I wonder why I'm doing this...

[assster]

I think I am an ass.

I have a gf whom loves me alot, and we are getting married soon, but I still fuck around. I suspect she knows, but she kinda close one eye and sometimes that made me feel worse.

I don't visit FL although I do entertain clients in KTV and sometimes end up having ons with the gals. I have regular fbs that meet up about once a month, and I also have had affairs with colleagues. I flirt with new ppl i met, and i love the thrill of the chase. To me, its all a game and the grand prize is when I cum on each new conquest. However, guilt inevitably sets in soon thereafter.

I am a bastard and the worst part is that I know and I enjoy being one... How can someone like me get married?? Makes me wonder if i should just break up with her for her sake

[Bangster]

The root of the problem is....

The presence of your cock.

And the fact that you own it.

[assster]

i do love her definitely else i wouldn't even consider settling down with her.

and ya bro bangster, my cock is overruling my brain every single time.

[bastardball]

To me wife is like a home....gf, ons, mistress, whores etc....are like the playground...fun to play and exciting, too attractive to stay at home....but once you finish playing, just don't forget to go home.

Just get married and have fun! Each time you feel guilty, buy something nice for her to make it up...just like me! haha!

Its not me really, its my balls that are bastard...that's why I got my nick

[sp150]

Bro it's normal...u can try to control urself not to flirt around but then I feel that it just kinda lose ones identity know what I mean. But do provide the necessary and more for her if u can if u were to marry her

[tantan1234]

think u shld hold on and not get married first if your mood is still to chase.


Because, after married the commitment is there. U will no longer have time to do these things tat u normally do when u r alone. U now have someone breathing near u. She might close one eye, but when both tie dwn it will be different, because u signed the paper.

When u got married and yr deed was exposed there would be more problems or trouble.

[papabear]

why not be honest to her about your mentality.

and then make a contract let her sign.. telling her that you truly love her if not you won't marry her.. and you are being nice by seeking her approval to carry on bonging others..

when she sign.. she may even want you to bring in chicks and masturbate while watching other chicks serving her hero husband...

woah! swee right my thinking! hehe

[queeniegal]

Because u love yrself the most.

One word selfish. Ask yourself if now is the gal who u love deeply did that to u how u feel?

Love her set her free... Even she one eye open one eye close how heart pain she was did u ever know?

She might think married le u will change actually No that is another chapter of hell.

Many woman I know they alway give reason to their bf when they know something they been doing outside. N even think the will change after marriage. But is proven at least to my frd few of then hv heartache, cries but hv to pretend nothing goes wrong!

Some can't take it divorce.

Whereas to guys they feel when before marriage is fooling like crazy after married as long I can mange well shd be fine and it gonna be very challenging.

Touch your heart n put yourself in her role how u feel.

Anw I sure being zap cause here sure for people hate to listen this...

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Because u love yrself the most.

One word selfish. Ask yourself if now is the gal who u love deeply did that to u how u feel?

Love her set her free... Even she one eye open one eye close how heart pain she was did u ever know?

Anw I sure being zap cause here sure for people hate to listen this...

Totally agreed with your post here!

Btw i will upped u in case anyone zap u...

[Summerhillt]

Originally Posted by papabear

why not be honest to her about your mentality.

and then make a contract let her sign.. telling her that you truly love her if not you won't marry her.. and you are being nice by seeking her approval to carry on bonging others..

when she sign.. she may even want you to bring in chicks and masturbate while watching other chicks serving her hero husband...

woah! swee right my thinking! hehe

Haha. Bro u fucking funny. What's the percentage the wife to be will be like this lol

[NetRodent]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Because u love yrself the most.

One word selfish. Ask yourself if now is the gal who u love deeply did that to u how u feel?

Love her set her free... Even she one eye open one eye close how heart pain she was did u ever know?

Many woman I know they alway give reason to their bf when they know something they been doing outside. N even think the will change after marriage. But is proven at least to my frd few of then hv heartache, cries but hv to pretend nothing goes wrong!

Some can't take it divorce.

Whereas to guys they feel when before marriage is fooling like crazy after married as long I can mange well shd be fine and it gonna be very challenging.

Touch your heart n put yourself in her role how u feel.

Queeniegal,

One unfortunate truth, is that there is no such thing as a true-blue faithful man (or woman).

Unless the guy is financially unstable, or sexually imcompetent, he would not look out for girls. Only a small fraction of men stick to this faithfulness thing, it is a old-school mentality that very few practise it.

Once the formerly faithful guy venture to the darkside, forever it determined his destiny.

I was one of this convert. 不能自拔，性欲控制了我的理性与改变了我的信念。

As long we cherish the marriage, try to moderate these extra activities, and devote more time to family.
No one want to venture down the path of divorce.

[rushforlust]

Originally Posted by assster

I think I am an ass.

I have a gf whom loves me alot, and we are getting married soon, but I still fuck around. I suspect she knows, but she kinda close one eye and sometimes that made me feel worse.

I don't visit FL although I do entertain clients in KTV and sometimes end up having ons with the gals. I have regular fbs that meet up about once a month, and I also have had affairs with colleagues. I flirt with new ppl i met, and i love the thrill of the chase. To me, its all a game and the grand prize is when I cum on each new conquest. However, guilt inevitably sets in soon thereafter.

I am a bastard and the worst part is that I know and I enjoy being one... How can someone like me get married?? Makes me wonder if i should just break up with her for her sake

yo, bro
we are all having a "bro" living inside us , thats what make us here
i also love my wife much but i do still fuck around, gulity towards but no helps can be done
we do have our needs which smntimes wife cant fulfill

but do remember to treat her nice when u should and never lose your temper to her, you have to pamper her for what you have done

smntimes i do suspect my wife know some of what i am doing but she din even bring up, be good boy and love her more and she will know, what i feel
also be smart, dun get caught red handed

[Iluminati]

I totally agree with what you said QueenieGal!

[Summerhillt]

just pay and get the job done. dont ever commit

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Totally agreed with your post here!

Btw i will upped u in case anyone zap u...

Haha thanks (=