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Re: Tips on picking up gals online thru Chat Apps...

The Opening

After this profile is set up, Time to look for the ladies. When you look at a lady that is attractive, DO NOT WINK AT HER OR JUST SAY HI. Look through the Lady's live feed and her profile.That will tell you her interests and how she's feeling. Let's say if you notice for example that she likes to eat ice-cream in the lastest feed, you could

1) tell her your favourite ice-cream flavours and brands and ask what hers are
2) tell her about a good ice-cream cafe and ask if she's tried it
3) ask her where she likes to go eat her ice-cream.

This technique is called 'opening' in seduction. You start a convo topic that make them curious or feel comfortable around you so you can size them up. The thing about this is that in face to face meet ups, personalized openers are hard to do, but in online media chats like this, it is EXTREMELY EASY because a page and all the feeds can tell you so much about the individual. If she likes a certain song by a certain band, and you know something about that song, tell her over chat and asks if she knows.

I'm telling you that this works because at first, I mostly just said hi to the girls and nothing happened, but when I started doing this, I noticed almost all the girls checked out my profile within the first 30 seconds when I did it. If they do that, you are off to a good start. It means you're actually getting their attention rather than being someone they'll ignore or block immediately.

Do not use cheesy pick up lines or canned material. Pretty girls will have LOADS of guys hitting on them, so if you use canned material, they'd probably have ALREADY HEARD IT BEFORE. Since we have an advantage of having more info, put in abit more effort so you'd get noticed.

If she goes 'Ask me', 'Ask me', 'Ask me', on her profile, that's when the problem starts. That's akin to kind of picking up a girl at the bar where you know nothing about her interests, and that's challenging cause in this case, there will be more guys saying hi than you.

Look for interesting things in her profile pics before resorting to pick-up lines. Maybe she's carrying a guitar, or a dog, or whatever. Ask her about them. If she has a funny nick that is probably not her real name, see if you can come up with something witty to pry her name out of her. If her name is 'R' for example, talk about 'Warm Bodies'

Ok, if they just check out your profile and don't reply, don't despair. Most gals won't if you aren't their type and share a common interest. Just look at your profile again and see what might have put them off. If you find something, change it (I really got to change my about me section after what some of you did), if you do not, just keep looking. Even if you already talked to all the girls you like DO NOT SPAM THEM AGAIN. Relax, go on other chat programs, do your math homework, carry on with your job/search. You have a life outside this thing. Eventually you'll find one that likes you and will reply. I know cause one did.

Once in awhile, check back in again and take a look and see if there are new gals or status updates. When there are, craft another opener and try again.

Last edited by SammyNewbie; 26-04-2013 at 11:21 AM.