My Salutation

[whiteangelcsh]

Nobody can tell who’s who and who does stuff for free and who does stuff for money. Nobody can tell who likes sex and gives it away, gratis, and who makes you pay for it. So sitting in indignant moral judgment about how people are entirely defined by how they earn a living is not only offensive, but also wrong.

Ever spare a moment in time to ponder upon how they are working alone, unprotected, in the dark and the rain and the cold, for that much needed money and at the mercy of any pevert that comes along.

They are somebody’s daughter, mother, sister, and somebody somewhere loves them, despite their life choices. They were once innocent little children, even if their innocence was fleeting, often through no fault of their own. They haven’t had lovely lives and now here they are.

Do we care, especially? Not really. We only become interested when there’s something bad happened to them and the whole thing takes on an appalling, televisual fascination. I suppose it all depends on how much value you put on people’s lives.

Who are they? They are your everyday's freelancers. I'm not supportive of prostitution but morally, these ladies deserves a clap, not just a bang.

[goodpartner]

Subject title not appropriate lah, else this thread sure invite lots of wind, rain and fire one

First camper.

[alan0338]

wa low eh,tis thread is breaking my heart

[Ronsee]

Tissue! Tissue! huhuhuhu

[Chery QQ]

Originally Posted by Ronsee

Tissue! Tissue! huhuhuhu

I need a pail..... Huhuhu.....

[whiteangelcsh]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Subject title not appropriate lah, else this thread sure invite lots of wind, rain and fire one

First camper.

I'm saluting FLs, not writing story or encounters here. Frankly, who ever cares abt them in the real world. Some are out in this trade for pure monetary or thrill pleasures, but the main bulk are strayed persons of our equal human spirituals.

[Kennydalglish]

Originally Posted by whiteangelcsh

Nobody can tell who’s who and who does stuff for free and who does stuff for money. Nobody can tell who likes sex and gives it away, gratis, and who makes you pay for it. So sitting in indignant moral judgment about how people are entirely defined by how they earn a living is not only offensive, but also wrong.

Ever spare a moment in time to ponder upon how they are working alone, unprotected, in the dark and the rain and the cold, for that much needed money and at the mercy of any pevert that comes along.

They are somebody’s daughter, mother, sister, and somebody somewhere loves them, despite their life choices. They were once innocent little children, even if their innocence was fleeting, often through no fault of their own. They haven’t had lovely lives and now here they are.

Do we care, especially? Not really. We only become interested when there’s something bad happened to them and the whole thing takes on an appalling, televisual fascination. I suppose it all depends on how much value you put on people’s lives.

Who are they? They are your everyday's freelancers. I'm not supportive of prostitution but morally, these ladies deserves a clap, not just a bang.

very true. the only way to protect the rights of these ladies from exploitation will be to regulate them. but it seems unlikely to ever happen.

[talismann]

If we applaud freelancers, do we worship the women, who in spite of tremendous difficulties, refuse to take the easy way out by prostituting themselves? To me, its a cop-out, prostitutes work for your money and man earn a damn good living doing it that way. Better than you or me.

To feel sympathetic towards them because of the occupational hazards of the flesh trade is warp logic, man. Nothing wrong to choose this line but I won't go so far as to respect them for making this choice.

[talismann]

Originally Posted by Kennydalglish

very true. the only way to protect the rights of these ladies from exploitation will be to regulate them. but it seems unlikely to ever happen.

Regulated prostitution already exists, think of our local red light districts.

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

Originally Posted by talismann

If we applaud freelancers, do we worship the women, who in spite of tremendous difficulties, refuse to take the easy way out by prostituting themselves? To me, its a cop-out, prostitutes work for your money and man earn a damn good living doing it that way. Better than you or me.

To feel sympathetic towards them because of the occupational hazards of the flesh trade is warp logic, man. Nothing wrong to choose this line but I won't go so far as to respect them for making this choice.

This post sums up everything that i wanted to say.

Great post - deserve my 6 sperms

[calvintan123]

Life is all about choices.
we may make right choices or wrong choices...only one self will know.
They made their choice for good or for bad...thats already become s fact and they have got to live with it.

FLs, all they provide is a service , amid with their flesh blood and body.
look at it this way...

