My experience of searching for a Sugar Daddy

cutiejas · #1 04-07-2013, 01:17 AM

Hi everyone, I am Jasmine.

I am rather depressed because of a mistake I have made recently and I thought I would have to pen this down so as to seek some advices or rather sympathy from kind souls in this forum.

Previously due to some personal reasons I was looking for a Sugar Daddy in this forum. To be honest, money was the only reason why I wanted to do this and I thought I would be ready to throw myself at any random man who offered me the highest values. But I was wrong.Things were not easy as I thought. As I tried to meet up with some of the men who PMed or emailed me, I realized that i needed more than money from my Sugar Daddy. I would hope to find someone who respected me and someone whom I could be open to talk about everything under the Sun. Some of you might think that I am just a girl who is willing to trade sex for money, why do I need to care about the respect and the connection? Just f**k and take the money and go. To be honest, I couldnt bring myself to do that. As my financial problem still persists, I keep meeting up with numerous men from this forum until I met him.

He's just a normal men who just broke up with his girlfriend and he needed someone like me to accompany him so as not to miss his girlfriend so much. What wasnot normal about him was that he was really charming and we had a good conversation over coffee that day. He was really a gentleman, a nice man. He opened the car door for me whenever we needed to go, he would wait for me to go inside the house first before driving off, he gave me a kiss on the cheek before he left. All that little things couldnt save my little heart from slowly falling for him. (yeah i know i was dumb)

After the first meeting, he told me that he was comfortable with me and we agreed to try hanging out as friends for the next couple of days then we would see how it turned out..

After the coffee, we chatted up on whatsapp until i fell asleep..and I discovered that we had quite a number of things in common..He asked me where I would want to have dinner and stuffs and send me a link with a list of a few restaurants that I could choose from. I chose one and I couldnt wait to see him again..It was just a new feeling for me and I felt really happy.

(to be continued..)

Acez89 · #2 04-07-2013, 02:25 AM

start of a sad story

poi123 · #3 04-07-2013, 02:37 AM

I guess this is so far the 1st post on ladies penning the experience of a sugar dad.. Looking forward for ur next post.. Will like to see what kind of man is he after a period of time that you known him..

To me,a charming guy should not have problem looking for another lady moreover he has a car which is another advantage.. Hopefully he didn't just try to cheat your feelings and money eventually..

risingup · #4 04-07-2013, 08:01 AM

I wonder if yr sd relationship is supposed 2 be discreet?

Blast88 · #5 04-07-2013, 09:06 AM

xiao liao, another wolf in disguise

cutiejas · #6 04-07-2013, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by poi123

I guess this is so far the 1st post on ladies penning the experience of a sugar dad.. Looking forward for ur next post.. Will like to see what kind of man is he after a period of time that you known him..

To me,a charming guy should not have problem looking for another lady moreover he has a car which is another advantage.. Hopefully he didn't just try to cheat your feelings and money eventually..

Yeah I would think that he would have no problems of looking for another lady because he knows how to treat a lady well and ok he drives a nice car but I think I am attracted to him not because of his car lah..

cutiejas · #7 04-07-2013, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by risingup

I wonder if yr sd relationship is supposed 2 be discreet?

Yeah it's supposed to be discreet if my friends and family are gonna find out about this I am gonna die..

cutiejas · #8 04-07-2013, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Blast88

xiao liao, another wolf in disguise

Actually until now i still think that he's quite nice..
I must be super dumb

risingup · #9 04-07-2013, 02:38 PM

Well I think frm yr description he is really quite nice, and nothing wrong to think Abt, I suppose u can continue on yr role and be a sb

angelheart66 · #10 04-07-2013, 03:09 PM

men luv to deceive, especially if you're not what they're looking for, they would still play the game, wired that way?
But then, women are always suckers, many of my good looking friends would do it for money too. Perhaps too lazy to work at 5-8/hr

mr_missile · #11 04-07-2013, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by angelheart66

men luv to deceive, especially if you're not what they're looking for, they would still play the game, wired that way?
But then, women are always suckers, many of my good looking friends would do it for money too. Perhaps too lazy to work at 5-8/hr

men luv to deceive? .....but as u said later, many of your friends do it for the easy money. in this game, it takes 2 hands to clap.

see see only · #12 04-07-2013, 03:31 PM

Set my tent here liao

BVeneta · #13 04-07-2013, 04:16 PM

Replying to post but not continuing story?!!
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cutiejas · #14 04-07-2013, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by BVeneta

Replying to post but not continuing story?!!
......

I was sick these days lah..just woke up..will continue the story now..

Btw yeah I have been working part time for 5-8/hours for years and up until the time that I was searching for a Sugar Daddy I was still doing it..Was still having the part time job when I met this guy..

But yeah due to some reasons I must seek for more funds. I am not giving any excuses for myself what I am doing is wrong so ...

cutiejas · #15 04-07-2013, 08:04 PM

The next time that we met, I was caught up with my part-time work and he had taken the time to wait for me at my part-time place for like 45 mins or somethings. I had not done with my work then but I felt so bad letting him wait for me so I just came down to meet him. It was really funny that when I was down he was not there and as I tried to call him he awkwardly said that he was in the toilet. It was the second time that I called him and he was in the toilet to fix his hair so I thought it was kinda cute. I did really appreciate it when he took the effort to fix his hair and stuffs before meeting me.

As he opened the door for me, I was really surprised as I saw flower "sitting" on the car seat and it was sun flower (my favourite flower and I told him about it the previous day that I liked sun flower). I was really really happy then.

After dinner, we went for a walk and I shared a little bit more about my previous relationship. It was then that he asked me about my opinions on this arrangement, like how much I would want him to pay me and stuffs. At the point of time, I had not thought through about this arrangement yet and I did not know how to answer his questions about the amount of remuneration that I wanted. I had no problems with my daily expenses. It was just something happened in the past that I lost a sum of money and I needed to earn it back as soon as possible. In my mind, I was thinking that I really enjoyed meeting him, spending time with him, talking to him and he treated me really nice so I was just thinking that it was unfair to ask him to pay me even though that I do enjoy spending time with him. So i just avoided his questions and talked about other things.

I really enjoyed the evening, except for the fact that he said he wanted to add me on Facebook then after a few seconds he thought twice and regretted on the idea and he explained that he wanted to protect himself.
As he sent me back home, no good night kiss for me this time as he said that he was shy to kiss me in public.

That night, I felt a bit more drawn towards him. When he looked me in the eyes and said that I looked very sweet when I smiled, I really felt something special. It was the first time we held hands and walked and I felt at ease just walking besides him. When he told me that he wanted to achieve what other people could achieve (like yacht or house). He told me if people could achieve that then he could also. I shivered a bit because I felt exactly the same thing. All along, I lived on by that motto and no matter what happened and I felt damn horrible and shitty, I looked at other people who experienced worse things in life and they were still able to make it so why couldnt I. And i knew that I have liked him from that moment.

Later that night as we chatted on whatsapp, he shared more about his relationship and his girlfriend and we talked about a few other things. He said that he felt a little bit of electric shock when I looked at him and smiled. He said that between us there was a weird bond existing and he couldnt explain it either. I believed in all that because I felt special too.

I must say that I was really dumb and i didnot have a lot of experiences in relationship. I only had 1 boyfriend previously and 1 rebound (after my boyfriend) so I couldnt help falling for him who was so experienced and knew how to steal a girl's heart.

(to be continued..)