Happy CNY to you bro WB!
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Originally Posted by warbird
Spoke w/ FF just now. She assured me that she has reached her 18th birthday according to her passport n that she doesn't drink n is very uncomfortable working at KTVs. She has agreed to be taken care of by me. I need to check her out n verify a few things. We hv not discussed the terms of BY, although she has agreed to wkly payment. She lives very far away from CBD. I need to find time for her...
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Personally, the very young are potentially more clingy, so I think you need to set the terms and the termination clause really crystal clear. She also probably very unfamiliar with Singapore locale and may bug you more often for normal day-to-day things that a more mature lady can take care of themselves. I remember a case of a gal who keeps asking me how to go meet me, and after I agreed to go fetch her, she gave me the name of the LRT station in Chinese name, how do I know the Chinese name of the LRT station is which LRT in English since the pronounciation could mean one of two, argh!?!
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Originally Posted by warbird
Let me digress. I think we Orientals worry too much abt "saving face or 面子。“ It's a most useless n harmful habit. According to an Ang Moh guru, it's the result of a combo of ego amok n low self esteem.
The best state to be in with women is
worry-free, relaxed, and independent of
her judgment and evaluation.
Remember: No woman and no one else can judge you!
They're NOT qualified for this job.
Only YOU are...........................................
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Good sharing, thanks Sifu.