How to let your wife be more interested in sex?

simtny · #1 29-09-2009, 05:18 PM

bro how to make your wife more interested and eager to have more sex? having a dull sex life.. *sighz*

naturegreen · #2 29-09-2009, 07:11 PM

Bro, different people got different perception of dull sex life. I believe most people will find it getting dull in the long run. It depends on how you keep the fire alive. But if she is the kind who has a low sex drive, then I think more foreplay may do the job. Slow and steady. Do not just focus on satisfying yourself.

Unless your wife is adventurous, maybe can try at different places. Where? You got to ask yourself where will you/wifey find it comfortable. Kick-start at a hotel first. The rest is up to you. You can also get some sex toys to go along with during your session. Cheers.

whitegals · #3 29-09-2009, 10:07 PM

I know a lot of guys who complain that their gf or wife does not like sex, but when I ask them this question, "Does your partner cum as well during sex?" Most of them stumped, a few of them even can ask me, "She can cum one meh?"

So my question to you bro TS is, "do you make her cum during sex?"

boyboy72 · #4 29-09-2009, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by whitegals

I know a lot of guys who complain that their gf or wife does not like sex, but when I ask them this question, "Does your partner cum as well during sex?" Most of them stumped, a few of them even can ask me, "She can cum one meh?"

So my question to you bro TS is, "do you make her cum during sex?"

Very well said. First thing and most important thing is to let her enjoy the process then you can expect her to ask for more ma

boyboy72 · #5 29-09-2009, 10:35 PM

Also her mood is very important. Do it when she's in good mood.

zhaolinger · #6 29-09-2009, 10:48 PM

she dun like sex.. and occasionally when we do I always cum first... how to make her cum?

Kefka · #7 29-09-2009, 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by zhaolinger

she dun like sex.. and occasionally when we do I always cum first... how to make her cum?

Lick her cunt while playing with her tits or touch her body sensually at the same time. When she cum, she will mostly grab your hand to stop u

Try to make her cum first then you insert into her. Women can have sex almost immediately after cumming

NewandLost · #8 30-09-2009, 12:05 AM

Braddah, you say your wife is not interested in sex. But let me ask you this. If she see a movie star or singing hearthrob, would she fantasize about having sex with him? Maybe the problem is not on her motivation but motivation with you? So maybe go to gym more, groom better, be a man instead of just guy expect sex. You trying to make her horny by having her dress up etc. but she is not a lesbian and not having sex with herself. I think you need to attract her to want sex with you. All women like sex. Just maybe she dont want to have sex with you anymore but she stand by her vows of marriage and not cross the line. At least I hope not braddah.

Softcore · #9 30-09-2009, 12:20 AM

All very good advice here.

One more thing: If you're doing nice things to her so that she'll sleep with you, don't. Do it because you genuinely care about her, and not because you want to induce her via guilt or sympathy to sleep with you.

armpitfetish · #10 30-09-2009, 12:29 AM

kinda agree with the 2 answers before me. Women can FEEL IT when you genuinely fo something nice for them (when i say women, i refer to your gf/gfs or wife/wives). When you trigger this irrational emotion, u see how they can eat u up the whoe night.

am not saying u need to carry her bag all day or fetch her to work 365 days. Inject some surprise or romance once a while ... & wink at her after that and walk off.... and her tiny little brain might perceive you as somewhat 'fascinating'. The next thing you know..... your 2IC is inside the love lobang of hers... Actions & communication must start from you. It wont fall from the sky.

simtny · #11 30-09-2009, 01:43 AM

hmmm bro good advice.. but most of the time my wifey is tired after work.. she do cum during sex.. just that now no0t that shiok anymore..

acapboy24 · #12 30-09-2009, 01:52 AM

watch more porn 2gather...it helps! ...for me ~ gud luck ~!

will1677 · #13 30-09-2009, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by whitegals

I know a lot of guys who complain that their gf or wife does not like sex, but when I ask them this question, "Does your partner cum as well during sex?" Most of them stumped, a few of them even can ask me, "She can cum one meh?"

So my question to you bro TS is, "do you make her cum during sex?"

mine cumalmost every time we have sex, but it is still very dull as she is a passive sex type.

69Sniper · #14 30-09-2009, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by simtny

bro how to make your wife more interested and eager to have more sex? having a dull sex life.. *sighz*

once in a while must try someting kinky, cannot always same strokes ma must got mor variety

once u can make her cum mani times tink she will get addicted, dun always tink abt urself onli

Oralcraz · #15 30-09-2009, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by simtny

hmmm bro good advice.. but most of the time my wifey is tired after work.. she do cum during sex.. just that now no0t that shiok anymore..

The length of marriage, work stress and tiredness are factors for low sex drive. If tiredness is the reason for lack of sex, then, try having a private weekend without kids or any interference. I tell you, you can do and do and do until surrender.

Good luck.