Any Bro can help?

joscklee · #1 26-07-2011, 11:07 PM

Hi Bros,

A good friend of mine is facing a problem which seems difficult to resolve: he met a PRC from MP years back but she was caught by AV shortly. This PRC returned and my friend still contact with her, found out she's a divorcee in China with a son. May say my friend blinded or zhong kam cheng, he ROM and even applied for her son to Sin. Now more trouble starts coming, she is unable to get PR and can only rely on LTVP to prolong her stay here (including her son) my friend is not well oiff and is worse after marrying this PRC and becoming step father. This woman starts showing her true colors, tellig my friend how fast her sisters in Sin got their PRs, and why he's so incompetent. It's too late to regret now, many friends including had persuaded him not to bring that wiomam here but he won't listen.

Any Bro has good idea how to handle this woman and son now?

shctaw · #2 27-07-2011, 04:05 AM

Last time fake marriage can get PR. But some PRC go around spreading the method. Now the new PRC cannot get PR easily.

Your friend invite trouble to himself. Base on my personal experience with PRC. You have to be ruthless against them otherwise they have control over you. Have to get rid of them quick.

Next thing ........ The PRC will blame your friend for getting them in SG. Mark my words.

joscklee · #3 27-07-2011, 09:39 PM

Thanks for the suggestion Bro, I shall ask my friend to be ruthless if tat PRC gets overborad, now he has 'endorsed' her and son, it's almost confirm they will demand long term maintance even they willing to get lost..

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #4 28-07-2011, 10:42 AM

I'm not able to speculate specifically on why "your friend" getting involved with a "super sales buy 1-get-1 油瓶仔 free" and "helping a PRC man to rasie his son" in the 1st place. There is a very high possibility that all 3 of them are still in constant contacts.

No amount of talking, experience, education, reasoning or advice can get "him" to listen cos it's stage III of a cancer cell

2centsworth · #5 28-07-2011, 12:14 PM

Just curious, if he didn't listen then, what makes you think he will listen now? Just let him suffer lah. He knew what he was signing up for when he married her what. Things are just going accordingly as planned. Everyone has his right to choose his happiness. If he finds joy being scolded, let him be lah.

Although all said and done, the PRC did show you her weakness. Her son. Target her only weakness. Her love for her son. Tell the PRC to behave. LTSVP still allows her son to be educated in Singapore. A bi-lingual education is what a lot of PDMM come here for right? So if he doesn't even renew her LTSVP, her son's future will suffer too. Remind her of that. 1 last thought, you mean if she did get PR, her true colours won't show ah? Will still show right? Your friend will still end up scolded by her and then 'scolded' by his friends.

Personally, I hope she doesn't get PR. Too many rude and noisy PRC in Singapore liao. Our Singapore government is really useless. AV changed rules to 2 ic rule in a lot of budget hotel to target the PRC vice trade. Then ICA so easily give the PRC ladies PR status. End up, we are just 'legalising' their stay here. Don't believe... consider this. Last time, the ladies massaging you in MP (those with HJ endings) tend to be social visit pass holders. If they are caught, banned from re-entering Singapore for a while. Now, the PRC girls at the MP... almost all got PR. Catch already also can't deport them.

What AV do, ICA un-do.

rauldon · #6 28-07-2011, 01:01 PM

just divorce the bitch sua

xxking · #7 28-07-2011, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by 2centsworth

Just curious, if he didn't listen then, what makes you think he will listen now? Just let him suffer lah.

What AV do, ICA un-do.

Well said bro.

Confirm she can not get PR lar, as she has bad records in ICA

But if she stay here less than 3 year, then she can not get the SG maintenance fee. Suggest your friend to consult lawyer before do any stupid thing,

Anyway, he deserve the trouble, maybe more ... no one can help

joscklee · #8 29-07-2011, 12:05 AM

Thnx for every Bro for their inputs. Ya my friend's sufferibg now & also wold like to take this opportunity to tell every Bro out there- dun be blinded by PRC's sweettalk, dun be soft-hearted towards them & in this case worse- 'buy 1 get 1 free'

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #9 29-07-2011, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by joscklee

.....my friend's sufferibg now.....

