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07-08-2006, 10:10 AM
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20% concept..
Dears Bros...
I am having serious problems rite now.. just got married last year.. 2 me marriage life is just responsibilites.. nothing much to shout abt.. just the same routine order. work, go back home. gone r the days when i go CS with my brothers, or tcss till late nite with them, or the expedition to geylang. i love my wife but yet at the same time i long to have a soulmate, a girl of course. no hanky panly involed but someone to fill the voidness of my heart. bros do anyone have the same feelings as me?..... 
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#2
07-08-2006, 10:20 AM
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Re: 20% concept..
You mean None of your friends "warned" you about this b4 you got married? omg~
 Try to work on self help and improve the intimacy level as well as communication with your CO. You wouldn't last long with that kind of mentality. You can't pull out of the "relationship" like you are still in a bgr. You have to grow up and accept the facts. Better work on it before your "thoughts" run wild and the unthinkable happens. Take care bro.
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07-08-2006, 10:41 AM
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Re: 20% concept..
Hi bro bersek,
I can understand how you feel, cos i marry 1 yr earlier than u. yes, marriage is about responsibilities, but how to maintain the love b/w both of you is down to both of u. marry already dun mean u cant pak tol anymore, u can still treat it as both of u still in bf-gf stage, only difference is now both of u go back to same house, unlike last time you send her back, then u go back your own or meet other pple elsewhere. communication is very impt, u got talk to your wife your feeling about how u wan to carry on last time tat kind of feeling of jus fall-in-luv & how u wan both of u to go about it. now, i hav a kid, jus abt 1 yr old, tis kid also help both me & my wife to link together. but WARNING to u, dun jus tink of getting a kid to help improve the relationship. It really very TOUGH looking after the kid especially when they are young & need your utmost attention, sometime, both of u may jus concentrate on the kid & neglect each other feeling. One thing satisfaction is when you look at the kid & they smile at you & hear their laughter, you & your wife will feel that it worth the sacrifice of having panda eye. 
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#4
07-08-2006, 10:47 AM
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Re: 20% concept..
My wife is pregant liao.. b4 marriage, she have terrible mood swings,, now even worse expecially she is pregant.. aiya always suspecting i have girls outside. at times i really have problems sharing with her my inner thoughts and feelings. that is y start to have thoughts finding a soul mate. nt for sex but more to the emotional aspects. these few days, go hm have to c her black face.. but it hurts me whenever i c her crying in the room. there used to be so mcuh laughter in this house.. but everything is so quiet now. tried my best to humour and assure her but failed. nt her fault but mine.
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07-08-2006, 10:51 AM
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07-08-2006, 10:51 AM
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hey, part n parcel of life, iznt it? b4 u start 2 thk otherwise, try 2 chg ur mindset 2 adjust 2 tis drastic chg gd luck
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07-08-2006, 10:54 AM
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一动....不如一静... 
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07-08-2006, 10:55 AM
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07-08-2006, 10:58 AM
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Re: 20% concept..
mood swing during the initial period of pregnancy is very common, during this period try to accompany her more, be more caring to her, like help her do washing, cooking & other household job.
let her rest completely, you will do all the job. then let her see how tired you are by sacrificing yourself to do all the things, she will feel heart pain when she see it & she will try to be more accomodating to you. work for me, but again, need alot of hard work.
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07-08-2006, 11:12 AM
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pls give more creativity
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江湖险，风波恶 人在江湖，身不由己。 不入江湖， 何来“身不由己”？
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#12
07-08-2006, 11:14 AM
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read my siggy, u r @ least 3 steps behind
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#14
07-08-2006, 11:16 AM
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Re: 20% concept..
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find your male kakis abd kp yo them lo
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#15
07-08-2006, 11:18 AM
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