PRC Girls/Ladies and their eager to get married

[joncheong]

Hi bros....

Not too sure if any of you have close interactions or even dated with PRC girls/ladies (i mean decent ones working even in professional jobs here)...But do you find them very eager to settle down and marry....I have came across quite a number, dated some, became close friends with others....but i discovered that they are all to damn eager to get married.....Not that they are after our money because some of them are richer and better educated (PHD) than I do....but it's quite scary when they break to you their marriage intentions very early on while dating...

any of you bros have similar experiences and wanna share....

[wayne23416]

bro...I have come across this situation both here and back in Cali where i stayed...u have to understand that their culture though slightly similar to ours but they take relationships to an whole new level..to them, a relationship is something sacred to them..I met a lady who is abt the same age as i was...i think 24..she was eager to marry and we were both still in college..then i stopped talking to her for awhile then found out that she is in a serious relationship with a man in his 30's...

I too explained this to my current gf who is PR and a working professional and she says that in china, ladies who r in their late 20's are really eager to marry cuz once they pass the 30 year old mark, they dont have much choice left...some would rather just find anyone they want and just marry..

In my honesty, I've dated a fair share of ladies locally and from different countries and we can't judge them based on our knowledge of things..bro, I think we should approach things with an open mind and if things sounds fishy, there's this forum to clear things up! =-)

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by wayne23416

there's this forum to clear things up! =-)

This forum doesn't clear anything up. It just causes further confusion.

[topcook1]

All asian woman are the same be it PRC or viet...all wants to get marry so that they have a harbour to dock.

[bigbang486]

i think its their culture to get married young in china.
Even for girls in mid-twenties, they start to get desperate already.
Somehow they are pretty straightforward and not shy to show their intentions in settling down.

[MuffDiver69]

Originally Posted by joncheong

Hi bros....

Not too sure if any of you have close interactions or even dated with PRC girls/ladies (i mean decent ones working even in professional jobs here)...But do you find them very eager to settle down and marry....I have came across quite a number, dated some, became close friends with others....but i discovered that they are all to damn eager to get married.....Not that they are after our money because some of them are richer and better educated (PHD) than I do....but it's quite scary when they break to you their marriage intentions very early on while dating...

any of you bros have similar experiences and wanna share....

most PRC's are very objective oriented, its their culture after their cultural revolution. look out for number one and be focus. the reason they go into a relationship is to get married. so if the partner has no intention of getting married, they'll look for another.

[wally888]

Most gals r the same.....maybe if u meet too many PRC or viet KTV or WL then your perception change But please bear in mind these r only minority!

[HCKing]

PRC girls more realistic and practical mah. very kiasu somemore in relationship.

[Santaclaws]

1. A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants. A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want.

2. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

3. A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

4. To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot & love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot & not try to understand her at all.

5. Married men live longer than single men - but married men are a lot more willing to die.

6. Any married man should forget his mistakes - there's no use in two people remembering the same thing.

7. Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed. Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

8. A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change & she does.

9. A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

10. There are 2 times when a man doesn't understand a woman - before marriage & after marriage.

[khaos]

China ladies (in tier 1 cities too) usually marry themselves off pretty early.
mid 20s is counted as late.
30s is counted as gone case (left on the shelf) for them.

[mrsg]

That is why their divorce rate is so bloodly high. they married for the sake of marriage. Sigh.......