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Originally Posted by 22ginger

I'm not some dai lou with damn deep pocket who can just book her for extended hours and I don't want to affect her money making potential. I just felt that this "kc trap" is sibei gao lat so I decided to block her off all social media to maintain my sanity. Not sure what this will do to my state of mind if it continues.

Is it too drastic? Am I being rude? Or is it the right thing to cut all contact? Please pardon my noobness.

I agree with bro Kopiosteve

Don’t overthink, its straightforward actually, especially if you are single. If you are married or attached, yea, cut it is probably best

Whether its a kc trap or genuine affection, it becomes apparent after a few dates. The kind of places she wants to go, whether she offers to pay for stuff, whether she brings up the topic of marriage too early etc. No ML/FL can hide it perfectly her intentions. Just don’t be in denial

Nothing wrong with having a fling when you are single. Had a few flings myself over the years. Some just wanted to get married for the pass to stay, but there was one who became very close, as genuine friend, went holidays etc all she paid her share. But end of the day, she prefers to stay in China when she gets older, so we just left it at that, but still friends till this day.

And hey, these are things you encounter with local girls anyway, like how some wants to migrate to Aussie etc. So its your call really