he finds it hard to cum

[lov3rboy]

theres this so called bro of mine. he has problem in cumming. he says the hardest part of fcuking is to cum. he can fcuk for hours but doesnt have the urge to cum. he asked if this normal n i said mayb. lol.
anyone facing this or have similar stories? fyi, that didnt happen once but he mentioned many times before and to different gerls.

[Bernanke]

Originally Posted by lov3rboy

anyone facing this or have similar stories? fyi, that didnt happen once but he mentioned many times before and to different gerls.

Had one friend with this issue, but he found out it was stress related,
maybe your friend has stressful job/life

[stromuff]

Usually that's a sign that you are:
1. Masturbating too much
2. You are past your prime
3. You have too much on your mind
4. Too much porn
5. Too tired
6. You are cheating on someone
7. You are closet gay and girls don't turn you on

Usually it's number one. A quick test you can do it. Try not masturbating for 3 days and then have sex and see if you have improved. If it does then it's likely the masturbation. A quick solution if you love to masturbate, lube up. Masturbate with lubricants. Use your hand to simulate a vagina. You will find that it will take a long time too but overtime it gets sensitive. The other option is to get a masturbation toy like a Tenga. The toy will help train your penis to be more sensitive. you can also use it during foreplay.

2 cents

[callmebad]

besides masturbation, probably psychological reason such as too tense up,
suggest you hold off from sex for a while to see how and then resume to see if the problem still exist
if possible, should go and visit a sex therapist

[bogey031]

i tot mastubate too much will make us cum faster??

[callmebad]

masturbate can delay the ejaculation time
some people use masturbation to train themselves to delay the ejaculation time

[ducal]

If I fuck a gorgeous looking girl I have no problem cumming. But when the girl is so so then it will take a longer time. It's all in the mind.

[Bernanke]

Originally Posted by callmebad

some people use masturbation to train themselves to delay the ejaculation time

Wow, i did not know that

[Boediono]

Originally Posted by callmebad

masturbate can delay the ejaculation time
some people use masturbation to train themselves to delay the ejaculation time

Thank for sharing.

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by callmebad

masturbate can delay the ejaculation time
some people use masturbation to train themselves to delay the ejaculation time

Agree. Some people purposely masturbate hours before a sexual intercourse/session. But frequent masturbation may lead to difficulties in ejaculation during sex.

I have a friend who normally exceed the stipulated time of 45min with a FL. Sometimes he simply end the session with a HJ or paid the FL extra. The feeling is certainly shitty. During one meet-up, our group of friends tried to find out the root cause for him, and listed down his personal habits and routines. We discovered that he (a mid 30s man) was masturbating once to twice a day. He said PCC relieves his daily stress. I'm not sure if it is excessive, but there is no problem for him to maintain the erection. As such, one experienced chiongster friend advised him to cut down on his daily PCC activity. He took the advice. Weeks later, he told us that he can cum within 15-25min, normally into the pussy with a condom on.

[crashburnt]

I used to have the same problem but less severe I guess. The reason for my problem in cumming is because I always cum by masturbating when lying on my side since my awakening. I have difficulty cumming when masturbating lying down or in upright positions. That is why no gals I had have ever made me cum by hj or bj. The only time I cum by bj was lying on my side too... As you may guess, I also used to have difficulty cumming in missionary, doggie and other upright positions. It's not that I can last, but I will soften without cumming when I become exhausted. The way I corrected this problem is after I met my wife. At first, I cannot cum too and our sex sessions always ended with me totally exhausted and her unsatisfied and worried if she was unattractive. After learning about my problem, we started to slowly find a solution. My wife suggested I enter her while lying on my side like I was masturbating. Wow it worked and I cum pretty fast. We continue doing the same and slowly change our positions... If I cannot sum, we will go by the side again and I can cum in no time. After some time, I began to find the cumming feeling in missionary and doggie and I managed to cum too but not after some heavy pumping.

The above is my personal experience... for your friend, you can check if he has a specific position or method in masturbating that gives him the feeling to cum. That may be the root cause... just my two cents worth.

[owl888]

Originally Posted by stromuff

Usually that's a sign that you are:
1. Masturbating too much
2. You are past your prime
3. You have too much on your mind
4. Too much porn
5. Too tired
6. You are cheating on someone
7. You are closet gay and girls don't turn you on

Any of above also possible, guess have to hear it from TS

[KevinJacob]

Thanks to all bros for sharing. Good to take note....