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Originally Posted by KangTuo
SingViet,
Lately I met a gal whom i am thinking of keeping as a mistress or maybe as 2nd wife.
Just wanna learn from you how you manage to handle 2 Viet wife and still they accepted each other?
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Bro, the acceptance part is the most difficult. There will always be a storm before everything settles down, but sweet words and lots of reassurance that you will still care for her is very important. But this differs from gal to gal, most of the ladies will not be able to accept while some will be able to take it after some time. Give her some time, lots of sweet words and super a lot of reassurance. But what i feel is the most important is that i already have kids and my first lady thinks and considers for my kid's future. Nowadays, i spend around 10 days in HCMC monthly and 20 days in Singapore. Most of the time still dedicated to my first lady.
As for my 2nd lady, she's a graduate and has a stable job that pays her US$700 a month. I only give her around US$500 a month for household expenses. She's most of the time busy with work. Every 6 months or so, she will also come to singapore with me for some shopping and also `pay respect' to my first lady.
