No foreplay??
 

Does any one of your husband avoid foreplay hence sex is just intercourse? Mine dislike any forms of foreplay including French kissing, touching, eating me, etc. All we do is penetration. Sexually frustrated here so looking for solutions from sisters here pls.

I'm average looking with slim body. He still finds me attractive and no he doesn't have any women outside.

Brothers out there pls do not pm me with sexual propositions, am not interested. Thank you.

Re: No foreplay??
 

not a female here.

Had a short read your previous thread.

Are you his first sexual partner?
Was he doing the same thing before marriage or kids?

Sounds like he is more interesting in gaming? maybe personality or he never gotten deprived of sex so he doesn't really make an effort for it as your drive is probably higher than his

2cent.

Only way is to have a good chat with him. Talk about what your expectations are etc.

Else, seek counseling.

Re: No foreplay??
 

May be porn help....🤔.

Monkeys see Monkeys do....

2cents thought...lol

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Haha when you limited the sexual propositions, will have lesser audience here. Haha

Re: No foreplay??
 

Try out 50 shades .. give him a bbbj ?

Been there done that.

I'm not his first and I gotta admit his sex drive is on par with most wives dudes here complain about. :(

He just like to lie on bed do nothing while I serve him like an emperor. Tsk.

Re: No foreplay??
 

Jiat lat... a lazy lover...

Re: No foreplay??
 

Then perhaps you try let him initiate instead, play hard to get a little so he can work for it.

Start to play with a vibrator yourself while he is playing his game. Get a louder one so you'll be distracting him from the game too. But it might take awhile for him to change / adjust the mindset slowly. Or can wait for some sister's success stories on getting their guy back.

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What an emperor... u are a good wife.

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I have 3 kids and nowadays whenever I have time for quickie I will seize every chance. Sometimes in the middle of a quick quickie u can hear mummy daddy lol. It’s usually a 1 way so quickie means I will cum quickly thn go attend to
Kids, wife haven cum yet so she either quick DIY or night time when all are asleep I will finger and lick her till she cums as we have no space for sex at night. Lol. That’s life for now. Lol

Re: No foreplay??
 

I believe most married guys here will sympathize with u in that their problem is more likely to be disinterested wives.

in fact when they get the occasional romp, when miraculously she is not having another headache, it is also a wham, bam, good-bye mam case....just like what u are grousing about!

It will not be easy to change him but don't give up. Meanwhile, do make yourself more attractive and alluring. That may pique his interest especially when he sees other men start noticing and maybe even look at you with desire in their eyes... it does not take much for some.

Good luck and hopefully that the fire will be reignited soon and you get all that foreplay and toes curling romps you deserve! :D

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Make him jealous, put more effort in your appearance. Go out more. Make him up his game.

Good question, I don't know the answer as well. I think some guys are just like that, don't have the 'go for it' attitude, or the just they feel they got you already, then their fire just burn out wan..