When you wife is pregnant, how do you cure your urge

[will88]

Met up a bro last night for a drink at Clark Quay and half way thru, he ask if want to go find girls as he had not been having sex with his wife for the last 5 months due to her wife's pregnancy.

I told him I am not going and rejected him. The reason being I know her wife very well and can't bring myself to go find girls with her husband.

I am single with a stable girlfriend, the prob of not having sex for even a week don't happen on me. For those bros that are married and when your wife enter the third trimester, how do you kill your urge? DIY or go look for FL? Or don't care, just bang her with though her stomach is protruding out...

[peanut123]

Your friend is a scumbag, looking for extra-marital sex when his wife is pregnant with his child. He could still:

1. Have sex with his pregnant wife. The tummy isn't an issue if he loves her. Her pussy is still available and working fine, and no need to wear condom.

2. Wife can still give him handjob and blowjob.

3. At worst case, don't have sex for the trimester. I'm pretty sure when he was younger and unmarried, there were times when he didn't have sex for a few weeks. It might be slightly uncomfortable, but surely he can take a bit of discomfort when his wife is going through morning sickness and bodily changes from which she might never recover even after childbirth.

4. He can just wank off.

5. Since you said no to him, you can jolly well be sure he's going with other friends or on his own. Advise him not to do so for the sake of his unborn child and suffering wife. If he were to be found out, his wife could divorce him, and he will lose his family and 50% of everything he has. It's just not worth it.

Originally Posted by will88

Met up a bro last night for a drink at Clark Quay and half way thru, he ask if want to go find girls as he had not been having sex with his wife for the last 5 months due to her wife's pregnancy.

I told him I am not going and rejected him. The reason being I know her wife very well and can't bring myself to go find girls with her husband.

I am single with a stable girlfriend, the prob of not having sex for even a week don't happen on me. For those bros that are married and when your wife enter the third trimester, how do you kill your urge? DIY or go look for FL? Or don't care, just bang her with though her stomach is protruding out...

[S.B.Y.1]

Pak absolutely agree to bro peanut 123

At this stage abstinence is the key

[MrsInfidelity]

idiot men lor

[will88]

Originally Posted by peanut123

Your friend is a scumbag, looking for extra-marital sex when his wife is pregnant with his child. He could still:

1. Have sex with his pregnant wife. The tummy isn't an issue if he loves her. Her pussy is still available and working fine, and no need to wear condom.

2. Wife can still give him handjob and blowjob.

3. At worst case, don't have sex for the trimester. I'm pretty sure when he was younger and unmarried, there were times when he didn't have sex for a few weeks. It might be slightly uncomfortable, but surely he can take a bit of discomfort when his wife is going through morning sickness and bodily changes from which she might never recover even after childbirth.

4. He can just wank off.

5. Since you said no to him, you can jolly well be sure he's going with other friends or on his own. Advise him not to do so for the sake of his unborn child and suffering wife. If he were to be found out, his wife could divorce him, and he will lose his family and 50% of everything he has. It's just not worth it.

Of course I told him he should not be doing this to his wife. And i said Spare a thought for your wife going thru all the hard time carrying their child. Not having sex for mths is not the end of the world. There's always a pair of hand for him to jerk off when really desperate.

Well, whether he find other friends or proceed on his own I don't know. At least my conscience is clear as I drove him home after the drinks to make sure he didn't use me as an excuse to find chicks.

[Ha79]

So far I also warking by myself.... Wifey don't do bj and hj for me....
As now 1st trimester, kind of dangerous also....

[langpalang]

Hmmm . . Not going to comment on right or wrong thingy. Haha, cos am not in the relation.

As for the sex thingy . . I got 4 kids . . whn my wifey pregnant, we still piak piak, haha . . It's ok, but just careful loh, no tough sex. Haha

Best part, after give birth, no piak piak, drink milk also shiok lah. This one harder to come by. Hahaha

[skarlett]

Spooning is the best and safest position as per my gynae. Ur fren is a total scumbag man. Wife carrying his offspring and him wanting to fuck outside.. zzzz...

[kencher88]

Originally Posted by will88

I told him I am not going and rejected him.

Good advise given to him.

Just ask your friend back one question, if his wife go look for other man for sex, if is fine for him? What is the feel if his wife is having sex with other man?

[genevaguy]

Let's bring some science to the issue of whether you can or cannot have sex during the 3rd trimester, read this

http://www.webmd.com/baby/features/s...ncy-is-it-safe

Bottom line, don't believe the "old wives tales" about no sex during 3rd trimester, it's an individual decision, she can ride on top, doggie is fine or spooning as suggested above....

GG

[tshirt]

Try the back door ? Anal sex

[prettymannequin]

If he wanted sex with his wife that badly, he could have googled all of that information above and assured his wife.

I think he just wanted activities on the side. What an ass.

[will88]

Originally Posted by kencher88

Good advise given to him.

Just ask your friend back one question, if his wife go look for other man for sex, if is fine for him? What is the feel if his wife is having sex with other man?

Can't believe I got zap for rejecting a friend in need!!!

[Wednesday]

aww, what a friend!

[bombweister]

Bro good advice to ur friend. Just do ur best n make sure he don go astray under ur care. Just up u 1 point for being a good buddy.