How to handle gays?

duothrust · #1 14-03-2005, 11:30 AM

Ok...this is not exactly an exciting or hot topic, but i believe most brudders in here would have some experience of having colleagues, friends, classmates etc who are gays.

The gays in my office are getting more suggestive with each passing day. Give tips on dressing, hair, praising my good height and so on. A classmate is always trying to slap my arm playfully in a sissy manner.

Anyone wanna share their BAD experiences with gays?

cbjuiceyumseng · #2 14-03-2005, 11:38 AM

Have u told your collegues (gay) that you are straight?

eddy · #3 14-03-2005, 11:42 AM

just say......No...????

Looksee · #4 14-03-2005, 11:44 AM

tell them straight in the face.............

duothrust · #5 14-03-2005, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by cbjuiceyumseng

Have u told your collegues (gay) that you are straight?

Told them i got gf liao. Haa...they still regularly ask me for update on me and gf. CB...must be biding their time to convert me to gay too.

Castrol · #6 14-03-2005, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by duothrust

The gays in my office are getting more suggestive with each passing day. Give tips on dressing, hair, praising my good height and so on. A classmate is always trying to slap my arm playfully in a sissy manner.

Anyone wanna share their BAD experiences with gays?

actually, besides the physical uneasiness, i think most gays are quite ok people.

from my "skirmishes" with a few gay friends before, they have shown they are very willing to help a friend, even with money, and also very willing to forgive and forget.

just dont bend down when with them!

cbjuiceyumseng · #7 14-03-2005, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by duothrust

Told them i got gf liao. Haa...they still regularly ask me for update on me and gf. CB...must be biding their time to convert me to gay too.

GAYS!! More than one in your office? Wtf is your company / industry?

Cognac · #8 14-03-2005, 11:57 AM

I always have this problem of being stared at.

I don't seem to get out of the impression people have on me (that is, I look like a gay). Bloody hell but I don't leh. People say maybe my eye lah. KNN I look out for pretty chicks but somehow got myself in a situation and stared accidently into gays...

Have no qualms at all against gays, cos I have a close fren who's a gay. Just that they should know it and back off if they know that person is not one. Some are just so insistent and kept staring....

Jialat ah...

duothrust · #9 14-03-2005, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by cbjuiceyumseng

GAYS!! More than one in your office? Wtf is your company / industry?

Definitely more than one! Not convenient to reveal, but come to think bout it, the nature of the business is kinda an ideal breeding ground for gays.

waypastprime · #10 14-03-2005, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by duothrust

Definitely more than one! Not convenient to reveal, but come to think bout it, the nature of the business is kinda an ideal breeding ground for gays.

Hmmm... A job that promotes creativity thinking?

WWEF · #11 14-03-2005, 01:28 PM

Some gays are very nice ppl.....some don't even behave like sissy....
But they give u lots of tips to you, like how to dress up etc....
Juz avoid going to the toliet with them...hehe

duothrust · #12 14-03-2005, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by WWEF

Some gays are very nice ppl.....some don't even behave like sissy....
But they give u lots of tips to you, like how to dress up etc....
Juz avoid going to the toliet with them...hehe

Yeah have to agree that most gays are nice ppl. It is only when they start to eye me lustfully or make suggestive remarks that i start to get du lan.

How do i decline lunches with one particular one? Cannot everytime say not free or got appointment sia.

WWEF · #13 14-03-2005, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by duothrust

How do i decline lunches with one particular one? Cannot everytime say not free or got appointment sia.

Hehe Bro...actually me in a similar suitation as you....haha. I keep saying not free until like paisay everytime use the same old excuse. I use the excuse for almost half a year. But as time passes, he will get the idea that u are avoiding him.....but the cons is that if u ask for help next time..he might ignore u as well....
Balance is the key here, i suppose.... Don't always avoid him...sometimes go out with him...but tell him u not gayman.
Who noes when u gona need his help?
"Chu wai kao peng you"...whether he gay or not.
Cheers!