Opinion: How important is BBBJ for guys?

[Tekki]

For me, VERY! Sadly, my wife doesn't seem to be (or like) to deepthroat very much. Any tips from bros or sistas on how to coax/guide the wife into deepthroating without hurting her feelings?

[Aeson]

Do 69 ? I once had a gf who did not like to do bj on me either. Said she thinks it's like very dirty sex thing. I went down on her and then gave her about 10 mins of tongue in 1 session, it was kind of a surprise for her when I did it. She enjoyed it immensely, throughout it, I was asking if I was kissing or sucking at the right spot and asked her to tell me where her sensitive spots were so I can work on it more.

After the whole act as we were just hugging together, I told her that we were making love and everything that happened during it was acts of passion between a man and his woman and there was nothing dirty about it.

Slowly, she became much more receptive of giving me bj but I think reciprocation is still the best motivator.

[LocalFruit]

I am in the same category like u.
When we were dating or newly weds, she was willing to give me blowjobs and allow me to cum on her face. But sadly, as the years goes on, now married for 10 years, she wouldn't even allow it.

[atee]

Originally Posted by LocalFruit

I am in the same category like u.
When we were dating or newly weds, she was willing to give me blowjobs and allow me to cum on her face. But sadly, as the years goes on, now married for 10 years, she wouldn't even allow it.

Bro, we are in the same boat too!

[makka111]

I must be a lucky bastard. Married 8yrs with 2 kids, OC is still sucking and fucking like on Day One.

[greddy1974]

receiving a blow job from your hm,wife,gf,fb is VERY important! and of course it has to be BBBJ and not CBJ (Takes away the fun with condom)

[NikeAirForce1]

Give her what she wants and in return she will give us what we want?

[Purplecrow]

Originally Posted by Tekki

For me, VERY! Sadly, my wife doesn't seem to be (or like) to deepthroat very much. Any tips from bros or sistas on how to coax/guide the wife into deepthroating without hurting her feelings?

By now you should know what kind of flavours your wife like. Example if your wife loves kaya. Then you should apply some on your dick and let her lick. Perhaps you could try this method.

[Trium]

Deepthroat and BJ 2 different things. Not every girl can do deep throating without gagging. So are you talking about BJ or DT ?

[superbeat]

my thoughts

if you marry SG girls for sex,
sorry to say you are a little mad,
in SG we marry to get a govt. flat,
and to claim relief from income tax.

[Ninjaron]

Originally Posted by superbeat

my thoughts

if you marry SG girls for sex,
sorry to say you are a little mad,
in SG we marry to get a govt. flat,
and to claim relief from income tax.

LOL. It comes like a rap!

[hwq123]

to me BBBJ > Sex.

[edmundhello]

I love BBBJ and best if it can be package with a CIM and post CIM treatment!! Heavenly!! Better than Bonking for me!!

[DeathGod69]

Tell her she better do it, or you will get someone else to do it for you.
If she say go ahead, you just go ahead ...
This here is call scare tactics ...

Do 69 is playing on the lust part, If you all alry have little sex and you all never feel sex motivated, then BBBJ is almost impossible ...

If you can trigger her horny side of her though you oral her, it is hard for her not to oral you when in 69 position.

[Atreus]

BBBJ is very very important to me. Maybe cos I am the laidback type, really enjoy lying down and getting the girl down on me.

To encourage your other half to do BJ on you, I also with other bros on recommending do 69. Mutual satisfaction.