Temptation to 'cheat'
 

Hey guys,just wondering how do you people cope with such temptations? Do you simply go and fuck around and keep it a secret or does your girl actually allows you to fuck around? Reason why im asking this is cuz I gave my virginity to my girl. I love her a lot but I told myself that id at least fuck a few girls before marriage. I know that is immature thinking, dont get me wrong, I love her a lot and actually plan.on settling down with her.

I hope I get actual advice on this like how do I cope with.this temptation or how do I sort of convince my girl?

I.know most.of you guys would be like if u really love her, you won't be thinking like that. But the thing is I just wanna experience how a different pussy feels like and thatll be the end.

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you only live once . 100 years later , nobody will even know you existed . 100000 years later , you and all your sex partners will become fossil fuel for future humans to use . Knowing this , why burden yourself with morals and values

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To TS, Yes the temptation to cheat is always there and the fact you are in SBF is a great testament that your are willingly exposing yourself to the temptation. Once, just once, if you let your temptation overtake you, you will do it over and over again. There is no turning back. So think about it.

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since u already posted this post... i think u have already made up at least 75% of your mind already..

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Dude why do you need a second thread for this? Just ask her how she feels about swinging la.

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If you have chance to taste different pussy actually is the same feeling and stuff u do.

Foreplay, bj, painting, fuck then cums, after that go toilet bath.

What the point of tasting different pussy? It's the same after all.

I feel sad for your gf/wife if you really marry her, hopefully she cheat on you as well.

Bear that in mind, if you don't want somebody to do the same as hat you have done, make sure you don't do it.

Gd luck.

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depends on your girl whether is she open to it or not. I have an army friend who will tell his wife that he is going to those KTV pubs or Hang Flower pubs with his friends.

Turned out that his wife know my friend's history very well and accepted it with ease.

If you do not want her to know, there are various way to keep your girl in the dark. the answers are littered all over the place in this forum ^.^

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Bro...Once u hv thghts of cheating (even just 1%), most likely u will eventually do it....Tts how our small brain works...Once the Kracken is released, there's no stopping it....

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It is better you learn how to manage your own fun now than to regret later after marriage.

Love and Lust are 2 different issues. Some like to go out for some fun, some go out for fun becos the wife cannot have sex due to pregnancy or mensus. Some do it for experience. Whatever the reasons may be, you should learn a few tricks just in case, when you go have fun, you learn how to cover it up.

Just a note to TS also, that marriage is not as simple as you think. There will be times when you get so mad with your spouse that you just want to stay fuck some other gals to release some stress out, and cool your head off before facing her again.

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interesting...how do u feel about swinging then? just curious...

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TBH, pussies feels the same over time.

i think for me, if i keep to a partner and keep making out with her, our chemistry will be stronger and every time , it will be special and different.

:D

so hor...don't need a different pussy to know how it feels.

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I agree that if you have such thought, there is an inclination to try different 'things'.

Women will get more upset that you click mentally with another women than physical attraction. If money is part of the equation, it is probably a less 'serious' relationship.

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woman these days are not stupid.... do you think they really think their man is a goody two shoes..... more or less sg girls all know that their guys have urge to go geylang or fl etc as the temptation is everywhere in sg... only crucial thing is how frequent :o

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Women in Singapore are not stupid. If they know, they will keep quiet first and see how you treat them. Most of them will wait for guilt to activate so you will do extraordinary things for them.If it was not revealed to them by friends or relatives, they will pretend not to know. Its a face problem. Good luck if you get spotted.
Needless to say, all hell will break loose if you bring medical conditions back to her.

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I guess TS just wan to feel F those girl out of his league la....but hor... mostly leng lui sex provider very fuck up attitude one (Surely you take your GF as benchmark, right? U wont F a girl physical poorer than your GF, what's the point?)...end of the day, u will still feel F your GF the best with RAW without worry STD, full of GFE with all the sweet words & action.

All you need is just enhance the feeling with her...like toys, sexy lingerie, blindfold...at least wont be so "plain" loh.

Besides...what happen she find out you "cheat" or other ppl like her friends or relative saw you with other girl. How? U never know there is the risk no matter how smart you cover up....IMO, if GOD's wills want your secret to be discovered; u just cant prevent it from happening. So think twice, TS.

Like a bro said....all pussy feel more or less the same...ya...maybe some wetter, tighter, she cum fast/easier...trust me;once u put on condom how different the pussy is; still can make u cum one. LOL. The more important part is the GFE/emotional feeling....it just cant replicate by any commercial sex provide compare to GF/wife who willing die for you.