Need advice: Opposite of PE

[hangsong]

Need advice... recently I found that I am taking a really long time before I can reach the finishing line... kind of opposite of PE.

Some of you may think this is a good thing... in actual fact, it's getting stressful as my partner has started asking why it's taking so long...

I'm not on any medication. In terms of timing, I need more than 30 minutes of "hard time" before I can complete...

Anyone in similar boat? any advice?

[Impala]

Get a "Hotter" girl. This one is not making you turned on enough.

[hangsong]

Originally Posted by Impala

Get a "Hotter" girl. This one is not making you turned on enough.

Thanks Impala. I was thinking of the same, but thought there may be other solution lol.

[blacksocks]

or find a girl who enjoys marathon. there are some who like it slow. lots of foreplay leading to the actual shagging.

[hangsong]

Thanks for the advice bro.

I just saw another thread.. and realise maybe mine not so bad after that.. there are other bro.. who will go on for more than an hour ...

[justforfun90]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_ejaculation

not sure if this is ur case...i used to have the same problem...until my ex-gf forced me not to masturbate so much...in return she made sure i get sex at least twice a week...
from then on i didn't have this problem anymore....even now that i've returned to masturbating....i have a habit of only doing it no more than three times a week...unless i feel damn bored or stressed....

for me it was just a case of desensitized penis...so much so that intercourse doesn't stimulate me enough to ejaculate....after spending some time resensitizing the penis, all is well le....

[hangsong]

bro!!

this is same for me.. feels desensitized... so I can stay hard for 45 minutes or so most of the time.. almost all the time is above 30 minutes... usually beyond an hour... I will be too tired.. even if I stay hard.

I'd try your advice out.

thanks.

Originally Posted by justforfun90

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_ejaculation

not sure if this is ur case...i used to have the same problem...until my ex-gf forced me not to masturbate so much...in return she made sure i get sex at least twice a week...
from then on i didn't have this problem anymore....even now that i've returned to masturbating....i have a habit of only doing it no more than three times a week...unless i feel damn bored or stressed....

for me it was just a case of desensitized penis...so much so that intercourse doesn't stimulate me enough to ejaculate....after spending some time resensitizing the penis, all is well le....

[justforfun90]

no worries. hope it'll work out for you.

[hangsong]

Originally Posted by justforfun90

no worries. hope it'll work out for you.

Thanks again... but it's going to be hard (pun intended )

[cloudangel]

Originally Posted by hangsong

Need advice... recently I found that I am taking a really long time before I can reach the finishing line... kind of opposite of PE.

Some of you may think this is a good thing... in actual fact, it's getting stressful as my partner has started asking why it's taking so long...

I'm not on any medication. In terms of timing, I need more than 30 minutes of "hard time" before I can complete...

Anyone in similar boat? any advice?

My advice is try to enjoy the sex as much as possible... Most guys generally focus too much on trying to last 'longer' in order to 'perform' well....

[hangsong]

Originally Posted by cloudangel

My advice is try to enjoy the sex as much as possible... Most guys generally focus too much on trying to last 'longer' in order to 'perform' well....

thanks cloudangel... i agree that it's getting stressful...

i am actually trying to last "shorter".. and it's still not helping yet....

but i'd try not to even think about trying to come faster ..

thanks all for advice.