Serious advice needed on persistent PRC WL

SadLoser · #1 24-01-2013, 08:53 PM

Need some advices from bros here on how to handle this situation- got to know this prc cat150 wl and she has been persistently sending me sms, either claiming that she misses me or asking when i will buy her the present as "promised" (she requested for a branded bag which costs around $1K).

In an attempt to end contact with her, I recently replied to her that I have patched up with my girlfriend and hence will not be going down to GL anymore. I thought this should be the end of story.
But to my surprise, she continued sending me msg every few days. As I did not reply anymore, she is now asking "why am I ignoring her" and/or "Can I at least give her a reply".

And she mentioned that she would like to have this branded bag for present. I did not promised anything, but since then she would ask me on a weekly basis when I will buy her the bag.

I am really turned off by her incessant msg. What really puzzles me is, we are not even that close in the first place:

1)I RTF around 5-6 times in the past 3 months
2)We exchange sms like maybe once a week, it's always the same thing, saying she miss me and asking when i will be looking for her.
3)We went out 1 time for dinner on her off day.

I know it's my fault as I should not even have exchanged number with her in the first place. But I have exchanged numbers with my regular WL and none of them has been like this.
Is there any ways I can handle this as if this continues, can I speak to her OKT (she belongs to a CAT150 house) about this?
Appreciate any advices and thanks in advance.

unregistered_10 · #2 24-01-2013, 08:59 PM

She must be doing this to others , also ,
In the end , she will have a bagful collection of gifts

TehGaDai · #3 24-01-2013, 09:05 PM

Is She pretty? Sexy hot bod? Haha... Yah agree! She should be doing all those stuffs to other men. In the end, all the $$$ She got.

SadLoser · #4 24-01-2013, 09:40 PM

I am just worried that she might to stalk me. Maybe I am being paranoid, but this is the first time i encounter such persistence...

Balmung · #5 24-01-2013, 10:03 PM

Change your HP number.
Or Go visit her delete your HP number and message on her phone

flowbow · #6 24-01-2013, 10:13 PM

If you have been replying her messages/answering her calls, just stop and ignore her completely. I believe she will give up soon.

goodu · #7 24-01-2013, 10:20 PM

what phone u using? some phones can block sms

SadLoser · #8 24-01-2013, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by flowbow

If you have been replying her messages/answering her calls, just stop and ignore her completely. I believe she will give up soon.

I hope so too, but i am just surprised by how she doesn't seem to give up. My last msg to her was 3 weeks ago. Till today, she still message me!

I am just worried if she can find my address through my HP number...

SadLoser · #9 24-01-2013, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by goodu

what phone u using? some phones can block sms

Bro, i am using i-phone

flowbow · #10 24-01-2013, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by SadLoser

I hope so too, but i am just surprised by how she doesn't seem to give up. My last msg to her was 3 weeks ago. Till today, she still message me!

I am just worried if she can find my address through my HP number...

Don't you use a prepaid number when you go chiong?

Anyway I doubt she can find your address la, but if you are really concerned, maybe you can try speaking to her OKT... If her OKT is nice enough he might help you. Not sure because I don't chiong, but hope my suggestions are helpful!

Otherwise, just stop contacting her completely and I'm sure she will give up in time to come when she realizes her efforts are not fruitful at all.

SadLoser · #11 24-01-2013, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by flowbow

Don't you use a prepaid number when you go chiong?

Anyway I doubt she can find your address la, but if you are really concerned, maybe you can try speaking to her OKT...

It's my own carelessness as I just use my own number when I cheong...

i have learnt my lesson though...

passiontea · #12 24-01-2013, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by SadLoser

It's my own carelessness as I just use my own number when I cheong...

i have learnt my lesson though...

Bro, i understand completely how you feel. I also used my own no. to chiong on this massage girl, and like on a sunday, she suddenly just called me and ask why you didn't call back. But i act blur like who are you?! lol.

It is kind of freaky sia, when it is a 1 time off and suddenly a girl just say, I miss u. =D

Max77 · #13 24-01-2013, 11:16 PM

I tot ignoring her can liao, unless she got ur address then habis

She's making a living, that's her marketing strategy.

Must have succeed many times that's why she keep using the same tactics...lol

JacqueMerlin · #14 24-01-2013, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by SadLoser

Need some advices from bros here on how to handle this situation- got to know this prc cat150 wl and she has been persistently sending me sms, either claiming that she misses me or asking when i will buy her the present as "promised" (she requested for a branded bag which costs around $1K).

In an attempt to end contact with her, I recently replied to her that I have patched up with my girlfriend and hence will not be going down to GL anymore. I thought this should be the end of story.
But to my surprise, she continued sending me msg every few days. As I did not reply anymore, she is now asking "why am I ignoring her" and/or "Can I at least give her a reply".

And she mentioned that she would like to have this branded bag for present. I did not promised anything, but since then she would ask me on a weekly basis when I will buy her the bag.

I am really turned off by her incessant msg. What really puzzles me is, we are not even that close in the first place:

1)I RTF around 5-6 times in the past 3 months
2)We exchange sms like maybe once a week, it's always the same thing, saying she miss me and asking when i will be looking for her.
3)We went out 1 time for dinner on her off day.

I know it's my fault as I should not even have exchanged number with her in the first place. But I have exchanged numbers with my regular WL and none of them has been like this.
Is there any ways I can handle this as if this continues, can I speak to her OKT (she belongs to a CAT150 house) about this?
Appreciate any advices and thanks in advance.

Subject Name: Candidate #24
Potential: Carrot Head
Potential Level: 3.5/10
Priority Level: 5/10
remarks: Subject not likely to part with $$$, intending to severe contacts citing reconciliation with gf as excuse.

Recommendation: Channel 70% of attention spent on candidate #24 on candidate #48 and Candidate #52 Meanwhile continue to harrass subject till he relents but offer no more GFE until some justifiable rewards are reaped.

__________________________

Congratulations, you are one of the subjects in her list. My advise, just ignore her calls. As she gains difficulty trying to reach you, your priority level will decrease and as your priority level plummets... so will the harrassment. Press on for this period.

wally888 · #15 25-01-2013, 01:40 AM

Also tell her u got no more $$$ as u planning to get married, see how she responds