A Viet KTV girl i met

[oskiezo]

I started cheonging a particular Viet KTV joint and got to know one of the ladies working there which i regularly sit with. I will usually go down once or twice a week and she would always sit with me as I enjoyed her companionship. Naturally, we got closer and she started asking me out which I rejected as I do not want to develop any feelings for ladies working in such places and she also has a Singaporean husband. However recently, she rejected taking tips from me as she said she wants to see me more often. I was happy of course as this would mean cheaper visits every time. We would also have supper after KTV where I would send her home after that sharing the same taxi. I was shocked that she insisted on paying for the cab fare each time which I rejected but she was too persistent. Being how nice she was to me really made me like her as a KTV companion. However, things changed the last time I visited as she told me she would not want to sit with me again as she is developing feelings for me. I did not took it seriously at first as I thought this was just another flirt line. I told her to just treat this as a friendship and not to put any feelings into it. It was then she burst into tears which really broke my heart. I comforted her and kept telling her not to think too much and continue sitting with me which she persistently rejected and blocked me from her WeChat. I brought her to supper that night and sent her home. She insisted on paying as usual and we didn't talk much on the cab. It was before she exit the cab that I see tears forming in her eyes. She closed the door and I see her wiping tears off which at that moment really hurt my heart. Any bros out there have similar experience or advice for me?

[moneydik]

Well don't fall into trap... later you will have to support her village in her country.

[conquer]

That's part of the game, go enjoy it but don't take it too seriously.

[greatdane88]

Originally Posted by oskiezo

I started cheonging a particular Viet KTV joint and got to know one of the ladies working there which i regularly sit with. I will usually go down once or twice a week and she would always sit with me as I enjoyed her companionship. Naturally, we got closer and she started asking me out which I rejected as I do not want to develop any feelings for ladies working in such places and she also has a Singaporean husband. However recently, she rejected taking tips from me as she said she wants to see me more often. I was happy of course as this would mean cheaper visits every time. We would also have supper after KTV where I would send her home after that sharing the same taxi. I was shocked that she insisted on paying for the cab fare each time which I rejected but she was too persistent. Being how nice she was to me really made me like her as a KTV companion. However, things changed the last time I visited as she told me she would not want to sit with me again as she is developing feelings for me. I did not took it seriously at first as I thought this was just another flirt line. I told her to just treat this as a friendship and not to put any feelings into it. It was then she burst into tears which really broke my heart. I comforted her and kept telling her not to think too much and continue sitting with me which she persistently rejected and blocked me from her WeChat. I brought her to supper that night and sent her home. She insisted on paying as usual and we didn't talk much on the cab. It was before she exit the cab that I see tears forming in her eyes. She closed the door and I see her wiping tears off which at that moment really hurt my heart. Any bros out there have similar experience or advice for me?

lets head down together next time. would like to c how much tears she has.

[Euphoriaaa]

Originally Posted by oskiezo

I started cheonging a particular Viet KTV joint and got to know one of the ladies working there which i regularly sit with. I will usually go down once or twice a week and she would always sit with me as I enjoyed her companionship. Naturally, we got closer and she started asking me out which I rejected as I do not want to develop any feelings for ladies working in such places and she also has a Singaporean husband. However recently, she rejected taking tips from me as she said she wants to see me more often. I was happy of course as this would mean cheaper visits every time. We would also have supper after KTV where I would send her home after that sharing the same taxi. I was shocked that she insisted on paying for the cab fare each time which I rejected but she was too persistent. Being how nice she was to me really made me like her as a KTV companion. However, things changed the last time I visited as she told me she would not want to sit with me again as she is developing feelings for me. I did not took it seriously at first as I thought this was just another flirt line. I told her to just treat this as a friendship and not to put any feelings into it. It was then she burst into tears which really broke my heart. I comforted her and kept telling her not to think too much and continue sitting with me which she persistently rejected and blocked me from her WeChat. I brought her to supper that night and sent her home. She insisted on paying as usual and we didn't talk much on the cab. It was before she exit the cab that I see tears forming in her eyes. She closed the door and I see her wiping tears off which at that moment really hurt my heart. Any bros out there have similar experience or advice for me?

She will probably get over you in a week or two. Trust me. One more you one lesser you really doesn't matter. cheers mate.

[alan1999]

Originally Posted by oskiezo

I started cheonging a particular Viet KTV joint and got to know one of the ladies working there which i regularly sit with. I will usually go down once or twice a week and she would always sit with me as I enjoyed her companionship. Naturally, we got closer and she started asking me out which I rejected as I do not want to develop any feelings for ladies working in such places and she also has a Singaporean husband. However recently, she rejected taking tips from me as she said she wants to see me more often. I was happy of course as this would mean cheaper visits every time. We would also have supper after KTV where I would send her home after that sharing the same taxi. I was shocked that she insisted on paying for the cab fare each time which I rejected but she was too persistent. Being how nice she was to me really made me like her as a KTV companion. However, things changed the last time I visited as she told me she would not want to sit with me again as she is developing feelings for me. I did not took it seriously at first as I thought this was just another flirt line. I told her to just treat this as a friendship and not to put any feelings into it. It was then she burst into tears which really broke my heart. I comforted her and kept telling her not to think too much and continue sitting with me which she persistently rejected and blocked me from her WeChat. I brought her to supper that night and sent her home. She insisted on paying as usual and we didn't talk much on the cab. It was before she exit the cab that I see tears forming in her eyes. She closed the door and I see her wiping tears off which at that moment really hurt my heart. Any bros out there have similar experience or advice for me?

