Angry Wife

[LongJohn76]

Dear All ,

I'm actually married for three years. On and off I will always fight with my wife. We fight over small and big issues. Every time she would want to move out. So I had to pacify her. All this become less frequent. But now she is back again. Little things she will scold me and pull a long face. Even the things I forget to put back she will be very angry with me.
Today. I am suppose to pick her up at the customs pick up point. But the area is no waiting and parking. So I message her I will be waiting on another side. If she come over I will be driving down to pick her up. So latter I received a message saying she waited for half and hour. After picking her up . She pull a long face. I have to send her back to the pick up point. Then I message her . Maybe we should look into our relationship again. Because we don't see eye to eye in almost everything.

1) should I give in to her again.
2) should I just pretend nothing happen. She already pack her bags and go and stay else where.

Regards

[crood]

Y not u ask her to call u when she reach? Both of u like communication breakdown, u never give clear instructions?

[Big Sexy]

she probably have enough of you then..
time to go separate ways

Originally Posted by LongJohn76

She already pack her bags and go and stay else where.

[oxeso]

[QUOTE=LongJohn76;9996238]

1) should I give in to her again.
2) should I just pretend nothing happen. She already pack her bags and go and stay else where.

IMHO,
1) R/s should always be give n take. For how long can u tahan if it's a 1 way street?

2) Not a gd idea. Have to work on it if u still want her. Do u?

Gd luck,bro.

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by LongJohn76

Dear All ,

I'm actually married for three years. On and off I will always fight with my wife. We fight over small and big issues. Every time she would want to move out. So I had to pacify her. All this become less frequent. But now she is back again. Little things she will scold me and pull a long face. Even the things I forget to put back she will be very angry with me.
Today. I am suppose to pick her up at the customs pick up point. But the area is no waiting and parking. So I message her I will be waiting on another side. If she come over I will be driving down to pick her up. So latter I received a message saying she waited for half and hour. After picking her up . She pull a long face. I have to send her back to the pick up point. Then I message her . Maybe we should look into our relationship again. Because we don't see eye to eye in almost everything.

1) should I give in to her again.
2) should I just pretend nothing happen. She already pack her bags and go and stay else where.

Regards

TS, to what u describe your wife might be in hormones disorder, Pl bring her to see doctor, by the way how old is your wife??

[ah rat]

TS,have a nice talk with yr wife.Tell her about her temper.Any problem with sex life with her

[wally888]

is she the impatient type before u marry her

[maxsee]

Try to work things out bah....coz the thing about divorce is...it is going to burn a huge hole in your wallet...

[Jamesleejamesle]

Bro,
Ask yourself if u want to save the marriage.
Then ask her.
If both of u want, then go and see a marriage councillor. I believe every race n religion should have some sort of marriage councillor available which is free, priest or at the ROM or whatever. Don't go for the ones that is paid one, unless u don't mind paying.
It is always best to listen the advice of someone who is more experienced in these matters.
And good luck!

[prettymannequin]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

she probably have enough of you then..
time to go separate ways

Not really. It's probably a shit test to see if TS still wants her or not. If he doesn't react or wants to separate, she'll give up on him as well. But as long as he asks her back, she'll feel like she's still wanted.

TS, it's just a communication problem. Hopefully you guys can iron this out somehow.

[stillgottheblue]

Why don't TS reflect on all your actions first?

[esssinine]

thats it! screw marriage i gonna get me a dog !

[Sexyboi12345678]

have a talk and try to sort it out

[hardworking48]

TS, don't be so fast to throw in the towel. You are only married for 3 years and I believe both of you are still adjusting to living together.

Maybe I think you are really the type of guy that is untidy and put stuff here and there without putting back, never talk properly and make her wait unnecessarily etc.... Guys can be very careless or "chin chai" attitude which can really get on the nerve of another person if it happens too often.

I am a guy and I get pissed off with people who use my stuff and put it elsewhere instead of where it is supposed to be and I also hate waiting!

I think you should also take a good look at yourself before you go blaming your marriage (or wife) problem cos even if you re-married again, the vicious cycle will happen again unless you change.

[LongJohn76]

Thank you bro. You really know who I am. I really look up to you.