Why women like to say "I love u" after sex??

pete_the_fish · #1 29-08-2008, 03:31 AM

Just saw on TV that after the girl had sex with the guy, she said " I love u" to the guy. The guy was kind of confuse and did not say he love her. And the girl said it's ok , he doesn't have to say it.

Which reminds me of my first gf who also said "i love u" after we made out. Just making out and I didnt even made her cum or anything. And then my ex girlfriend also said " i love u" after I made her cum shiok shiok. And same for my current gf who said the love word after she had a good time in bed.

Under the circumstance which they say "i love u", I can't help but think that they love me because of my skills in bed.

So, do they really love u or they love u because of the wonderful sex?

Enzo · #2 29-08-2008, 08:33 AM

women say that after sex because of the emotional intimacy and connection they wish to feel with their man. But sadly, most men are so thick in the head to not know what women really want when they say that. Nothing to do with how good the sex is.

bloggert · #3 29-08-2008, 08:33 AM

I think for them the crux of the sexual act is not so much the physical component, but since they gave themselves physically - it is a reflection of the emotional component. They see the sexual act as a kind of emotional event - a giving of themselves emotionally. Unlike men, they can't easily separate emotions from the physical. So it is unsurprising that they said those words.

meganfox · #4 29-08-2008, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by pete_the_fish

So, do they really love u or they love u because of the wonderful sex?

Don't listen to the guys, anyhow agar agar one. Take it from a woman...

2 possibilities she said "i love you" "

1) She is feeling insecure. Women know that sex can mean nothing to the men so they have to make their position clear after the act. If you are not serious about her, RUN!

2) The sex sucks. She uses "I love you" which inadvertently translates to "you suck at making love to me but i still love you." Don't have to verify this, the girls sure deny no end to protect your ego.

bloggert · #5 29-08-2008, 09:27 AM

Lol, that's a good one Fox. Heheh - "I still love you ..." really funny

You know what would be really funny - if the guy thought about this and replied "I still love you too!" - touche! (especially after reading this post)

ekemono · #6 29-08-2008, 09:57 AM

LOL... if according to what meganfox said is true, then when we responded "I love you too", it means the gal's hole is la kopi.

AAconnection · #7 29-08-2008, 09:57 AM

when women say I love U mean, last time they don't love you but now with the Fcuk and probably shiok that they cannot experience with the other LOL

WithoutEuu · #8 29-08-2008, 10:51 AM

what if the girl ask you "would you still love me?"
ahahahaha

AustinPowers · #9 29-08-2008, 11:52 AM

women need to say it so that they would not feel that they are loose.
women need to tell themselves that they would only have sex with a man they love.
in reality, they are just as horny as men and just want to have sex.
saying 'I love you' after sex makes them feel they are good girls.

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Originally Posted by Enzo

women say that after sex because of the emotional intimacy and connection they wish to feel with their man. But sadly, most men are so thick in the head to not know what women really want when they say that. Nothing to do with how good the sex is.

Power · #10 29-08-2008, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by AustinPowers

women need to say it so that they would not feel that they are loose.
women need to tell themselves that they would only have sex with a man they love.
in reality, they are just as horny as men and just want to have sex.
saying 'I love you' after sex makes them feel they are good girls.

So wat's the difference between a good girl n a nice girl ?

A good girl is a girl who goes to a date, comes back late n goes to bed.
A nice girl is a girl who goes to a date, goes to bed then comes back late

DegenerationX · #11 29-08-2008, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Power

So wat's the difference between a good girl n a nice girl ?

A good girl is a girl who goes to a date, comes back late n goes to bed.
A nice girl is a girl who goes to a date, goes to bed then comes back late

I like this. funny and rythms

Criminalz · #12 29-08-2008, 01:30 PM

Why men like to say "i love you" before sex??

Answer: To get the girl into bed.

Why women like to say "i love you" after sex??

Answer: To get the man out of the bed.

skirtchaser639 · #13 29-08-2008, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by meganfox

Don't listen to the guys, anyhow agar agar one. Take it from a woman...

2 possibilities she said "i love you" "

1) She is feeling insecure. Women know that sex can mean nothing to the men so they have to make their position clear after the act. If you are not serious about her, RUN!

2) The sex sucks. She uses "I love you" which inadvertently translates to "you suck at making love to me but i still love you." Don't have to verify this, the girls sure deny no end to protect your ego.

LOL...interesting
any chance, i bed you, you said "i love you" and i RUN...

i don't mind the second scenario also, after we bedded you can run after you said "i love you"

John Terry · #14 29-08-2008, 03:38 PM

Man give love to get sex.

Woman give sex to get love. The woman after give sex liao, express her love to the man.... by saying "I love you"

ss_revup · #15 29-08-2008, 10:58 PM

When a woman says that, it's highly likely that she really means it.. so maybe we men should reciprocate by telling her that too??

Another reason could be she enjoys the sex and wants to let the man know..

From my past experience, my ex thai gf did say " I love u" to me after sex.. so i guess she really means it..