How do i cum slower?

[hooch]

I always cum very fast during sex, any one knows anyway to com slower? can seem to ta han everytime.

[seetoh73]

Originally Posted by hooch

I always cum very fast during sex, any one knows anyway to com slower? can seem to ta han everytime.

bro, if you are doing with your gf, i dont see any problem. do it again when you feel like it.
isnt that great?

[JediSkull]

slow down ur tempo perhaps?~?~ always good to be hard to pry open. but dun get too excitied and pia+cum fast fast. and i bliff its all in the mind. one should be able to control when u wanna cum. dun let ur small head rule over ur big head.

[shroom]

Give us some background info.

Such as age, how long since you been a virgin and how fast is fast.

But some basic tips, do PC exercises and do sex more often

[lee_li]

i also got this problem.....very sian leh....thought of getting those spainish fiies or viagra.

[liberatte]

Well, i think there have been many threads about this before. How long you want to 'tahan'?

Anyway, here are some tips..
1. Breath... don't hold your breath when you're bonking. Soon, you'll learn to keep that rod of yours erected even though you don't put pressure on it.

2. Think of something else... Think 'happy' thoughts, not horny thoughts. Try to drift your mind somewhere else.

3. Know your dick... you should know where is your pleasure spot. If you're rubbing it too much, stop for a while and try other positions. Only go back to that position when you think its time for you to come.

4. Drink a little... alcohol actually will help blood flow. However, it will confuse your sense of pleasure. You still feel the pleasure but you will definitely not cum so soon.

5. Wear a thicker cap... some caps are thicker than others. And some tight caps actually will stop you from cumming. You can also try to find Durex XXX (i forgot the name) perhaps bros can help..

6. Take a 'cold bath'... before intercourse, lower the temp of your balls. This will relax your muscles on your dick.

Anyhow, that should help you at last for 20-30 minutes... Practice those and see... Also, try start and stop method... hehehhe Ask around...

Haha, I think can cum better then cannot cum. Try not be kancheong, practice makes perfect ... follow intructions by bros above.

[nycaloth66]

hmm good question, i also got this problem.

Some methods i try that work for me are:

1) Wear a condom...something well lubricated and maybe a little thicker like Durex extra safe? this cuts down the feeling for me and helps me to hold it..

2) Mind over matter...think of something else while doing the act, maybe count the number of thrusts or something, haha what ever works, it will serve to distract you and slow down your orgasm, but usually my gf can tell and she's not happy, says i seem a little distant haha

3) Set and control the pace, slow down or even stop when you're close to orgasm, continue when the urge is gone. You can keep up the momentum by taking this chance to make position changes etc

4) Practice...have sex more often, taking care to hold off for as long as possible each time, there should be gradual improvement

5) Practice..this time alone or with help via masturbation, you know the drill...stop when u are about to explode, rest and continue, repeat several times..shld also see gradual improvement

Since my gf is rather high sex drive, i've been under pressure to improve haha and i have made some progress..maybe if i have the chance i will try herbal infusions? haha

[Pink Floyd]

If you are using condoms, try Durex Performa.It carries some desensitising agents.Less pleasure, but can last longer.

[electricdreams]

Can understand Bro Hooch's concern - having pleasure while yet not cum too fast is not easy.

May like to consider on improving foreplay - pleasures of arousal are very stimulating while not in the "main course" yet. Over time, the restraint practices in foreplay can help control the cum too quickly. Learn to enjoy the arousal/tickling sensation while keeping "it" in tact. True as what one brother says; it's mind over matter but very pleasurable after over time.

Cheers

[Beowulf07]

Originally Posted by hooch

I always cum very fast during sex, any one knows anyway to com slower? can seem to ta han everytime.

Some ppl cum very fast & some cum very slow. It depend on individual. It gd to cum fast. But also depend on which gal u bonking with? GF or FL.

Everytime u feel like cumming, pull out.

Requires alot of discipline.

[babycheong]

Originally Posted by boyforsammy

Everytime u feel like cumming, pull out.

Yea, rite..... she probably kick u out of the bed in no time.

BC

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by babycheong

Yea, rite..... she probably kick u out of the bed in no time.

BC

hahaha!!! agree!!!

I keep laughing when I see yr reply. Will make the gal damn frustrated, feel like a training device only, or he's kinda pervert!

[babycheong]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

hahaha!!! agree!!!

I keep laughing when I see yr reply. Will make the gal damn frustrated, feel like a training device only, or he's kinda pervert!

Exactly.... this is what I call a selfish lover..... only thinks of himself... knnz.

BC