Advise needed - encounter with friend's gf who happens to be a pro

[Hoeman]

Hi ALL,

I work in China rite now. I frequent FJ barbershops on regular basis. Went to regular place recently and saw a friend's gf working there. The friend(we shall call him XJ) is a guy who was ex-classmate with my gf. Had dinner and went shopping with XJ and his gf before.

XJ's gf (let's call her C) is the wild type. My gf and I sort of suspected before she works as a pro but felt reluctant to ask XJ. We did ask XJ about where C works, and he gave answer that C supposedly works as waitress in Karaoke. He isn't sure bcos C does not let him send her to work. XJ is somewhat close to us (me & gf) and the last we heard XJ is still together with C.

The thing is, when I saw C, I thought she looked familiar but wasn't too sure she was XJ's gf. I took the risk and booked her. Only realized she was C when we reached the room.

I think she recognizes me but when I said I think I have seen her before, she denied seeing me before, which is total crap bcos I see a glimmer of recognization in her eyes. I am 100% sure now that she is XJ's gf bcos after doing the session, I asked for her name and hometown. The info corresponds to wat XJ told us about C before. I suspect XJ is unaware of C's occupation. He thinks she is a "服务员" at a karaoke bar. XJ is a nice chap (23 years old)but sometimes very blurr, though he acts like he is very knowledgeable.

In a dilemma rite now, bcos afraid that C will tell XJ and XJ will tell my gf that I frequent FJ places (this scenario is if XJ is aware that C works as a pro). Also, if C tells XJ that I f*#k C before, will he get mad at me? Plus, what if we meet up for dinner & XJ brings C along?

On the other hand, the f*#k session with C was sweet (BBBJ, multiple positions, 34B boobs, very wet pussy, no rush) and C gave a really good GF feeling. I am actually contemplating of going for another round with C, before I try other gals. I feel like I "ngau yi sou"(勾二嫂), but I did pay her for her services. What do you guys think? Pls advise.

Hoeman...

[KoLianTai]

bonking shld be discreet =D

[Angrycum]

I doubt she'll blow the secret. In doing so, she'll expose herself.
You're safe..... for now.

[hunter89]

Wow Bro.... you really have a complicated story, and also a complicated relationship....hehehehe...joking only

Suggest that you keep quiet and dun tell your fren about his gf.....
Reasons:

1) He might not believe you.
2) Your gf will definitely know that you go for pro, and you are also dead.
3) His gf might deny everything, and you landed yourself into trouble.
4) Your fren might believe you, BUT, "since you know she is a pro, you still up her?"

Bro.. from what I see, you are in a loose loose situation...Sometime being selfish is to protect yourself.....sad but true.....

[nakamara]

Just keep your mouth shut although i know you're dying to tell your friend

Firstly, it's hard for a pros to hook up with a decent n unsuspecting bf and i'm sure she treasure him alot

Secondly, no matter how much your friend loves her it'll definitely be a VERY big blow to him if he knows this

If u really buay tahan seeing your friend's gf doing this kind of job and 'cheating' him behind his back, just find chances to break them up if u wish. If u leak out her secret of being a pros, it'll be really messy for the 4 of you.

Just my honest thoughts...sorry if i offend anyone

[Mahalapa]

additional round with C will only add more problems if u treasure ur friendship with XJ don't let ur small head to rule in tis one,jus my 2 cents

[sg_boytoy]

Best to keep quiet about the whole thing and please don't RTF, the more you continue this "business transaction", the higher the chances of letting something slip out unknowingly.

[waypastprime]

Originally Posted by Hoeman

I feel like I "ngau yi sou"(勾二嫂), but I did pay her for her services. What do you guys think? Pls advise.

Hoeman...

Nonsense. Why bonked then say u are guilty about it? At that very instance, u should have moved off.

Alternatively, u can tell your friend that she's working in such environment and ask him to find another one if he cant accept this fact.

[noname123]

Originally Posted by waypastprime

Nonsense. Why bonked then say u are guilty about it? At that very instance, u should have moved off.

Alternatively, u can tell your friend that she's working in such environment and ask him to find another one if he cant accept this fact.

I ageed with WPP...since you already mentioned you "100%" sure it's yr friend's GF liao..why still continue leh...

I suspect you beo his gf long long time ago liao right...

Lagi champion is you still can say you 1 2 try another round....

[oakleyeug]

I seriuosly would suggest that you see situation before you make any decision, do not try to do anything stuipd.

I will not try to advise you on what to do, but if you are working in China you should know China ways of doing things. Money does not come easy for some, there are cases where husband compared their wives (KTV they work in). In the world it is only reality, if you want bread you need money, if you want anything at all you need money.

Comparing this statment, did your friend give her money (Bao her)? If not then you should know your friend is out for cheap fuck too.

I am not saying China people are like fuck, some of the people I met in China is actually very nice (I work in China myself).

If your friend bend on marrying her then save your friend bring him there to see, maybe then he will believe. If not then weight for yourself, would you want to hurt your friend?

Just my 3 cents worth.

Oak

[6" boy]

Tiam Tiam Du Ho La. I don't think she want her BF to know what she is doing, so please respect her profession. Its better to let your fren find out himself and when he find out, just pretend dunno la. Its not advisable to tell your frens especially those who are close to your GF that u r a regular bonker. Must always maintain our innocent in front of our GF.

[secreta]

well the simple thing could be to do nothing since they are just gf only and u do not intend to marry them.

somethings best not to think too much and just leave alone is best

right?

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by Hoeman

Hi ALL,

XJ's gf (let's call her C) is the wild type. My gf and I sort of suspected before she works as a pro but felt reluctant to ask XJ. We did ask XJ about where C works, and he gave answer that C supposedly works as waitress in Karaoke. He isn't sure bcos C does not let him send her to work. XJ is somewhat close to us (me & gf) and the last we heard XJ is still together with C.

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your friend XJ is a sporean, C is a prc?

[notEnuff121]

simple solution... stay clear gradually of XJ and C. Keep the distance.. gradually they will self expose and you surely dont want to be in the list of suspect

if you want to go out with XJ, just keep it between you, yr gf and XJ... slowly he will one day find out...

[spermmann2003]

You should just do nothing. She happy, u safe. Happy ending.