Practical lessons for sex?

[biggswedge12]

First off, this is not a story. More like seeking advice.

I'm a guy in my 30s. Because of my less than exciting social life, I was only attached once. Sex was somewhat a low priority for us. If things get heated up, it was mostly passionate touching & kissing. We did try to have penetrative sex once. But due to my lack of experience, it didn't turn out as I would have liked it.

We broke up because of separate issues. But that first time sexual experience left me thinking a lot. I couldn't adequately give pleasure to the one I love. I couldn't even enjoy it properly since I was quite tense. To learn more, I could read up for information all I want. But things will get very different when you’re actually doing it. Like anything, we will improve through practice. But how do I practice when I don’t have a partner?

While I'm not aiming to be a sex-guru, I really want to be a good lover. I wanna learn how my body reacts to different situations. And I want my future partner to feel loved & feel good together with me.

I'm not keen on looking for FB or ONS. Which leads me to thinking; prostitution. I've never done that and honestly, reluctant to. I'm not familiar with the culture. But my guess is, hookers get paid to pleasure you. Are there anyone who actually pay to learn about sex rather than for personal pleasure? Do you guys know anything that might be suitable for me?

Thank u in advance!

[littlekim]

i am looking for same thing,any bro or sis can share?

[ZanShen]

Hearing what you said. You cannot find a new girlfriend after the broke off. You like to learn to make and enjoy sex but refusing to find a prostitute. I suggest why not you learn to be bold 1st. Without stepping up, there is nothing you can do.

[hyperdick]

You can learn a lot by watching Japanese av porn.

[biggswedge12]

Originally Posted by ZanShen

Hearing what you said. You cannot find a new girlfriend after the broke off. You like to learn to make and enjoy sex but refusing to find a prostitute. I suggest why not you learn to be bold 1st. Without stepping up, there is nothing you can do.

Yes, I'm quite reluctant to find hookers. But I hope to see what others have done. At this point, I'd be open to suggestions.

I just don't know, does visiting hookers really make you a better partner? Are there hookers who are willing to "provide sexual lessons"? It just seem to me that you fuck them, pay, & then you fuck off. Are they really bothered about teaching you anything?

Like I said, I hadn't visited hookers before. I have no idea how it is like.

[spermmann2003]

U pay the hookers well enough, I am sure they will teach u.

[firepost]

Originally Posted by biggswedge12

Yes, I'm quite reluctant to find hookers. But I hope to see what others have done. At this point, I'd be open to suggestions.

I just don't know, does visiting hookers really make you a better partner? Are there hookers who are willing to "provide sexual lessons"? It just seem to me that you fuck them, pay, & then you fuck off. Are they really bothered about teaching you anything?

Like I said, I hadn't visited hookers before. I have no idea how it is like.

To hooker$ it's all about $$. It's pay first then fuck then off you go. If you willing to throw $$ then they may teach you when you are a regular to them. Anyway, you are paying for a service.

But once you try hookers you may be hooked!

Bro, real love is not just only sex. You and your gf just liked each other only.

[Thunder God]

TS

Why don't you find someone older (meaning a more matured working lady) explain the situation and with some monetary motivation i'm sure she'll oblige to teach you. usually those 30 and above might be more into coaching.

[Docow1000]

TS,

my 2-cents are looking for hookers may not be the answer because they (most at least) will want you finish fast so that they can move on.

[Bizsta]

Originally Posted by Thunder God

TS

Why don't you find someone older (meaning a more matured working lady) explain the situation and with some monetary motivation i'm sure she'll oblige to teach you. usually those 30 and above might be more into coaching.

very true bro stick to one experienced lady and proceed from there

[gasscut]

go get some professional help from sexologist then. google and you can find those clinic

[tinyfeet]

TS you should ask your father to teach you .

[Booker]

Agreed with what some bros here suggested.
Find a milf fl, during first appointment, just share with her your needs. Most will be willing to take up the offer.

Paid to be their regular, eg: 1 x session per week, based on listed price.
Till you think you are ready...

If not just start visiting a specific fl and after a few session, with rapport built up, then ask them to be the coach. Again, the key is paid what is listed and make the visit regular.

Don't expect anything for free hor.

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by Booker

Agreed with what some bros here suggested.
Find a milf fl, during first appointment, just share with her your needs. Most will be willing to take up the offer.

Don't expect anything for free hor.

Upz for your good suggestion here.

[JieJieJiaoWo]

Hi Bro,

You might want to try batam. They have something called 'long time', where you book a girl from around 5pm till the next day morning. Some have limited 3 shots but if you find those that has no limits of shots, then you can get them to 'teach' you, hopefully. But my suggestion is to ask the mami for service oriented ladies, most probably milf. You can go to this link which is within this forum for info on batam.

All the best!