Question: good pointers to share on how to really make FWB/NSA/MMF happen/occur?

[squiggle]

Hi bros, may I know/do you all have good pointers to share on how to really make FWB/NSA/MMF happen/occur? Many of the people here that I have pmed/pmed me either will promise to meet, but in the end they went quiet off without any reply/follow up after that. What kind of action or things that we should do to keep all these going and really come true?

How can we talk to the girls without annoying them or bored them off?

[conquer]

I do not believe in all sort of FB/FWB sharing. Pussy will not just fall from they sky... You gotta work hard and strive for it.

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by squiggle

Hi bros, may I know/do you all have good pointers to share on how to really make FWB/NSA/MMF happen/occur? Many of the people here that I have pmed/pmed me either will promise to meet, but in the end they went quiet off without any reply/follow up after that. What kind of action or things that we should do to keep all these going and really come true?

How can we talk to the girls without annoying them or bored them off?

I don't know the rest of the terms NSA or MMF is ... but here's what I learned from my Caucasian friends regarding FWB:

1. Having FWB with strangers is a myth.
These things happen rarely in life. Even one-night-stands are not that frequent, let alone regularly with strangers. My friends who are in their late 20s are quite open about sex, even they seldom sleep with some of their acquaintances, definitely not regularly. Because when it's regularly it becomes a relationship.

2. You only get higher chances with those you know in real life. No women want to have regular sex with somebody they don't feel comfortable with, even less so with some online strangers they never met before. Singapore is a small town, words do get around unless they're careful.

3. It really mostly depends on the woman, not you.
You could be sculpted like a Greek god, have a tongue of a snake-oil salesman, but if the woman isn't game, she's not gonna have sex with you.
You have to sort out those who are game, from the ones who aren't. For example, one of my friend is a Taiwanese girl who has a steady Taiwanese boyfriend, but occasionally sleeps with different Caucasian men (our friends too). See, it takes a special kind of woman to have this kind of mindset.

4. The woman may be game, but if you're not her type, you're out of luck.
One example is a friend of mine who is a 22-year old Italian woman. She's categorically a sex addict, who literally hits anything that has rough features/with hair on their face. We went out as a group once, 2 hairy gay guys, 2 non hairy straight guys. All are handsome. Guess what, she made out ONLY with the hairy ones (even when they're gay) when she's drunk. That night she went back with a guy she just met.

Good luck mate!

[ExBros]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

Let me share about an old uni friend of mine.

He's basically not rich, not good looking, not dressed up too refined, but has the golden tongue. I believed his record could probably put all of us into shame.

The key is always about his confidence (but must never came across as being a jerk) and how he could make the women around him feel relaxed. For example, my sister only met him once in one occasion, and she was surprised on how pleasant & flirtatious his personality is. That's how dangerous he is as a man.

If you are gonna convince a woman to spread her legs without commitment, you yourself, first and foremost must sound playful & convincing. And no lies nor promises.

In reality, women are just as lustful as men. It's just that they simply don't want to be obviously seen as a slut. So it is our job as men, to provide them with the excuses. You need to figure out yourself on what would be the specifics you need for that girl. And if you are not successful, don't be too hard on yourself. Some women are simply not game.

The first stumbling block is to get her to agree to spend time with you. Once she agreed.You need to assess what her motives are, whether she is looking for a relationship or something else. If she said she isn't looking for one, then you could escalate things further. In most cases, your chances are best during your 2nd meet. Anything later than the 3rd meet, that woman really wants a relationship.

My score has never been that great, as it would take me at least 3 weeks before scoring.

I am keen to learn from others' experiences!!

Bro, your above post quite contradictory from below

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

I don't know the rest of the terms NSA or MMF is ... but here's what I learned from my Caucasian friends regarding FWB:

1. Having FWB with strangers is a myth.
These things happen rarely in life. Even one-night-stands are not that frequent, let alone regularly with strangers. My friends who are in their late 20s are quite open about sex, even they seldom sleep with some of their acquaintances, definitely not regularly. Because when it's regularly it becomes a relationship.

2. You only get higher chances with those you know in real life. No women want to have regular sex with somebody they don't feel comfortable with, even less so with some online strangers they never met before. Singapore is a small town, words do get around unless they're careful.

3. It really mostly depends on the woman, not you.
You could be sculpted like a Greek god, have a tongue of a snake-oil salesman, but if the woman isn't game, she's not gonna have sex with you.
You have to sort out those who are game, from the ones who aren't. For example, one of my friend is a Taiwanese girl who has a steady Taiwanese boyfriend, but occasionally sleeps with different Caucasian men (our friends too). See, it takes a special kind of woman to have this kind of mindset.

