longer you with your gf the more restrictions she set on you?

[jazp]

To be more to the point, I'm talking specifically about activities on the bed.

Just to name a few..
Last time she say can COF, now cannot.
Last time she say can anal, now cannot.

Any bro experienced similar things?

I getting more and more sian... any solution to advise? thanks thanks.

[parrotkid]

That is not thr worse yet. Wait till you marry her and then have kids with her. Then sex will become as rare as a solar eclipse.

[garlic]

True, last time when before married, can threesome.. now cannot... they have their weird values.

[justdifferent]

Originally Posted by jazp

To be more to the point, I'm talking specifically about activities on the bed.

Just to name a few..
Last time she say can COF, now cannot.
Last time she say can anal, now cannot.

Any bro experienced similar things?

I getting more and more sian... any solution to advise? thanks thanks.

she's bored with you. the sex is supposed to get better as time passes. as you get closer to each other you understand your other half better and you are more comfortable to share your kinky thoughts and most extreme fetishes.

if that's not happening then something is wrong. if you enjoy the sex, you will never get bored of it and it just gets better over time. she either loves you less now, or is fucking someone else.

of course these are just my opinions and not facts. pay a little more attention to detail and i'm sure you'll know why she's giving less and less.

[choeongkong]

Really depends one larh bro. Most of the females in an intimate relationship feel more like they are giving more than receiving. Its as if once the guys has 100% access to their body, they feel like the guy want so they just give. after finish use back to normal routine job. you should ask yourself this:

1) are you having sex with her or making love to her? Sex is just.. well, just sex. Making love is about both people giving passionately to each other. Not about what the guy wants to get for the guys own pleasure, or vice-versa.

2) Are you doing something special or is it just what you have been doing all the while the way you like it? try letting her be in charge for a change.

3) If your sexual positions are the same, change lahh.. read karma sutra discover different positions. and dont do all positions in one love making session with HM.. change different positions as much as possible so the sex is different.

4) do you cum every time you have sex with HM? try one session where you make her cum at least 3-4 times and its just for her pleasure. you want to do something for her. see what happens

5) Its time to enhance your sexual intimacy. Most couples after being together for a long time tend to loose this chemistry of being together, let alone having sex. sex is just sex after this. Try go shopping for a cute lingerie for her, costumes if you want. toys if she wants it. talk about the intimate relationship with her, it will help both of you understand what you both need and want so you can please each other in a different manner.

Note: u try having her squirt on your face every time you have sex and try having her have a dildo inside your anal every time see how you feel. maybe its about understanding what she wants, rather than taking what you need. give and you shall receive.

worked very well for me, just my 2 cents

[jazp]

sometimes if we didn't have it for a while, she'll like hint me about it. But not the kinky type. normal one lor.

we had outside sex once only. she's giving me the impression that anything try one time can liao. no more next time

[hiboyhi]

I tink you've got to talk things out with her. Me and my wife since she's my gf things betting more intense. From just a casual sex we move on to cim and all and even bdsm.

[Baigonggong]

I think TS maybe it is time to change your gf.

[PrinceCharles]

I also know some guys in this situation

[jazp]

how do you think we should start talking?

Like this? => "dear, what's your biggest sexual fantasy?"

[hiboyhi]

Originally Posted by jazp

how do you think we should start talking?

Like this? => "dear, what's your biggest sexual fantasy?"

Just be straightforward. She's your girlfriend, she should understand. Be more open to each other. You should feel comfortable asking about anything under the sun