Finally, I picked up the courage to approach her (Non - sex for now)

[zenzen]

Dear bros,

I am relating my experience for the last few days. I hope you guys will bear with me a bit. Please do not zap me. Really appreciate.

I have been noticing this lady (She is about mid 30s, while I am 28 this year) around my neighborhood for a very long time, and has been taking the same bus ride with her in the mornings, but we had not noticed each other until 2 days back. She is a lady, with long permed / wavy hair, standing at about 1.6m tall and very slim petite build, proportionate body contours, strong woman feel with a bit of China woman look. I have always got the interest in MILFs

The fateful night where we met, I have just returned home from a WP rally at Serangoon stadium, and was going to my house area kopitiam for a drink of Teh-O. To my surprise, she was sitting there, drinking a cup of Kek-Huay (Chrysanthemum Tea) alone by her self, typing SMSes on her iphone.

To fast forward the story and cut short, I was on the way back home after the Teh-O drink, where I noticed a dog (Chiwawa) which I thought it was stray. I stopped, hoping I could catch the attention of it, and hopefully catch hold of the lady. Luck was on my side that night. She was behind me all along, came forward and asked if the dog was stray. I told her I am not sure. Shortly later, the dog surpised us and outran us and got away.

After the dog ran away (It was really god sent), we walked together for a short distance, chatting along the way and I got to know that she is a Malaysian girl, not the China woman I was thinking of initially. Apparently, during the conversation, I also learned that that night she has quarreled with her home members (Not sure if its husband or house mates) thats why she is in the kopitiam till so late that night when I ask her if she just returned back from work.

She had always been my fantasy since I saw her for the first time in my neighborhood, and I hope the two of us can get closer together, either FB or gfbf. I am not sure what next move I shld take, perhaps you senior bros can enlightment me?

I promise I will make constant updates to this thread ... keep you guys updated on progress .... thanks guys for your help!

[joew2005]

only a word of caution ..... be careful !!

[sammyboyfor]

If you're only 28, you should concentrate on your career and your finances and leave those women alone.

[zenzen]

I dont understand why I shld leave "those" women alone. First of all she is not a whore like most bros here fall in love with. What is more wrong than falling in love with a whore?

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by zenzen

I dont understand why I shld leave "those" women alone. First of all she is not a whore like most bros here fall in love with. What is more wrong than falling in love with a whore?

How about falling in love with the wrong FL?

Btw, watcha doing in SBF arh? Since u seem so disapproving of our TLC to these ladies..

[arsenal_84]

a decent partner is one that never betrays your trust.
nothing is absolute in this world.
seen too many decent ppl fall from grace...

[zenzen]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

How about falling in love with the wrong FL?

Btw, watcha doing in SBF arh? Since u seem so disapproving of our TLC to these ladies..

Err, bro ... please read my story carefully. Since when did I mention she is a FL also?

[alan0338]

hehe , be careful hor, next time u run into her husband the jialat liao wahahahaha

[Gentle Beast]

Originally Posted by zenzen

Dear bros,

She had always been my fantasy since I saw her for the first time in my neighborhood, and I hope the two of us can get closer together, either FB or gfbf. I am not sure what next move I shld take, perhaps you senior bros can enlightment me?

I promise I will make constant updates to this thread ... keep you guys updated on progress .... thanks guys for your help!

With a chance encounter like this, I would have casually said 'Let's be friends, how about we exchange telephone numbers'. The rest will be easy if she said OK

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by zenzen

I dont understand why I shld leave "those" women alone.

You should leave women alone regardless of their profession so you can concentrate on more important things in life like building a solid foundation towards achieving financial independence.

Once you've made enough money to secure your future, you'll have plenty of time to start mucking around with the opposite sex.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by zenzen

Err, bro ... please read my story carefully. Since when did I mention she is a FL also?

Can I recommend my eye surgeon to you?

Reply refers to stmt: "First of all she is not a whore like most bros here fall in love with. What is more wrong than falling in love with a whore?"

Bleeehhhh

[James Porn]

Originally Posted by zenzen

Dear bros,

I have been noticing this lady (She is about mid 30s, while I am 28 this year) around my neighborhood for a very long time, and has been taking the same bus ride with her in the mornings, but we had not noticed each other until 2 days back.

Next time you see her on the bus again, just smile and approach her. Break the ice by telling her where you are going and ask about where she is going. When talking to her, do not give away any signs that you are after her for sex. Jokingly ask if you will see her again at the kopitiam, can you treat her 'Kek Hwey' teh?

[yohooo]

TS bro,

i understand how u feel. but u dont know her at all. so dont jump into it too soon. just take ur time and notice if u really cant stop thinking of her.

u might be feeling this 'eager-ness' because u finally got to talk to a woman u always notice but never managed to talk to. take ur time to discover ur feelings first before u think about any thing. if u're just looking at her for potential bonk... then that's another issue, but love is an altogether different story...