HELP! need advice, my bro tio caught i think

[biozaogeng]

Dear Bros + Sis,

like many before me, i have been affected by the SBF syndrome and everytime I see my colleagues in low cut tops or short skirts i tend to bio them when they sit down, lean forward, or sit down and cross their legs.

last time fire drill take stairs i try very hard to resist to look up all the SYT and OL panties and g-strings although I saw a few (but not from my department)

anyway, recently my close friend at work (who also has the SBF syndrome) but maybe worse, tried to film an upskirt of our hot colleague.

She was close to him taking stuff from her desk (adjacent to his) and he bent down to take stuff from his bag while trying his act. But, after that, he says she seemed to gave him dirty looks and avoided him. and it seems, all the females in the department (and some from other) seem to be giving him strange looks too.

WORSE THING IS... i am HIS SI DANG in the office and they automatically associate me with him!

HENG, my boss and boss boss both male, but got 2 big boss is female. so far, nothing so i don't think the girl got report but seems my bro (AND ME) now got bed rep in the company, how to promote or survive?

incident happened 3 weeks ago.. but to 'protect' my bro haha, the girl wear the skirt really really super short (HR should enforce it dress code policy and make her go home change). its those kind just cover ass and very 'fluffy' and airy one, wind blow sure can see kar chng or go up high escalator sure can see her butt (personally seen before and is normal escalator) and she 4 out of 5 days will wear this kind of slutty skirt.

now how?

any advice?

[Jojolee]

Time to change job already.

[g_rider]

so, let me get this straight:

1) your "bro" got caught trying to take an upskirt of a female colleague (btw, so very kind of you to take time out on SBF on behalf of your "bro", you are such a good samaritan, who needs laws and rules when there are such stand up citizens like you around?)

2) this girl is always wearing such short and slutty skirts, that HR should reprimand HER (not your "bro") because, after all, if you wear such clothes, then of course when a sleazy male colleague wants to take a surreptitious keep sake they are fully entitled -- simply speaking these kinds of sluts are simply "begging" to have their privacy violated, correct?

3) and anyways, this is all due to "SBF Syndrome" so that excuses any wayward / deviant behavior.

In fact, as Mel Gibson said recently, if they "get raped by a pack of n****" it will be their fault.

Does that about sum up your "bro's" situation?

p.s. life must really suck right about now for you... er, I mean your "bro"...

[sun814]

Originally Posted by g_rider

so, let me get this straight:

1) your "bro" got caught trying to take an upskirt of a female colleague (btw, so very kind of you to take time out on SBF on behalf of your "bro", you are such a good samaritan, who needs laws and rules when there are such stand up citizens like you around?)

2) this girl is always wearing such short and slutty skirts, that HR should reprimand HER (not your "bro") because, after all, if you wear such clothes, then of course when a sleazy male colleague wants to take a surreptitious keep sake they are fully entitled -- simply speaking these kinds of sluts are simply "begging" to have their privacy violated, correct?

3) and anyways, this is all due to "SBF Syndrome" so that excuses any wayward / deviant behavior.

In fact, as Mel Gibson said recently, if they "get raped by a pack of n****" it will be their fault.

Does that about sum up your "bro's" situation?

p.s. life must really suck right about now for you... er, I mean your "bro"...

wah, for me if i hv the power, u will be the first one i will zap n i m sure all sis here will zap u too. base of your theory, i think a lot of woman in s'pore are "sluts" waiting to be rapped liao as i can see them almost everywhere. i hope that ur sisters/gfs/wife don't wear short skirts as if all men thinks the same way like u do, they will be in danger. Pls hv the basic respect for women!

[g_rider]

Originally Posted by sun814

wah, for me if i hv the power, u will be the first one i will zap n i m sure all sis here will zap u too. base of your theory, i think a lot of woman in s'pore are "sluts" waiting to be rapped liao as i can see them almost everywhere. i hope that ur sisters/gfs/wife don't wear short skirts as if all men thinks the same way like u do, they will be in danger. Pls hv the basic respect for women!

wow, your English comprehension is horrid. I was being sarcastic, but I guess that kind of nuance would go straight over your head since you clearly can't read.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by g_rider

wow, your English comprehension is horrid. I was being sarcastic, but I guess that kind of nuance would go straight over your head since you clearly can't read.

haha, if my english comprehension is horrid, then i must say ur writting is just as horrid n your scarcasism is over the board as i can't see in anyway reason why u should mention those two sentences i highlighted in bold unless the TS had also implicitly/explicitly believes in them which i can't see from his post.

