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Originally Posted by dazzlego
i also want to know abt it.
or they will know when we will reach our peak and stop?
help us try the redtantra too so we will know the authentication  |
Hi Dazzle, I am going to be kappoh and assume you are asking me.
You have asked a very good question. How to know when you are at the top of the wave? You need to work with your masseur. Imagine you are banging a girl for the first time and she is moaning like crazy, is she ready to cum? Most of us make the mistake of assuming this girl is ready to cum and we go faster, but the truth maybe that she is just enjoying herself and moaning to let you know she is enjoying herself. Then when we lose control and ejaculate, you realize too late that the girl didn't cum but she says ok. Why? 1. Because we didn't communicate and understand what is going on in the mind of the moaning girl. 2. And we men have a terrible habit of assuming a lot of things, right?
Same with the masseur/tantric practitioner. Imagine it is your 1st massage and if we start off thinking she must know our 'high' and know exactly when to pull back, it would be lucky if the masseur can read you correctly. I think if you work with the masseur, she will learn your signals, your timing and your stamina.