Need Tips from experienced Players

[TheExplorer]

Hello! my first post here. Want to seek opinions from expert on how to build sexual tension with girls such that can end up in bed? Feel damn shitty to kena friendzone at the end (many times with diff girls)

I realised that i end up very close with many girls. For example, they will tell me all their past relationships and sexual experiences. Like one girl I met the other night, met her at the bar. She call me like 1am ask me sleeping alr or not? then I saw of course not and go pick her up and we go for a spin. Then we talk alot of things in the car and I send her back at the end about 3am. After that hor I was thinking got chance (many telltales signs and leading statements), but again no action happen (lingered on and talk a lot of shit).

When is the time to cross the boundary and just whack? or must avoid certain topics?

[conquer]

Don't waste time and money for something you think is "free sex". Nothing is really free. Spend 100 bucks in Geylang, that's the cheapest "free sex" you can get.

[Ngengheng]

Originally Posted by conquer

Don't waste time and money for something you think is "free sex". Nothing is really free. Spend 100 bucks in Geylang, that's the cheapest "free sex" you can get.

I strongly agree with this . Nothing is free ....Marrying or dating is all more expansive.

[randyrockhard]

General rule dictates that since you are THE man, you need to make the moves which indicate that you want something more than just talking. The hardest part is really to get them to warm up to you in the first place, so that the two of you managed to spend a quiet moment together. So in your case, you're pretty much there, just need a bit of fine tuning really...

REMEMBER THIS:

Your main task as a man is to create a situation conducive to sex, as most women would not want to feel too aware of losing their inhibitions with a guy, nor wanting to be viewed as a cheap slut.

A bit of drinks may help, but not too much. You just want that warm, fuzzy, relaxed feelings to get inside both of you. Once you do, be playful, make her feel more relaxed even more by smiling and casually touches her finger tips. Listen up to what she said and wait. Get your body closer to her, wait for a while more.

Find the right moment, especially from listening to her stories, then wrap one of your arms around her shoulder, and lightly give her a hug. If she doesn't pull away, that's a good sign. Stay close to her.

Then you pull back, without saying a word, look at her eyes, start from either the left/right eye, slowly followed with the other eye, then you look at her mouth. Hold your stare there. If you are brave enough, go for the light kiss on the lips, even better if you lightly hold her chin while doing it.

If, like me, you're not that brave ... then softly whisper these words to her ear "You know [insert her name here], I am so happy right here being with you right now, I have to kiss you tonight". Pull your head away a little bit, look at her eyes again and observe if she seems keen to engage further. If she does, then go for the passionate kiss while holding her hair.

There .. that's randyrockhard's way ... *try it and report to us if it's working.

If a romance/relationship is what you are aftering with her, more often than not, it is always about saying the right things at the right time. However, if you prefer to learn about scoring FWB/ONS/NSA ... I am actually very terrible at it, but don't be discouraged, as there are some threads here that even have Youtube links in them.

For your information, scientific research has shown that most women are most turned on at 11.21 p.m. After that time, your chances to score with her would diminish as the night lingers on, with the few exception of a sudden nightcall like your case at 1 a.m where the woman was actually looking for you. Having said that, however, if you missed that train, your chance with that same girl diminishes exponentially if not totally gone.

An Italian friend of mine told about his story with his friend, a French girl he didn't try to fuck, because he was just trying to be a gentleman. He has since become friend-zoned, and you know what she told him, to his regret, a few months later?? "Because you didn't try to fuck me that night, I now see you as a good friend instead. If you had tried, I probably would have fucked you".

He knew he has blown his chance with her, thus he learned now that, as a man he have to at least try his luck when the opportunity arises with a different girl next time.

Good luck TS!!

[elitez]

thanks bro well said

[jasonz19]

too close will kenna friendzone just don't be too good to them and let them take advantage of you.

[Mr_don_juan]

Originally Posted by TheExplorer

Hello! my first post here. Want to seek opinions from expert on how to build sexual tension with girls such that can end up in bed? Feel damn shitty to kena friendzone at the end (many times with diff girls)

I realised that i end up very close with many girls. For example, they will tell me all their past relationships and sexual experiences. Like one girl I met the other night, met her at the bar. She call me like 1am ask me sleeping alr or not? then I saw of course not and go pick her up and we go for a spin. Then we talk alot of things in the car and I send her back at the end about 3am. After that hor I was thinking got chance (many telltales signs and leading statements), but again no action happen (lingered on and talk a lot of shit).

When is the time to cross the boundary and just whack? or must avoid certain topics?

Maybe you can stop talking for a while and do some action like holding her hands , do some playful touching, initate some kisses. Feel more confident and ask her if she like to spend a night with you.

If I am you since is late at 1am ask her why not we go somewhere for a night in a cozy hotel. Obviously before you do those touching you know her for sometime or have been dating, start off with a light kiss and see if she respond, a friendly hug.

The thing is there must be some physical attraction before you move on to something more intimate.

[Stupiost]

It starts from many aspects.. Girls are really silly in that they can let emotions take over them easily. This is my problem. I hate myself for this. Okay, anyways.. Girls get excited by words. Maybe can charm her with texts and all, girls love attention. Try not to be too touch and feeling though, you may get zoned as Pervert.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by conquer

Don't waste time and money for something you think is "free sex". Nothing is really free. Spend 100 bucks in Geylang, that's the cheapest "free sex" you can get.

well TS likes to think that he is a "fishing" expert...
the proper way to build sexual tension is to date her then let nature decides.
of course if TS wants the tinder way then is perhaps better to stick to tinder app then.