4. The woman may be game, but if you're not her type, you're out of luck.
One example is a friend of mine who is a 22-year old Italian woman. She's categorically a sex addict, who literally hits anything that has rough features/with hair on their face. We went out as a group once, 2 hairy gay guys, 2 non hairy straight guys. All are handsome. Guess what, she made out ONLY with the hairy ones (even when they're gay) when she's drunk. That night she went back with a guy she just met.

Good luck mate!

But I don't quite agree with everything u said:

1. ONS is like a NSA once... so it's infrequent. And for your open friends, if you didn't see it doesn't mean it didn't happen

2. Again FWB with strangers, if you didn't see it doesn't mean it didn't happen. It's actually more thrilling, and the thrill of the chase is more fun than the act itself

3.while I agree that it depends on the women, I think if u look like Adonis and have a slick tongue, it helps, just like your friend who doesn't have looks yet his glib tongue impressed your sister

4. Again I cant agree 100% coz even if you may not look her type.. but can talk the bird down from a tree... still possible.. I know it for a fact... go dun give up.. u may be just 1 inch away from striking GOLD, even if it's a golden pussy and eat her for FREE

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by ExBros

Bro, your above post quite contradictory from below



But I don't quite agree with everything u said:

1. ONS is like a NSA once... so it's infrequent. And for your open friends, if you didn't see it doesn't mean it didn't happen

2. Again FWB with strangers, if you didn't see it doesn't mean it didn't happen. It's actually more thrilling, and the thrill of the chase is more fun than the act itself

3.while I agree that it depends on the women, I think if u look like Adonis and have a slick tongue, it helps, just like your friend who doesn't have looks yet his glib tongue impressed your sister

4. Again I cant agree 100% coz even if you may not look her type.. but can talk the bird down from a tree... still possible.. I know it for a fact... go dun give up.. u may be just 1 inch away from striking GOLD, even if it's a golden pussy and eat her for FREE

Dear ExBros,

Let's be clear here. The TS of this thread was highlighting the topic of ONS with strangers that he met online from this forum but never materialized. There is a world's difference between this approach (where people didn't start with real attraction), compared to a real life approach as the ones I highlighted in the other thread.

And if you carefully read what I wrote in relation to both respective threads, there is nothing contradictory of any sort. Different context simply allows for / lead to different scenarios in life. I stand for every words that I wrote.

Sure, once in a blue moon crazy things may happen, however, most of the time things just DON'T happen. And nobody can't argue with that.

Because if ONS/FWB/NSA/whatnots really happen that frequently in life, none of us would be sitting here in front of the keyboard discussing about it instead of banging whatever we could lay our hands on.

I am not sure about the type of thrill that you mentioned, but one thing that I do know that age is a great leveller of things. Things that used to thrill you when you were younger in your early 20s, might not necessarily bring you the same excitement as you grow wiser.

And as you grow older then you would probably learn more about your limitations.

It's like.... although it is possible to dry out the entire ocean with a spoon, it doesn't mean you should consider trying it.... unless you are really unaware of your own limitations

[watmidoin]

No need talk so much la. Two words: Alcohol + Hotel. That's it.

[watmidoin]

Originally Posted by TomMAffolter

alchol + hotel = accusations of RAPE

Those dumb enough to end up there deserve to be locked up and caned. Idiots should be kept off the streets for the good of society.

[otamay]

Originally Posted by watmidoin

Those dumb enough to end up there deserve to be locked up and caned. Idiots should be kept off the streets for the good of society.

Fully agreed here.

[LovetoBottom]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

Dear ExBros,

Let's be clear here. The TS of this thread was highlighting the topic of ONS with strangers that he met online from this forum but never materialized. There is a world's difference between this approach (where people didn't start with real attraction), compared to a real life approach as the ones I highlighted in the other thread.

And if you carefully read what I wrote in relation to both respective threads, there is nothing contradictory of any sort. Different context simply allows for / lead to different scenarios in life. I stand for every words that I wrote.

Sure, once in a blue moon crazy things may happen, however, most of the time things just DON'T happen. And nobody can't argue with that.

Because if ONS/FWB/NSA/whatnots really happen that frequently in life, none of us would be sitting here in front of the keyboard discussing about it instead of banging whatever we could lay our hands on.

I am not sure about the type of thrill that you mentioned, but one thing that I do know that age is a great leveller of things. Things that used to thrill you when you were younger in your early 20s, might not necessarily bring you the same excitement as you grow wiser.

And as you grow older then you would probably learn more about your limitations.

It's like.... although it is possible to dry out the entire ocean with a spoon, it doesn't mean you should consider trying it.... unless you are really unaware of your own limitations

Thanks for your post bro.

I was an introvert. Now opening up my shell. Porn probably skew my perception of how much sex is going on.

I am a stats person. So I think a small number has lots of sex and of course its situation or context orientated, for instance being friends with a daughter of a parent's friend and she is a nymph or some situation like that.

Anyways thank you