Her motive is quite obvious to obtain PR status. From I read from your post, it does seem quite tough for your "friend" to toughen up his heart. Normally a soft hearted person is a patient person. So in the meantime, he should keep a close tap on his finance, stealthy and gradually park/hide his warchest (money) somewhere either into his parent account or someone he can trust. Be patient, the PRC will perform some side actions if she realised she is unable to obtain PR here. Get her an iphone to track her movement or install hidden cam in the house to collect evidence if things turned north. Just be extremely cautious cos there are many wicked and evil PRC women in town.

Sometimes we make mistakes but that doesn't mean that we should accept it whole heartedly like a helpless sheep waiting for wholesale slaughter.

RealEstateGuy · #10 29-07-2011, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by joscklee

Hi Bros,

A good friend of mine is facing a problem which seems difficult to resolve: he met a PRC from MP years back but she was caught by AV shortly. This PRC returned and my friend still contact with her, found out she's a divorcee in China with a son. May say my friend blinded or zhong kam cheng, he ROM and even applied for her son to Sin. Now more trouble starts coming, she is unable to get PR and can only rely on LTVP to prolong her stay here (including her son) my friend is not well oiff and is worse after marrying this PRC and becoming step father. This woman starts showing her true colors, tellig my friend how fast her sisters in Sin got their PRs, and why he's so incompetent. It's too late to regret now, many friends including had persuaded him not to bring that wiomam here but he won't listen.

Any Bro has good idea how to handle this woman and son now?

It's easily handled by getting a divorce.

wells · #11 29-07-2011, 02:44 PM

She has a AV record in ICA, how is she going to get PR status? It will be extreme difficult to obtain that status furthermore he's not the father of the child.

I heard ROM withthin 12months can divorce Immediately. Later after 12 months need to wait a few years of separation before can officially divorce. Some bros here please clarify further.

PRC season player is hard to deal with and will climb ontop you and shit. Cut things off and say goodbye to her.

Ken79 · #12 29-07-2011, 02:51 PM

Who asked your fren to try to marry a whore that's also a single mom.
Even she get her PR she will work in such places or jobs behind your fren's back, all she wants is money.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #13 29-07-2011, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Ken79

Who asked your fren to try to marry a whore that's also a single mom..

IMHO, many of these ex-WL/FL PRC ghosts have perfected their surface job, many local men were not awared of any "hidden" baggages till it's too late. I have seen at least 4 such cases among my circle of friends and business associates

It is very unfortunate that some of these men carrying with them hopes of these ghosts will change for the sake of their marriages

I fully understand we should not judge a book by its cover and people shouldn't be judged by how they look or their origins but be judged by their actions. It is also advisable that we do not judge PRCs women by what they appear like to us at 1st, it is necessary to get to know them and "read" them before one jump into the marriage bandwagon. Something very powerful evil agenda can be inside them and one might end up jumping into a pool of piranhas, left with bones and the bones being chewed up by a pack of Hyenas behind.

joscklee · #14 29-07-2011, 03:19 PM

My friend even burnt all his savings buying resale flat & now holding 3 jobs to make ends meet, and her bl**dy son need to study angmo class 1st or else he wont know what teachers talking when go P1 next year....

Winner is that PRC's ex- got free f**k and dont need raise son

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #15 29-07-2011, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by joscklee

My friend even burnt all his savings buying resale flat & now holding 3 jobs to make ends meet.....

My final piece of advice: Only your friend know what's he's seeking with this twlight marriage cos he has made his life choice and has selected to walk this path of fire. One can only do so much for a friend without directly getting oneself involved in his family affairs. Just be ready to help him if he ever needed your help both financially and emotionally. As a friend, one NEVER EVER tell him "I TOLD YOU SO" when he is down and out