Forgiving._.

[lollopzz]

will u forgive yr wife/girlfriend if she get up by another man???

[Return]

Its easy to forgive but difficult to forget.

[redstorm]

It depends. Is she my Wife? If she is, I will likely forgive her.

If she is my gf, it depends on how attracted I am to her. Whatever you do bro, do not take revenge and subscribe to the mentality that revenge is a dish best served cold!

2 options: Either you do not forgive her and break off with her; or you forgive her completely. But if you opt to forgive her, never ever bring it back up or dig this issue out when you all quarrel in future.

[leecs]

But if you're the 1 caught & she forgave you, women will dig up the past...

[slient]

I think cannot.... I dun think you can think about it... another man and your wife moaning away on the bed.

[redstorm]

I agree man. It takes a very big man to really be able to forgive his wife if she did something like that.

Thats why now that I am getting married; i am gonna quit the scene.

"Do not unto others what others do upon you"

[liberatte]

well, the correct person to answer this question is yourself. You can forgive, but you cannot or don't want to forget. Everybody deserves a chance. If your woman is sleeping with another, you should find out why. It may be your fault that she's doing it. As for myself, I cannot take it as well...

I would think bro PeterPan would defer on this as well.

[naemlo]

over my dead body. I can ignore her past but not present.

[jameskty2000]

aiyo,

let me ah peh tell u who ever kana caught.. easy 2 forgive but diffcult 2 forget..

even past n present...

revenge not a good idea..

i m a victim last time when a woman caught husband got affair.. n do the chinese style... "u do 1st i do the 15th" so i end up b a sex toy.. pump until siow... end up .. i stop...

[liberatte]

double post

[fazer6s]

Let he who is without sin cast the 1st stone
Says the Good book

[fazer6s]

i wld almost certainly take revenge but not by hittng her but by bonking her with much vengence that she will never want others anymore.

[singexpat]

What goes round comes around..

People UP your woman, you UP back HIS woman la.. Unless of cos she's un-upable..

Ar Bo where got so many stories come from where..

Be at peace.. Learn to 看开... u will get used to it.

After all, Women and Men nowadays although married or attached, will still go out eat abit..

Ask you everyday eat home-cooked food oso sian rite, at least 1 week muz eat outside 1-2 times rite or nt?

[Joris]

GF can forgive but wife totally NO.
NO way am i going to share my wife with another man.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Trust is like a vase..once it's broken, though you can fix it, the vase will never be same again. Rebuilding and forgiving her can be the most difficult thing we'll ever do. So it’s totally depends on you and on the fact that how much she is important to you. Cheers.