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Relationship with an FL
For the desperate brothers out there seeking for answers if a FL girl likes you or not, please read this message:
Even if you two really fall in love, if she doesn't give up her FL job, can you take it? Really? Think carefully, I couldn't. Long story ahead. So, it's been a few years since I discovered SBF, the wonders of GL (and sex in general... ![]() Pitfalls I have made? Well, it was only one, but it hurt like hell. I fell in love with a GL girl, and paid the price with a broken heart. I even swore never to go back to GL because it just brought back painful memories. But, being a workoholic, and a growing man, I have needs, and since I didn't want to go back to GL, I decided to try out the FL services listed here. So my stance was simple, I did what most would recommand "fuck and forget", and that worked out well. I would flirt with the girls just for the fuck of it, because they make great flirt practice, but that would be it. Anyway, after the first of two bonks, we decided to chat. Going against my instincts, we traded contacts, and soon, I was bombarded with "I miss you" sms's when she was in Singapore. I decided to humor her. So, well, 1 month down the line, I was in BKK for a business trip, and since I was there the night before, I decided to just call her up, ya know, since I felt like it, and I actually got ready some money. Also, my friend was in Singapore then, so I couldn't go out for a night of partying. Well, she told me to meet her (suffice to say, I got kinda lost, but after 30 minutes of walking and asking for directions, I found my way), and I found myself at her work place. A clean work place mind you. So, we started chatting, got introduce to her collegues, and all the while I was wondering "Uh... this is unexpected, I kinda expected... I don't know, ending up at Nana Plaza or Soi Cowboy...". Well, suffice to say, we got supper, ended up in my hotel, I actually made love and not just fuck, and the rest is history. A good ending one might think? Well, not a good ending, but a good beginning. I started to fall for her, she didn't ask me for money, we did what a real thai couple did, which is split for bills (e.g. sometimes she would pay, sometimes I would), and so on. But, after awhile, I decided to move the relationship to an "open" one. Why? I found a girl who is pretty, smart, charismatic, does wonderful massages and has... awesome... ahem... tongue skills, but, why was I uncertain? Well, the fact that she still does what she does. It got to the point I wanted to end it all, but it was too late. Did I fall in a trap? She did ask me for money to pay for rent once, which I didn't give because I was really in a tight spot, but the amount was correct for rent, in fact, kinda low. But we still do talk and I still do get my fun when I visit her. But end of the day, I wished I actually treated her like a FB with a possible future, instead of totally loving her. So brothers out there, true love is not impossible with FLs, but if they can't give up their... part time job because of family, and if they don't want to take your money (I actually offered once in a moment of folly), Can you deal with the constant "chan kit tueng ter! chan ruk ter mak mak!" SMS's she get from so many different names? Can you deal with constant calls from guys who pretty much the same thing, and who actually call her more then you do? None stop, every night? Can you take the gnawing feeling at the back of your head that only grows? Can you take the knowledge that she is just a few KM away from you, or in some other country, screwing with an untold amount of guys? Can you prevent the worry of her safety, be it from disease or danger in some other far away country which you can't do anything about? Can you deal with the helplessness of knowing she does what she does for money, and you can't help her? Think carefully, because, those feelings if you ask me, are worse then a broken heart, because now, even if I consider her as nothing more then a friend, it still worries me at the least. |
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Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate. ~Barnett R. Brickner Retired Samster |
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Re: Relationship with an FL
Pretty much so...
If I was rich, I could have paid for her, etc etc. but how would I know if she was cheating me? But now, I know she isn't, but I can't do anything about it. What I was trying to say is, if you get into such a relationship, either way, it's gonna be tough. I don't want anyone out there to get the illusion of "As long as I can get them to love me..." That is a big hurdle, yes, but not the only. |
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Tips for ALL samsters to handle/void PRC 1. Never be a guarantor for them. 2. Never believe what they said. 3. Never ever engage their services. 4. Never gives them any money, present or what ever stuff they request/Need. Do not up me any more.I want to stay at rep 88.
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Bro, remember when we were young, we like to play in our neighbourhood playground. In this playground we have our favourite ride, maybe a spring rocker with the shape of a spaceship that can carry our imagination towards the clouds and away from earth. As we develop an affinity to it (actually the answer is that it help our imagination more real), we go to the playground just for this favourite ride.
As you grow older and start earning, you find that you can buy a lot of things which any adults could, now that sort of gave you a right in the consumer pool in the society. You held on to this right and go to the local town council and say, hey dude I like to buy that spaceship ride, I had good childhood memories from it and like to have it within my household. I want it for myself, you say. They lean forward and patiently tell you, hey kid, that thing is a public property, it's purpose is to let other kids imagine that they can fly. |
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Well, as I have said, i have gotten over it, and our relationship is platonic at best, but I don't even consider it one.
Besides, we rarely do see each other now, and even in Singapore, there is no shortage of thai girls... ![]() The reason why I sent that story was for bros who might be in my shoes when I started, just a warning if you will. |
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FL/WL are meant for bonking only...period.
![]() ![]() Once you get into relationships, will only create headaches and unnecessary burden. So what for? Just enjoy the bonking and forget about dating... ![]() |
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Very good analogy. You lawyer is it?
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Problems often arises when you RTF too often .
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. Love me or hate me, both are in my favor… If you love me, I'll always be in your heart… If you hate me, I'll always be in your mind... TAKEN & NOT AVAILABLE
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No man, I'm a storywriter.
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yes agreed, and most of the time we have to rtf again and again because new FL contacts are getting lesser and lesser...
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Guess i share the same sentiments, about rtf too often...and ended up treating her as a friend...never know why i will worry for her...
anyway time heals, just need to forget about it, and keep telling myself its a passing cloud... |
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Yes. Got to agree that the best option is "Fuck & Forget"
"Nobody Owes Anybody Anything" |
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Well , true depend on batch thats out in the market . But its human nature to go back if you find that you click with the FL cos you expect more service from them when you both click physically and emotionally like lovers BUT do know where is the line . keep to your side of the border and you be safe ! TREAT FLs like your FBs and you never go wrong ! Must pay up after of course ! check my signature !
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. Love me or hate me, both are in my favor… If you love me, I'll always be in your heart… If you hate me, I'll always be in your mind... TAKEN & NOT AVAILABLE
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