Cheonging Safety 101

[Doctor Drakken]

Starting with the most important one first!

Question: What do I do when a condom tears?

This is a very scary thing. First, don't panic. The condom in which you've entrusted your life has torn. Here's what to do to help avoid sexually transmitted diseases and an unwanted pregnancy.

1. Wash immediately. Share the news and hit the shower. "Wash yourself with soap and water," says an expert on emergency contraception at Princeton University. No studies have shown that soap destroys STDs, "but it won't do any harm, and it might do some good."

2. Show concern. Gently ask her to (a) inspect herself for condom bits, (b) refrain from douching, as that can push in microbes, and (c) use emergency contraception pills. If taken fewer than 72 hours after intercourse, they can prevent pregnancy.

3. Talk about history. Before you even consider having sex with a anyone, you should talk about history -- not "World War II" kind of history, but how many sexual partners she has been with, etc. If she is infected, and the condom breaks, your risk for getting a sexually transmitted disease ranges from 50 percent for gonorrhea to 0.2 percent for HIV. Should your condom break, have another chat with her about previous sex partners and diseases. If you're concerned about STDs, see your doctor and get tested within a few days. If you know you were exposed to HIV, ask your doctor about a combination anti-HIV drug treatment. This measure is expensive, controversial and unproven, but it may be your only recourse.

4. Troubleshoot. Did you use an expired condom or an oil-based lubricant? Maybe you nicked the condom with a fingernail while putting it on. Whatever the cause, eliminate it.

A study published in the American Journal of Public Health showed that men who experienced a condom break or slip were twice as likely to do so again. So be careful with condoms, breakage is not common, but it does happen!

[Midnightiger]

Before you even consider having sex with a anyone, you should talk about history -- not "World War II" kind of history, but how many sexual partners she has been with, etc.

LOL! I can imagine it happening.

Boy meets girl in a bar. Boy tries to pick up girl. Girl reciprocates. Finaaly before boy ask girl for ON, boy ask "by the way, how many sexual partners have you been with?" or questions to that effect.

Or for that matter even FL or WL.. Boy goes to GL. Sees beauthaiful PRC along Lor 8 to 10. Boy goes to her discussed everything like price, place, services, etc. Then before boy final decision, boy ask ""by the way, how many sexual partners have you been with?" or questions to that effect.

I'm sure if we ask this question, our condoms won't tear. Because chances are, we won't get to even use the condoms.

Regards

[aczeta76]

hahaha...

Always been careful loh.. my "other" always tells me that it feels different for ladies and guys without CD so u can tell diff.

Just dun get too passionate then forget all.. AND cut your nails !

[Beiyang Navy]

Hohoho funny. Please post more.

[Doctor Drakken]

Now for those bros who are married/attached or still lives with their mommies.

Question: How do I heal a hickey (also known as love bite) as fast as possible?

Answer: What is the fastest way to get rid of a bruise on the neck caused from kissing (of course, I mean a hickey). My wife/mom will flip out if she sees it and it's very obvious. Help!

Sorry, but there is no "fast way" to get rid of a hickey. In fact, there is no way to get rid of one other than by being patient. Just as you cannot make a bruise on your arm go away quickly, you cannot make one on your neck disappear.

Of course, you have a range of cover-up options, such as make-up, and creative uses of shirt collars, scarves (not recommemded unless you want to be mistaken for a gay), and turtlenecks (useful if your office is freezing). You may be able to disguise the hickey for a few days until it becomes less noticeable. Or, you can act like there's nothing wrong and be careful not to draw attention to the hickey. Maybe then your gf/wife/mom will not notice.

Chances are she will notice.

[Doctor Drakken]

Now for something close to our hearts...

Question: Why does it hurt so much when I got kicked in the groin?

Answer: Testicles are super sensitive because they're rich in nerve endings. Testes take shape in the abdomen, near the stomach and kidneys, and the nerves and blood vessels remain attached there even after the gonads hit dangle mode. That's why after a poke to the groin you feel the pain in the very pit of your stomach.

That pain is so bad that men can actually experience it simply by seeing someone else receive the blow. Ouch even talking about feels painful.

[gatsbyguy79]

I think the worst thing happening now is:

many bros feel that they wear cd for FJ is enough, but they go for BBBJ.

Haiz, don't know what to say to them.

Blow job has become more dangerous than FJ because all bros do precaution for FJ and not blowjob.

I just fear for the ladies doing BBBJ for the guys.

[SamsungBoy]

Originally Posted by gatsbyguy79

I think the worst thing happening now is:

many bros feel that they wear cd for FJ is enough, but they go for BBBJ.

Haiz, don't know what to say to them.

Blow job has become more dangerous than FJ because all bros do precaution for FJ and not blowjob.

I just fear for the ladies doing BBBJ for the guys.

are you mrgatsby too?

[Doctor Drakken]

Originally Posted by gatsbyguy79

I think the worst thing happening now is:

many bros feel that they wear cd for FJ is enough, but they go for BBBJ.

Haiz, don't know what to say to them.

Blow job has become more dangerous than FJ because all bros do precaution for FJ and not blowjob.

I just fear for the ladies doing BBBJ for the guys.

You said it! BBBJ also carries certain risks but most people just ignore it thinking that it is just being over cautious.

[Doctor Drakken]

Anyways as a follow up to my last post.

Question: Do condoms "dull" our sensations during sex? Some say every time they put one on, they claim that lose sensation, is this true?

Answer: It can take a while to get used to wearing a condom when you use a them for birth control, or for STD protection.

Interestingly enough some men report that they actually prefer using a condom because it dulls their sensations enough to slow down their urge to orgasm, and make sex last longer!

Others, say that they can't maintain an erection while wearing a condom because it desensitizes them or makes them feel entirely different sexual sensations. Some say they "can't feel a thing".

For these people the best is to try for thinner brands. The thinner brands cost more, but are still just as effective and do provide for more sensation.

But get those that are just as strong as the less thin ones! Yes, of course they will dull the feeling a little, but an STD, or an unwanted pregnancy is not worth the risk.

[GoldTooth]

Originally Posted by waltzation

Does urinating after sex help prevent STD?
Urinating is useful in the male because the urine may help flush away any STD germs that have not penetrated the lining of the urethra (urine pipe). It is less useful in women because infection usually occurs inside the vagina and urine does not flush this area.
what i found on net.

Just to share also what I found on the net :

It is widely believed that urinating after sex will prevent sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV. However, this is a myth, say medical experts.

According to Dr Basil Donovan of the National Centre in HIV Epidemiology and Clinical Research of the University of New South Wales in Australia, this notion "is a widely held belief among soldiers", but "has never been clinically proven". He adds that this idea is merely "part of the rich area of sexual myth".

HIV is transmitted via bodily fluids. Welcome back from the planet Neptune if you do not know how to prevent HIV during sexual activity!

Another myth is that the partner on top during intercourse will not catch a sexually transmitted disease. Dr Donovan notes that "some people believe infections are gravity-fed or that quick withdrawal prevents transmission. The danger of believing in and following practices based on these myths is that people may not be adequately protected against diseases, some of which are life-threatening".

It is also not proven that urinating after intercourse helps prevent a woman from getting a urinary tract infection. The theory here is that the woman should urinate soon after intercourse so that any bacteria that might possibly get into the urinary tract will be flushed out. But the theory may be dangerous to rely upon in practice. If a urinary tract infection occurs, it can eventually spread into the kidneys which can cause a kidney infection (pyelonephritis) and major problems.

Still a doubt.

[singaporekid]

great, thanks for sharing!

Great Safety brings about greater future!