepared for the consequences...

Sis, i am still sorting out certain personal issues. Considering whether it is worth it. I have look out for my frd and have some final conclusion and the answer is to wait patiently. Thks for yours and bro zero fighter support!

[JiByeSlut]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Last time I also in your same shoes...
Then I also start thread ask...
Then I tio zapped many many times...
Then I sian many chiobus... don't bull shit
Then I Fark many zappers/clones... don't bull shit

Then I became too busy Farking zappers/clones... don't bull shit

Then I think heng I never start...
Then happily ever after. don't bull shit

JiBye Dog is bullshit king

[IkanSelar]

Originally Posted by zerofighter

It will just make us more guilty whenever we faced our loved ones..

Very true bro