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[labbityeo]

hey bros,
i feeling depressed and tired from all this love stuff. my prc gf broke up with me and stopped all communication.

here's what happened:

5 years ago, we meet in a orientation in a factory up north. we lead a on/off relationship where i wanted to 'see the world'. so sometimes i would 'disappear to work in some other countries for a year or so.

afterwhich, 3 years later, when her contract is up. she went back to china. but says she still thinks of me and how we can live together. but because i switch jobs often, i could not give the answer immediately. money not enough. so she hang on.

just recently, when i am looking for a job in china, she become cold towards me. i even went over for an interview alone there. as she did not meet me when i'm there, i had to stay in a hostel.

i called her and she said bad stuff abt me. saying how i make her insecure, no money and stuff. i have already accepted the job, tot that she'll be happy since its easier for us to meet. but she ask me not to come over and she wanted to live her own live alone.

why suddenly change of person? we still chat over the phone, but now no.
i'm thinking of getting a master to cast a spell on her. but dunno where to find. its been 5 years. how can i let it go like tat.

[RI 1]

Woman who will not stand by her man is not worthy for keeps

http://www.4shared.com/audio/i2gu1XD...n_-_Tammy_.htm

[Big Sexy]

What a stupid girl! she should have dump you long ago.

i'm thinking of getting a master to cast a spell on her. but dunno where to find. its been 5 years. how can i let it go like tat.

[Waha]

Originally Posted by labbityeo

hey bros,
i feeling depressed and tired from all this love stuff. my prc gf broke up with me and stopped all communication.

here's what happened:

5 years ago, we meet in a orientation in a factory up north. we lead a on/off relationship where i wanted to 'see the world'. so sometimes i would 'disappear to work in some other countries for a year or so.

afterwhich, 3 years later, when her contract is up. she went back to china. but says she still thinks of me and how we can live together. but because i switch jobs often, i could not give the answer immediately. money not enough. so she hang on.

just recently, when i am looking for a job in china, she become cold towards me. i even went over for an interview alone there. as she did not meet me when i'm there, i had to stay in a hostel.

i called her and she said bad stuff abt me. saying how i make her insecure, no money and stuff. i have already accepted the job, tot that she'll be happy since its easier for us to meet. but she ask me not to come over and she wanted to live her own live alone.

why suddenly change of person? we still chat over the phone, but now no.
i'm thinking of getting a master to cast a spell on her. but dunno where to find. its been 5 years. how can i let it go like tat.

Wah, brother you are very brave... I almost accept a offer in China because of my gf last year... Think not kind of worth it and so I turn down....

What's the point to get her back even you tried to cast spell on her... Clear indication its time for you to move on and meet more people in your life...

[arsenal_84]

let it go man...if she really loves you, she won't care whether you have money or not.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by labbityeo

hey bros,
i feeling depressed and tired from all this love stuff. my prc gf broke up with me and stopped all communication.

What do you expect from a PRC girl???

She has obviously caught a bigger fish so you're being discarded. That's life.

[labbityeo]

well bros, i really dunno. i 'm 31 this year so i tot of settling down and could make up whatever i didn't in the past.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by labbityeo

well bros, i really dunno. i 'm 31 this year so i tot of settling down and could make up whatever i didn't in the past.

If you intend to "settle down", look for a decent girl who'll be a good mother and wife.

[arsenal_84]

why not give other girls a chance ?
girls are aplenty in sg, don't necessary have to stick to one single nationality.

[labbityeo]

yea. but the downside is i sign the contract liao..to be based there..i think i'm screwed liao..PRC cannot be trusted. and my life is gone


天是棺材盖
地是棺材底
一切的人生都在棺材里

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by labbityeo

yea. but the downside is i sign the contract liao..to be based there..i think i'm screwed liao..PRC cannot be trusted. and my life is gone

I don't know what your parents taught you but one of the most basic lessons in life is that a Man should never deviate from his chosen path for the sake of a woman.

Men, especially many Singapore men, need to learn to be more assertive. The man is the head of the house and this attitude needs to start right at the beginning of any relationship.

You shouldn't be uprooting yourself to be with a woman. A woman who cares about you enough should be willing to follow you to the far reaches of planet earth. You lead the way... your woman follows.

Learn your lesson and choose wisely the next time round.

[labbityeo]

Yea but was following the heart

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by labbityeo

Yea but was following the heart

Stick to using your brains. Let the women do the "following my heart" routine.

Besides I doubt if you were actually following your heart. It was probably more a case of being led by your dick!

[Big Sexy]

Nationality got nothing to do with it in this case. No girls in their right frame of mind should marry a guy who doesn't hold a steady job for the past 5 years.

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

why not give other girls a chance ?
girls are aplenty in sg, don't necessary have to stick to one single nationality.

[labbityeo]

ya right. i'm such a useless person.