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Originally Posted by Charmaine
Yes, we're in love.
We never said goodbye or waved. Sometimes it's better this way.
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bro charmaine ... i can understand how u feel as i was in a similiar situation before ...
Time will heal ur wounds ...
we have to understand that when we get into any relationship, we must be prepared to get hurt ...
the pain & hurt will make us stronger and wiser .. although some might need to be hurt more times in order to feel the pain ...
u've make a choice, i hope u have, and that's good ...
it's time for u to move on with ur life ....
everyday .. ppl have to make decisions or choices ...
every decision or choice u make will have a result ...
regardless what's the outcome of the result, remember u make that choice ..
u'll regret it if u make the wrong one ... who will not ...
but it's okay ... the important thing is to be able to stand up, learn from it and move on ...
Learn for the past, plan for the future but live now ...
IMHO ... i would said u r a very fortunate guy to have know this gal ..
i can feel that she's a very honest person and she does not want to hurt anyone ...
u r a passionate person and could have easily fall into these KC traps ..
On the other side of the coin, if she's playing a game on u .. than i'll give her credit for doing a great job ...
nonetheless ... like all senior bros mentioned here ...
long distance relationship need a lot of mileage to go ...
it's a uphill task ... one that's easily fall all the way down even when u think u've reached the top ....
don't keep asking urself "Why" ...
try asking urself "How" ...
...."Why is this not possible? Why can't I at least try to make this work?..
Try this .....
...."How is this going to be possible? How can i make this work? ....
"Why" is a negative perspec in this case ....
The happiest ppl do not necessarily have the best of all.
They simply appreciate what they find on their way.