Honey, please don't ...

[tuffcookie]

Was it the wine.
Or the tension that had been building up since we laid eyes on each other.
I never knew, but it was hot, fast and furious.

Woke up this morning. Round 2. He played too hard and kinda turned me off and I couldn't get back into the mood. Since it was just a ONS, I played along and did not want to hurt his feelings. However I couldn't help day dreaming and so while his tongue was snaking between my legs, the idea for this thread was hatched.

I am starting this to share the "don'ts" during lovemaking. Unlike kamasutra which tells us what we should do, it might be good to correct ourselves from what we have been doing, thinking that it was ok. . We all need feedback but being Asians, we tend not to talk about it. So much about ..."baby you are so strong and hard.." but how do we tell the guy to bite gently without discouraging his teeth from our mounts again? So girls, lets give the guys here some pointers (hey who knows if we would pick up an SBF reader in future!).

Guys, please do not take this thread as an insult as I am also learning along the way. Do tell the ladies here what girls do wrong in bed (moan and kitty-cry like the jap AV stars?), so that we can steer clear of them and be better sparring parters.

So here's my taboo list for a start:

Guys please do not
1. push or rest your upper rows of teeth on the breast while sucking or tongueing the nipple. The breast is soft and sensitive and it gets painful for us.

2. rest yr jaw on our lower pelvis while painting. Not sure if the man's head (the one on the neck) is heavy or the woman's pelvis is weak but it gets painful and distracts us from your good work with your tongue.

3. give head in an uncomfortable position such that you lose your hardness after the girl gets all wet and ready from your licks and kisses

4. ask 'how many times did u cum?' Women are multi orgasmic. Unlike men who can count how many times they ejaculate, women have big and small waves. We are too bz cumming to be counting.

5.touch only the mountains and the valley. We know you can't wait to enjoy the hidden treasures that played peek-a-boo with you all evening. But in the midst of satisfying your curiosity, please find time to touch and taste parts other than the breasts and the nether regions.

6. turn over and go into lala land straight away after the deed. I experienced this with my regular FBs and I guess it could be complacency at work here. Take some time to nibble and kiss. You will never know how much that moment means to us.

7. This is for the cleanliness freaks: I ever had a lover who would only finger me with his left middle finger (stop jeering at me la). After his finger is soaked, he would be very conscious of that finger and mindfully avoid touching himself or me or the bedsheet or anything else with it. I was like ... wtf? He would make sure he cums (after the BJ) on me and cups his flaccid dick with his hand so that he would not drip anywhere else. Harloz... Isnt sex supposed to be dirt fun?

Ok, those are mine, what's yours?

[alvnchng]

Good insight, will take note!

[waterbottle99]

noted! for my future sex partner

hope you find happiness

[Yaphets]

TS, I think this is very good. Really appreciate the time you took to write this out. Will take note and work on it.

[sytloverr]

tuffcookie - nice starter list.
There're plenty of mistakes we make with our partners all time.

Here's a couple of mine - for the ladies.

1. Nipple me not : Not every dude has sensitive nipples (just like not every lady has), so what works that other dude, may not work for me.

2. Hardness on demand : Just because I'm not rock hard doesn't mean you're not attractive, the penis is a complex being - so complex even most of us don't understand it. (hence the popularity of Viagra, to bypass it's complexity)

3. Don't worry about guy's coming : at least for me. Some guy's die die must come - my partner's satisfaction is tantamount. Even if I don't come, it doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it. it's the journey, not the destination.

[miniicer]

4. ask 'how many times did u cum?' Women are multi orgasmic. Unlike men who can count how many times they ejaculate, women have big and small waves. We are too bz cumming to be counting.



Very agree on this point... Hate guy asking this Qn, den boast to others tat hw many times they had made their fb cum... U sure yr fb is telling u the truth?

[bernard]

interesting

[1stTR]

Indeed interesting. Pts noted. Thx TS.

[Langni]

Wonderful notes.. Keep it coming.. We respect each other..
Thanks tuff. Cheers and enjoy.

[muscle]

-my dick is for u to suck, not for u to sink ur teeth in. i know it kinda look tasty for u. Ouch!!

-if u wanna giv me a handjob pls be sure ur palm is lubricated wif oil or saliva.
didnt u learn wat friction is in sch?

[naturegreen]

Good thread with great advices

[red_squirrel]

Originally Posted by muscle

-my dick is for u to suck, not for u to sink ur teeth in. i know it kinda look tasty for u. Ouch!!

-if u wanna giv me a handjob pls be sure ur palm is lubricated wif oil or saliva.
didnt u learn wat friction is in sch?

haha.. good point.. UPz for you..

[muscle]

Originally Posted by red_squirrel

haha.. good point.. UPz for you..

Hehe thnks bro!

[maxpee88]

Hey Sis TuffCookie



Here's something to share for you since you are of like-minds

I have posted 2 threads in the same section : Adult Discussions on Sex

Thread #1 : Sex with my exGF

Read posting #12 onwards on below link

http://sams.guide/showthread.php?t=225679



Thread #2 : Sexcation with my exGF

http://sams.guide/showthread.php?t=243666

I hope you find inspiration there and advice your BFs

[horny03]

Hey tuffcookie, Sex is something for both parties to enjoy. It nice and good to see these pointers . well done. Let us men know more and let us understand you all ladies out there to make it an enjoyable time together.