BreakUp wif GF w/o hving sex n in the end lose out on spending lots of money on her

[seah]

Hi,
Any bros out there ever encounter such case like me as in aftering going steady for almost a year and without having sex with her and then at the end of the day, ganna breakup. Then I also find that guys always on the losing end whenever a relationship breakup cos we usually spend a lot of money on her buying this and that, send her for classes and also parents shower her with lots of stuffs also and in end, breakup becos of argument.
Find that its really not worthy and would rather spend it on FLs.
What do u bros think? Any advise?

Spend money so u get the rights to sex her up? Must as well u go GL. Pengs

Think u playing the wrong game ballz.

[enjoying]

good day bro.

every person hv it own thinking and thought. u hv woo'd your g/f to be your future wife. if u hv woo her to be your sex partner, then u should hv started screwing her long time ago.

nobody can say how long your courtship will last.
anyway, after one break off, u hv gained experience.

as for your g/f, she might say that you waste her one good year of her time.

life is up and down
when u fall, stand up again

without prejudice

[xen0n]

Errr....... I don't think the ultimate purpose of having a gf is to bed her, right? I think its like investing long-term, so as to achieve the marriage status, but of course, I might be wrong. Some here might prefer a short-term type of thingy.

Personally, I don't think its very fair to compare a FL to a gf, as the expectation is different. Hope u get what I mean.

[coolpix2075]

Originally Posted by seah

Any advise?

within a year still neber bed her or get intimate? probably tat means u and ur gf aren't tat loving yet..... relation is still better in long term as engaging WL or FL is only fark and pay and they will care abt ur money..... juz my 2 cents worth of opinion

[HushPuppy]

If you think you should have sex wif her... then next time you should know what to do liao.

[HeadOn]

sometime think of it pretty true, cos the $$ wasted could be spend on other better things, not only on FL. but den getting a gf is much more than bedding her, its more like u love her n willing to spend on her etc n ultimately lead to having a family w her..

[youlaw]

brother as the saying goes,with every ending theres a new beginning....
If you are heart broken then let all the brothers here help you ride the storm...

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by seah

Hi,
Any bros out there ever encounter such case like me as in aftering going steady for almost a year and without having sex with her and then at the end of the day, ganna breakup. Then I also find that guys always on the losing end whenever a relationship breakup cos we usually spend a lot of money on her buying this and that, send her for classes and also parents shower her with lots of stuffs also and in end, breakup becos of argument.
Find that its really not worthy and would rather spend it on FLs.
What do u bros think? Any advise?

aiya don't be sad we lose some and win some

maybe your investment never give good return.

look for a better one . not to worry

[defector]

Agree with the brothers here. How can you compare trust funds with stock options? its all investment one is long termed goal.. again what's the point of having a girlfriend when you don't dote on her.. ?

Relationship nowadays easy come easy go one. get another one.. difference between girlfriend and Fl is that you wouldn't expect your girlfriend to sleep around and you wouldn't expect Fl to just stick to you fatefully..

less than a cent worth of thoughts.

[Toyota Honda]

I am worse than you. Was with her for close to 4 years also never go to the extreme (but of cos got one step before extreme lah).

However, the reason for not bedding her is cos she was in pain until she wept when we first wanted to try. I ended up feeling so hurt myself seeing her cry cos. She didn't stop me and said nevermind, just continue pushing in. I did not, cos I loved her and it really pains to see her in such a grimacing state. End up, we still break off but not cos we did not have sex.

Some brothers here are right, need not have sex with gf, sayandg her will do like in my case.

[singexpat]

It happened to me too.. was wif my ex for abt 2 yrs n no sex cos she's virgin..

tried to do but she complained pain but get good BBBJ in return..

still, she left a deep impression on me n till date still think of her..

Moral of the story,

no sex nevermind... make sure u get a BBBJ in return..

[nexo]

having a gf is not just to bonk her .. its that u found someone who u are considering spending ur life with ..u should treasure every min u spend with her and not just want to bonk her..

[astrozz]

Originally Posted by seah

Hi,
I also find that guys always on the losing end whenever a relationship breakup cos we usually spend a lot of money on her buying this and that, send her for classes and also parents shower her with lots of stuffs also and in end, breakup becos of argument.
Find that its really not worthy and would rather spend it on FLs.
What do u bros think? Any advise?

What are you thinking bro ?
Your reason for having a gf is to have sex ? and if you dont (didnt) you feel that you are being shortchanged ??
Thats a bad bad wrong mentality ... STOP thinking this way bro .

[just4fun]

Originally Posted by seah

Hi,
Any bros out there ever encounter such case like me as in aftering going steady for almost a year and without having sex with her and then at the end of the day, ganna breakup. Then I also find that guys always on the losing end whenever a relationship breakup cos we usually spend a lot of money on her buying this and that, send her for classes and also parents shower her with lots of stuffs also and in end, breakup becos of argument.
Find that its really not worthy and would rather spend it on FLs.
What do u bros think? Any advise?

maybe is ur "kang hu" not reach home yet...so u cant arouse her for sex so might not be the gal's fault...

anyway...did she ask u to buy all the stuffs??? or u wan to act "hao lian" and buy...