Haha....read your story and was feeling kind of gross...She is setting a trap for u to fall into. Dun u feel it? Now dun take your money but later when trap is hooked, you will fork out everything u have! You said u dun want to develop feeling and not a player, but read your story properly.....you r feeling for her! From Vietnam and married a man here...most likely is paid marriage. She has time with her. She is not those fly in/out with limited time, trying to make as mush money as possible. She has time on her side. Look, a Vietnamese women that can come to Singapore to arrange for fake married, doesn't want to take money from u? To u, it's free and feels good! To her, it's an investment! I suggest why not u suggest this to her...Ask her which part of Vietnam she is from? Tell her u strike 4D and propose a holiday with her back to Vietnam. All expenses paid by u! Come Vietnam n find me...i will tear open her mask and show u what type of person she really is! Good luck!

[jameschong1]

Don't fall into her cb trap, u cb kia!
Listen to James Chong, the kc expert - crocodile tears, later tear u apart, suck u dry. do u have $? unless u are top property consultant

[EtherC]

TS stay far away, you're not ready to play KC game with Viet bu. If a few tears can break your heart you ain't no heartless bastard who can fuck & leave without remorse.
Seen many of their kind ply their wares & wiles. Not worth your time and $ unless you like to get embroiled in their shit. In most situations its the guys who lose their wives & kids, their career and $.
Play the shining knight to people who really need your help, not ktv girls. Best of luck!

[Anzore]

My friend married a Viet girl, at first ok but later very demanding.. don't know how now cos long time no contact

[sexrookie]

Viet girl crying is part of their daily life.

They can cry with tears drops flowing from their eyes and have picture taken.

Next they will post in Facebook.

You will see many friends post many many "Like" in that thread.

You need to understand their Viet culture

[AhHeng46]

I got fell in love with a malaysian ktv girl before, but no good ending one.

[Belt]

ts dont worry abt her, and we can take good care of her if needed

Viet gels more $$ mind and game-mind than other sea country gels ... if you cannt handle then walk-away is best choice

[adamsy]

Originally Posted by oskiezo

I started cheonging a particular Viet KTV joint and got to know one of the ladies working there which i regularly sit with. I will usually go down once or twice a week and she would always sit with me as I enjoyed her companionship. Naturally, we got closer and she started asking me out which I rejected as I do not want to develop any feelings for ladies working in such places and she also has a Singaporean husband. However recently, she rejected taking tips from me as she said she wants to see me more often. I was happy of course as this would mean cheaper visits every time. We would also have supper after KTV where I would send her home after that sharing the same taxi. I was shocked that she insisted on paying for the cab fare each time which I rejected but she was too persistent. Being how nice she was to me really made me like her as a KTV companion. However, things changed the last time I visited as she told me she would not want to sit with me again as she is developing feelings for me. I did not took it seriously at first as I thought this was just another flirt line. I told her to just treat this as a friendship and not to put any feelings into it. It was then she burst into tears which really broke my heart. I comforted her and kept telling her not to think too much and continue sitting with me which she persistently rejected and blocked me from her WeChat. I brought her to supper that night and sent her home. She insisted on paying as usual and we didn't talk much on the cab. It was before she exit the cab that I see tears forming in her eyes. She closed the door and I see her wiping tears off which at that moment really hurt my heart. Any bros out there have similar experience or advice for me?

viet bu highly money minded, even worse than sg women

[peekaboo]

TS, those viet bu working in sg as what? they also working same thing in viet except that the income there not good there. If they can come all the way here to make money then they are driven by greed. Some of the sg here married viet wife. They are also smart, they also wanted to try their luck to marry and get PR here. I have a relative married a viet wife, run back to viet for about more then 1 yr. The viet wife lie to him to send her money for his kid. After asking for photos, he realize he kanna con by her and stop sending money. The viet wife kanna send back to sg by her parents. Even their parents also want to wash hands. I heard some stories abt having viet gf like your case, the relationship is very straight forward. If you wan that kind of relationship, be prepared to send money back to feed their family there.

[thomas]

I've met many married Viet girls working in nightclubs. They are all PR. Either married or divorce. They all lied to their husbands that they r working in some restaurant as waitress. U can't find them in k2, W etc in case they bump into someone. They r found in japanese nightclubs. So brothers with Viet wife pls beware. True stories bro.