Why is it so hard to understand girl???

[soulblader]

How to flirt with girl?

how to be "alpha"?

[adver]

Originally Posted by soulblader

Everytime I want to ask a girl out she say not free...

How can we understand each other when we don't get together?
and if we don't understand each other, how can we be together?

like that I am walking in circle..

sick of talking in sms and msn...

move on there many girls out there...

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, you are not alpha enough to capture a woman. Basically you need to flirt but dont ask her out. Get her to think she is not at your level. She will throw hints for you to ask her out. Then you just say I have some time if you wnat to join me or I will be there at say 5 to 6 for dinner and you can have dinner with me. Imply that there are lots of other woman desiring to go out with you and she should get on your schedule to have a chance at romance. Other way is to have the confidence to just say we are going. Women llike confidence not some twit scared to ask her out.

wahaha wat am i seeing here? a dickhead acting like a dating guru calling others twit? until nw u still havent posted any pics to support your high class maid FB bullshits.

Empty cannons make the most farts, as always.

[colins]

bro soulblader, all you need to do is to cut some of your conversation with this girl and paste it here. Then we have some basis as to what advice is best for you. A good piece of advice is one that can be applied by the person listening to it, likewise as the property agent is able to give quite sound advice (at least to me ah), he should be able to demonstrate it as well (maids dun count, albeit 'high class').

Of cos, other bros can always chip in ok. Learning is always a humbling experience.

[abchow]

TS , my suggestion is go make lots of money . Then the girls will date u out and u can pick and choose. Why make yr life so miserable now. Focus on how to make the money.

[Stud00]

Someone once said..

Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus..
:P

I don't know about you, but i rather date my car.. just that, i cant screw my car!! ROFL!!

[ChaiTao]

Originally Posted by soulblader

Everytime I want to ask a girl out she say not free...

How can we understand each other when we don't get together?
and if we don't understand each other, how can we be together?

like that I am walking in circle..

sick of talking in sms and msn...

Bro,to be frank ,if the girl really into you some time down the road she will come out with you!But if u jioed her many times(for me 3 to 4 times dun come out dun waste time liao) still dun wan come out,no matter what she smsed or msned you all talk cok one!!!!!Try to cheong more,more targets,girl1 dun come out look for girl2...so on ,end of the day surely at least one will come out!If not lower your expectation!That always worked for me!!!

[xyhan]

Originally Posted by soulblader

Everytime I want to ask a girl out she say not free...

How can we understand each other when we don't get together?
and if we don't understand each other, how can we be together?

like that I am walking in circle..

sick of talking in sms and msn...

The message is clear....SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU... YOU BETTER MOVE ON..

[frivolous_ami]

Girls are just another type of species. Why they like that? Why they so like this? No explanation at all. Cos if you can understand, mankind wouldnt have to fight so many worthless wars in history. Truth is there is little logic in how they behave and think.

[AmericanExpress]

don't get upset over 1 girl

[adver]

Originally Posted by maninsinsha

All I can say is: She's NOT into you... Move on...

I agree totally.

[r0cksteady]

"Cannot meet how to spend time, cannot spend time how to be with each other"?

Hard to understand???

I see it's so easy to understand.

She does NOT want to be with you, bro. That's why she doesn't want to spend time with you. That's why she doesn't want to meet you.

BTW, she replying to your sms... is only out of COURTESY. Not that she likes you or you are so charming. Just politeness. Otherwise you may call her a rude bitch.
Perhaps she is not a rude bitch. Just that she don't like you in the 'special way'.

Why? Nobody knows "why". Sometimes she also don't know. (PLEASE don't go and ask her. Lowers your own standard and shows you as very needy).

Not your fault. Everyone has different criteria to like someone in a 'special way'. For example, some girls can be VERY NICE, SINCERE and SWEET to me, but if got bad breath, I immediately shut off. (May fuck once or twice). Or someone lies to me. End of game. Or small boobs (but depends, some girls are small-chested but attracts me in other ways). Even I don't know the criteria. Like means like, don't like means don't like.

I don't know the celebs now, so I will quote celebs from 10 years ago. For example, Fann Wong VS Zoe Tay. Both pretty. Both nice. Both got their style. But some guys die die love Fann and some guys die die love Zoe.
Do they even know why? I tell you, no one knows 100%. Because they don't even KNOW the celeb. Just by looks can support till argue. Imagine that.
Like means like, don't like means don't like. No reason and no logic.

Don't beat yourself up. You like her doesn't mean she must like you.
She don't like you in a special way doesn't mean you are shit.

You are still you. Just make yourself better and ACCEPT that this world is huge, and there are girls who will not like you in a 'special way', no matter what you do, and move on.

Be happy, bro.

P.S. Once you better yourself and become the best you that you can be, your confidence will soar and you will realise that many people are attracted to you, male and female, just because you are happy with yourself and confident about who you are. From then on, you can just take your time to choose the girls around you, or even if you decide to go and 'chase' a girl, you will be much better equipped that time. Much higher chance of success. Take it easy.

[天山童老]

Originally Posted by soulblader

What shld I do...stop after reject, or keep on continue?

Actually understanding a girl is not too difficult, if you really dun understand just tell her, if after she explained it to you, you still dun than just pretend you do and skip topic(do it naturally so that she dun notice). By telling her you dun understand at first can psychologically make her off-guard on the white lie coming up next(they can be sensitive to our faking/entertaining due to their brain in-built).


But for your case, r/s is a 2-way flow. Just by you alone want to understand her can get no where. She has to be want to understand you too in order to communicate!

Summary:
1.She has no interest in understanding you and only make use of you to kill her time when she's bored. only in msn and text.
2. From my understanding, she has absoblutely no intention in meeting you at all.
3. I'm curious, since you seldom even chat with her and had nv met her in person(concluding from you say she's nv free to meetup with you), why are you so into her about? She's merely nothing too much of a stranger to you too...
Solution: Find someone else to tackle, someone who's more willing to chat up and meetup with you to start with!

[pohh]

Depend the chemistry and whether both have a common interest for the beginning stage

[Fuckening]

Originally Posted by soulblader

Everytime I want to ask a girl out she say not free...

How can we understand each other when we don't get together?
and if we don't understand each other, how can we be together?

like that I am walking in circle..

sick of talking in sms and msn...

This bird is not into you . You should move on bro .