[TokyoMan]

Originally Posted by sun814

wah, for me if i hv the power, u will be the first one i will zap n i m sure all sis here will zap u too. base of your theory, i think a lot of woman in s'pore are "sluts" waiting to be rapped liao as i can see them almost everywhere. i hope that ur sisters/gfs/wife don't wear short skirts as if all men thinks the same way like u do, they will be in danger. Pls hv the basic respect for women!

Don't worry brother. I'll zap him for you as well as myself after my power regains.

[Mr MCBB]

Originally Posted by g_rider

2) -- simply speaking these kinds of sluts are simply "begging" to have their privacy violated, correct?

My oh my oh my I always thought such misconceptions are only rife in third or fourth world countries this is why women in those countries are always down trodden upon

[bonkster]

TS, if your bro can't abide by the fundamental "don't shit where u eat" rule, he needs to either get used to eating shit or eat elsewhere.

By the way, perhaps she didn't notice him filming? If she did, i think your bro is one lucky chap to have been caught by a female colleague who didn't report it to her boss or called the police. With his good luck, maybe it's time he drop by MBS with his lifesavings.

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by bonkster

With his good luck, maybe it's time he drop by MBS with his lifesavings.

what if his luck run out of stock?

[Criminalz]

Dunno man...hard to give advice without much visual. how about taking some pictures of the girl and also check if your "bro" succeeded in the filming, upload it too and let us advise you accordingly.

[biozaogeng]

lol!

u guys ah... tsk tsk.

first of all, it's really my friend and not me. AND YES I DID ASK HIM IF HE MANAGED TO CAPTURE... lol, but he said no. he was nervous and tried to do it very fast.

and thus, no luck! so technically it was attempted and not actual insult of modesty.

AND... we're both on leave right now and we were just talking about this. no advice?

PERSONALLY, my bro not really bothered as his father name is ah seah, but i more worried coz i stay HDB and take public transport go work leh.

I did tell my wife about it, and like many of you, she said it was lucky that he did not get reported (and thus fired). [of coz i never tell her i like to bio zaogeng duh - only tell her that my friend XX kanna 'caught]

well her advice for me was pretty much along the lines of LAN LAN SUCK THUMB. so how? no real advice?

and of course it is not the fault of the girl, but i mean, they do give us the opportunity AND... the police also advice people not to wear GOLD JEWELLERY to tempt people.
hee..

and can i sue them for indecent exposure? coz everytime they flaunt their bra and underwear in front of me I shy... and that week buay pio bo tio!

but back to my situation, what would you bros do if you were me?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

HR fault? Girl fault?

Come on TS, having free shows few times weekly to get de-stress from work are not enough for you and your “sidekick” and yet, you also want to Ta-Pao for supper???? Both of you (or you) should really be thankful to her

Try to know more girls and understand them. Girls dress sexy to feel sexy and most importantly, they dress sexy to 1-up other girls and to attract the right guy. Though they like the attention and want us to notice them when they are trying to be sexy and like to be complimented for being sexy BUT they CERTAINTLY do not want us to get on all 4 drooling for more. It's "LOOK, APPRECIATE, NO TOUCH and CERTAINLY NO FILMING !!!!!

Yes, though we all like to see girls dress sexy with all the right stuffs in right places and it be disrespect if we don't look or compliment for their effort. However we need to be more stealth when checking them out and when girls gives you the dirty looks, it means they are not into you cos you are not the kind of guy they want to hit on them. It is rude to stare at people too long or look them over, apart from the creeper aspect, it’s just etiquette.

[egmar mah]

knn tis bro biozaogeng everyday only noe hw to bio zao geng. useless fool

[bonkster]

Originally Posted by alan0338

what if his luck run out of stock?

Then his losses should help him realise that without his luck he will probably end up in Changi Resort if he tried to film again.