Is it okay to lose your virginity to a sex worker?
 

Hi, is it okay to lose one's virginity to a sex worker and would it be awkward when you are doing the deed for the 1st time with no experience with them?

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Nothing weird they will give you ang pow if you tell them

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sex is always awkward the first time, doesnt matter who you do it with.
you might be so shy or anxious that you can't get hard enough. Or once you put on the condom, you get soft because you are not used to using condoms.
if you are good enough to get it hard, you might be so excited that you are having sex that you pump and cum too fast.

again, the above happens to most first timers, regardless of sex worker or a lovely partner.
so, is it ok to lose your virginity to a sex worker? i would say yes, but of course it also depends on your moral values and on how much value you place upon your virginity.

but in terms of value for money, having your first time with sex workers, you may be on the losing end. but hey, just think of it as buying experience.

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Always a classic request in the sex industry:D

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"Do not tee gong my boy, lao liang understands. Many always claim to be first timer" replied the sex worker.

Sex workers are not interested whether if you are first timer. They just want to know can you pay for their services. Also they just want you to enter and shoot out fast. Time is precious to them.

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If your social circle is wide enough, you may meet ladies (experienced or divorced) who are also on the prowl, looking for their virgin boys.

Through my previous conversations with some of them, they witty said they are looking to train their first dragon. Unfortunately I am no longer a virgin boy so I was not to be their trainee :)

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Did you request for ang pow too? :D

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Just curious, which kinds of social situations / settings are best to meet such ladies?

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Join:
1. sporting groups like jogging and bicycling
2. go back to classroom to learn new language
3. cooking classes
4. line dance group
5. social drinking
6. Go tour
7. Your HDB RCs (volunteer as member or join the activities
And if you are young, energetic , have time to spare and some cash for expenses/tuition fees, definitely meet new friends.

A word of advice..........never be choosy if someone comes along

If you are shy and reluctant to join/register or do anything....then liao
If presently has no cash flow, get extra jobs like weekends if on 5 days week.
Some cash is still needed. No free lunch/dinner unless sibei handsome like K-pop idols.

Especially if you are single and not attached, the other party is more keen to
know you without worry.

This is the internet age..........no need to spoon feed and ask for contacts cos they are not working FLs/MLs.

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I did have some successes when I widen my social circles. But that was 5 to 10 years ago. I temporary stop socializing cos many want to get marry and have kids. I am not too keen to get marry and have kid(s). After awhile they left.

I am never choosy and I got my pussies but later left cos I am the type who do not want long term commitments.

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Wah good advice, up you bro

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Thanks and returned +11 :)

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i lost mine 28 years ago to a Cat100 in geylang called xiao qian. no regrets even though it opened doors for financial expenses but i look at it positively, as least geylang (and later the massage and FL scene) provided me an outlet not to have to (tell) lie to women just to get laid.

some of what we do in a commercial transaction rarely happens in real life

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Virginity means not yet copulate.

At times I wonder if virginity is still so important to the men in this internet age. This is the Year Two Thousand onwards.


Maybe the conservative males want to let go their virginity on wedding nights.

Many are not comfortable or brave enough to do it with strangers/MLs/FLs for whatever logic, reasons or belief. Very very few males are asexual.

Some males want to get rid of their virgin boys status. But sad to say they could not find girlfriends/potential spouses.

Finally if you (the male) yet to copulate till RIP, Congratulations ! You achieve celibacy :D

(P.S. :This is purly candle2000's thought regarding men virginity)

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Ok lah, i lose it to my FB