Downgrade GF to FB

[archer69]

Can't sustain with her expensive life style, and due to that sex are getting very less. Time to downgrade just an FB or totally dump and forget her? Can advice?

[cocky1234]

if i were you. i will drug her and give her a good xxx. take her pic and then dump her.

sometimes inside you just want to take revenge when you treat the girl soo nice but she never appreciate you.

[*FiReWoRkS*]

If taking revenge allows you to move on then please go ahead. Just dont break any law cos no point putting yourself at risk for a bitch.

If she is so fuck up until you dont even bother to want to have anything to do with her anymore then even better, just forget her and move on.

In this kind of situation learn to love yourself.

Do the things that will make you feel better instead of being subconciously letting her be the centre of your thought-making process.

Cheers~

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by archer69

Can't sustain with her expensive life style, and due to that sex are getting very less. Time to downgrade just an FB or totally dump and forget her? Can advice?

In the first place, r u in love wif her or jz a fling? Dating her coz of her nice personality, someone who u can communicate & share the same hobby with u or jz cos of the great sex she can give to u.....every time of the dating is jz purely sex?? If is latter then i think she is jz a fb to u.

If she is not the someone whom u r seriously in love wif & potential wife to-be, & since u can't sustain & can't tolerate wif her expensive lifestyle, & in the long term, u will feel very tiring to maintain her lavish lifestyle, then gf is out.

Downgrade to fb? Since u mentioned lesser sex as b4, mayb her interest in u lessened oso? Or she demands more materialistic things b4 give in sex to u?? If u still yearn of the great sex she can give to u but dun mind less sex then jz maintain as fb or else leave her. But in the end, communicate to her first.

[ZapHim2Negative]

Bro

Leave her and move on. She can zap your bank account balance to negative

[archer69]

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[archer69]

Originally Posted by cocky1234

if i were you. i will drug her and give her a good xxx. take her pic and then dump her.

sometimes inside you just want to take revenge when you treat the girl soo nice but she never appreciate you.

It is very true, in my mind I want revenge and thinking about just dump her is not enough to pay off the damages financially and emotional stress.

Shit!

[cocky1234]

i suggest you be the bad guy.don't do those i suggested earlier. i suggest you tried to take back all those expensive present that you have bought for her ( LV bag, gadgets, etc) before breakup. just make some bad rules etc.. you want break amd return all the stuff you bought for her.

later you can sell back to recover your loses..

i too had a bad gf and end up like you. i spend all my savings around 25k sgd within 1 year bought her expensive branded stuff for her. and this girl is just damn materialistic and just dont appreciate me at all.

i regretted i did not demand her to return all those stuff i gave to her. yeah.. i sound like a cheapskate demand for return but that is my hard earned money of around 5 years of work savings just gone . which i was planning to use it for my study to get a degree. i need to delay my study for another 3 years (need save back money) before i can start study again. so yeah.. 4 years of my life and delayed.

so bro, if that is your hard earned money and you took a very long time to saved that amount. i suggest die die recover as much as possible. use that money for your future.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by archer69

Can't sustain with her expensive life style, and due to that sex are getting very less. Time to downgrade just an FB or totally dump and forget her? Can advice?

Dump her and bail yourself out now.
Don't worry she will find another sucker very soon.
Local girl?
I have seen people ruining their lives for such women. Don't waste your time.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by cocky1234

i suggest you be the bad guy.don't do those i suggested earlier. i suggest you tried to take back all those expensive present that you have bought for her ( LV bag, gadgets, etc) before breakup. just make some bad rules etc.. you want break amd return all the stuff you bought for her.

later you can sell back to recover your loses..

i too had a bad gf and end up like you. i spend all my savings around 25k sgd within 1 year bought her expensive branded stuff for her. and this girl is just damn materialistic and just dont appreciate me at all.

i regretted i did not demand her to return all those stuff i gave to her. yeah.. i sound like a cheapskate demand for return but that is my hard earned money of around 5 years of work savings just gone . which i was planning to use it for my study to get a degree. i need to delay my study for another 3 years (need save back money) before i can start study again. so yeah.. 4 years of my life and delayed.

so bro, if that is your hard earned money and you took a very long time to saved that amount. i suggest die die recover as much as possible. use that money for your future.

I feel for you. Just like some friends of mine. Fortunately he got back on his feet.

[archer69]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

Dump her and bail yourself out now.
Don't worry she will find another sucker very soon.
Local girl?
I have seen people ruining their lives for such women. Don't waste your time.

Yeah she is a local girl and she gave me a best fuck ever compared the rest, that's why I spent time and money for her. But so materialistic.

[cocky1234]

TS. just a side joke. i think is cheaper for you to get FL and have a good fuck then continue invest in this girl

[mrclen]

Originally Posted by archer69

Yeah she is a local girl and she gave me a best fuck ever compared the rest, that's why I spent time and money for her. But so materialistic.

Quick note: I had/have one of those. Known her for about 4+ years and would see her about 4 to 5 times per year for two weeks each time. Started off as a great fuck with amazing GFE. Yes I bought her some gifts and always paid her for her time, although a few (repeat very few) times she didn't take the money. As time passed, where she was fun and really good in the ways she was supposed to be, her performance became less and less like a lover and more like a wife. In the beginning she would show up at the my hotel like we were going out for the evening to a nice dinner and party. In other words, full makeup nice clothes, etc. Fast forward to the last couple years--shows up without makeup, old clothes, etc., and where the activity used to last for several hours and again the next AM, now it is "I am sleepy or tired", and the morning romp kind of went away.

Anyway, I do have a fondness for her that won't quite go away, and enjoyed my time with her, but it is time to cut the strings as she has become more materialistic and less of a GFE ad lover.

So my best advice is: Forget the money! Chalk it up experience! Let her go. Find another. And try not to make the same mistakes again.

[hugs]

Wow. 13 posts and none of them are about relationships, all are about hunting, hunter and his catch. Ts, thats not even a relationship so thats why you are stressed out emotionally and financially. Similar to being kc-ed by a WL.

Relationship is about falling in love, building emotional bonding and companionship with each other, finding mental compatibility and support as time passed, like how it is between buddies in the army, or among older relatives during troubled times. So yeah, I think better communicate with her and tell her your anger and your feeling of being used by her. Dont let your ego keep you from communicating your thoughts and feelings with your gf, otherwise how is this going to move forward? Thats why everyone will tell you communication is indeed the foundation of any relationship and is good you start learning and practise that now. Whether you break up with current gf or not, you learn to communicate now and it helps in next time. Also, she needs to know she hurted you and you deserve a respond from her. Being a gf for years, she owes that to you. That is basic curtesy and mutual respect. Don't be shy to get her to respect you, afterall she wasn't shy to receive your material gifts.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by archer69

Yeah she is a local girl and she gave me a best fuck ever compared the rest, that's why I spent time and money for her. But so materialistic.

When you mention materialistic i knew high chance local girl.
Forget about the fuck. Get out before you lose more money