If a sale man who sweats it out day and night to earn his keep uses his skills to exchange for a living

A FL also sweats it out day and night and uses her skills to exchange for a living

jus because it involves sex does not justify the downgrade

let me quote an example ,
loose married or single woman who throng night clubs and discos in search for ONS and sex..these woman offer themself for FREE..and many a times do not even use proper sex protection, i condem these people , i dun think they are successful even though they may earn alot and have high post and good careers...they have extremely loose morality and zero dignity...to me they are what i call cheap thrill or free F_ck...
At least the FLs has a price...and if i look for their service i need to pay them...

since ancient times prostitution is the oldest form of service trade....till now.
i seriously have alot of RESPECT for FLs, and i think they are here to help us out. too much of demand too little choices. If not for them...this society will be full of rapist and molesters...these people are here to help lower sex crime rate and at times like wat TS said...at their life risk.

Bottomline...its their choice.

[talismann]

Originally Posted by GeMiNiZzzzZzz

This post sums up everything that i wanted to say.

Great post - deserve my 6 sperms

Thank you but did you really have to call it 6 sperms? It feels like a bukkake I didn't ask for!

Originally Posted by calvintan123

let me quote an example ,
loose married or single woman who throng night clubs and discos in search for ONS and sex..these woman offer themself for FREE..and many a times do not even use proper sex protection, i condem these people , i dun think they are successful even though they may earn alot and have high post and good careers...they have extremely loose morality and zero dignity...to me they are what i call cheap thrill or free F_ck...
At least the FLs has a price...and if i look for their service i need to pay them...

since ancient times prostitution is the oldest form of service trade....till now.
i seriously have alot of RESPECT for FLs, and i think they are here to help us out. too much of demand too little choices. If not for them...this society will be full of rapist and molesters...these people are here to help lower sex crime rate and at times like wat TS said...at their life risk.

Bottomline...its their choice.

Your example seem to be picking on women. Would you condemn men who do the same thing? I hope you would because people waiting to label you as a MCP are standing by. That aside, I do not see a balanced comparison there. One set of women have sex to make a living (which is after all the context of this thread) and your example is about women who are out to have fun. I won't go so far to regard them to "have extremely loose morality and zero dignity" and while you accord women who choose prostitution to earn their keep to have made a choice down this path, ditto for those in your example mentioned. For the latter, it is at least discretionary, they don't sleep with strangers because its they have to.

A society full of rapists and molesters is such because of a fucked-up domestic security system, not because of an abundance of FLs.

[calvintan123]

bro talismann,

U seem to misunderstand my point. I taking abt choices...and it applies even to men. We all make choices....and we live with the choices we made.

If I have a case of an FL, someone who provide sex so as to survive
VS
A case of a married Female manager working in a respectable institution but can sleep with a stranger she met clubbing jus for the kick of it...in what u deem as fun.

I would give the FL more respect....that's my choice.

All above comments are strictly self deduct..and all examples quoted are hypothetica situation with no reference to anyone or anybody.if my comments cause hurt and pain, I apologise in advance as I do not wish to cause any harm.

Cheers

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Bro talismann, 1st of all, your posts were very well-said. I read it over few times. No offend intended. Yes, think it's a case of misunderstanding with Bro calvintan123 earlier post cos he was citing examples on choices we make - a Slut or a FL.

Originally Posted by calvintan123

Life is all about choices.
we may make right choices or wrong choices...only one self will know.
They made their choice for good or for bad...thats already become s fact and they have got to live with it.......Bottomline...its their choice.

I agreed with above. It's like when we eat salty fish, we will have to accept being thirsty. Whatever choices we make, we must be prudent and consider all possibilities and risk at play cos at the end of day we take full responsibility of the choices we made.

Thanks, TS (Bro or Sis whiteangelcsh) for this food for thought thread.

Cheers, Peace out

[talismann]

In the context of this thread, my basic premise is that any adulation placed on prostitutes, which we euphemise as freelancers, is misplaced. Its a cop-out, plain and simple. I have no qualms tipping my hat to the sacked toilet cleaner living in Yuhua, who used to slog out her guts without Minimum Wages to put her 3 sons through school. But sorry, I can't bring myself to regard a prostitute at the same level. You cannot compare them against each other Its simply disrespectful to all the women around who go to work with their head held high. The vocations are not the same. Ask any prostitute if they openly tell their family and friends what they do for a living. Its not unreasonable to assume most would conceal that fact.

Don't get me wrong, this is not a high ground issue. Stretching the issue to the extreme...assuming you are a disabled husband that cannot work, would you ever push your wife to become a prostitute to feed the family? I think not... there are some lines we don't want to cross. Its clear that for some, prostitution is fine as long as it doesn't befall a close one.

No offense taken or meant, bros. In the light of this discussion, we may have some differences in opinions but that's what we need as a society to progress.