Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

Hi Bros and Sis
I would like to seek your Advice on this matter please bear with my long winded story if you dont mind Thanks =)
It all started when I was 15 Im all alone always Seeing my friends have girlfriends I also wanted to try to find 1 gf. But no matter how hard I tried its impossible to find All I got was those super fat ones and those tomboys. I could never get a girl to even love me. I am now 27 yrs old and My job pays me only 1.6k a month. Everywhere I go people said im Ugly but im only average looking and abit fat.May I ask you all When you go find a GF you go for looks first right? People telling me not to go for looks but it is really terrible I always kena tomboy and super fat ones.Even I cant get myself an Average girl to love me.
In my whole life I have not held a girls hand or even know what love feels like. Many of my friends who got GF have left me and Now I only have 3 close friend. Life is currently a misery for me. I was wondering anyone here have the same problem?

And Lastly I seen many threads asking will they kena Aids or Hiv when go Geylang to have sex. Same for me I tried so hard to get a girl but all rejects me.My hope to find love is somewhat dying and now have the urge to go geylang to release my stress. I really hope someone here can give me hope.
I normally go to KTV and find those girls there they give me the GF treatment but not true love. I hope someone can organise an outing that I can join so that I wont be so Alone.

Thank you for reading my Story and Sorry for writing too long
Waiting for Advices soon

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

sorry mate
but what do u expect? jennifer aniston?
with your caliber, you can't be choosy
damx...you are lucky that you still get to choose, even though
the option are only fat gals and tomboys..

if u want more choices.. then take a look at yourself first.
upgrade yourself, and get a job that pays you better..

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

They say .... :rolleyes: (which i really agree almost 100%) ...

There is no ugly woman in the world ... only LAZY woman :eek:

Fat woman? then go on diet lor
Born super ugly? then work hard to get enough $$$$$ for plastic surgery lah
Look normal? then go learn how to make up lah
Too stupid? then go upgrade the brain lor
ETC ETC ....


So TS,

Same goes with the man ....... :cool:

Anyway it is a good start to complain here .... at least you knew about the problem does exist ... nevertheless stop blaming everything in the world that created you .... start to look for a good solution and create a better "yourself" ...

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

I blame myself for only what has happen. But are those fat and tomboy ones my only choice? I cant even get an averge looking 1 which is really sad.
Btw nowadays in sg is it if dont earn beyond 3k no girls will come?

I failed at study not cause I was lazy I came from a broken family
My mother cause my family to breakup and I cant even study last time due to
her hitting me non stop. Now Im only in sales I dont even get to mix around much. Thats why I come here to ask for advice. I tried to upgrade myself I retook 3 times exam and failed. Maybe I cant get girls due to this pathetic salary =(

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

Never blame others for yr downfall... especially yr mum.... she give birth and feed u for all the love every mother would give to her kids..
work hard... work smart...

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

here is a normal looking cai that cheated many people's feelings with makeup

http://chienna.files.wordpress.com/2...7-pm.png?w=580

and tomboys are CUTE!!!!

when you hunt, you have think of how to hunt when u have no fancy hunting tools. but its ok, you can remain pathetic so there are more for the rest of us to hunt. :D

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

indeed you only have yourself to blame..
you know your problem but didnt solve it..
you could blame your mum for failing you.
but now at 27 , you only have yourself to blame..

u need to know that relationship is a two way traffic..
you chose the gals and they have every right to chose the right guys too..
why would they want a fat and uneducated guy who earns 1.6K per month??

at 27, you could still go do some courses and upgrade yourself..
stop giving yourself excuses..

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

Its never too late, since you know what you need to change, then go change it

there are lots of fishes in the sea, some good looking fish look for not so

good looking bait, too good looking makes them insecure that the guy will

cheat

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

Some parents acted out their anger on their children cos they do not know how to manage their emotion or to channel it positively but that doesn't mean they don't love their children. The environment does not make a man, the man has to make his environment. A single-mindedness determined mind do not changed by place or time, it has it's own place and goals. When you failed 3x in your studies, you only got yourself to blame. :(

I hope you do not abandon your mum for what she did to you cos though we love both the truth and SYT chio bu(s), filial piety requires us to honor the truth 1st. And the truth is you cannot choose your parent but you can choose how your future and path. You are here cos of them and only parents in this life time! How you want your children to treat you is how you treat your parents. You maybe thinking how much you hated her for your failure but if you search and reach in the deepest of your heart, there is only LOVE. Upgrade yourself not cos of becoming a chee hong kia but do it for yourself and your parents/loved ones/country ;)

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

I'm sure this is not the first time you are repeating your story or share the problem. You have already justify and know your problem in your posting,well done, there are still hope for you. It is time to change for a better. Firstly you complain you always get fat or tomboyish girlfriend, if that isn't what you want why accept them to go on steady?

regarding on your job and pay. Go for course and upgrade yourself. Work hard sure you will get pay increment.

Lastly here is a good site I will recommend if you are looking for outing www.snd.sg

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

very true.. :o

http://youtu.be/bCysjwYB-yo?t=2m36s

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

IMHO is TS gotta keep on looking.....maybe u're not looking at the right place for the woman tt you want....be more active in social groups or may wanna start to do some volunteering works which may get u involved in a wider circle of friends.....but do have confidence in yourself, raise uo your self esteem coz woman would not wanna be with someone who cant even take care of himself or worst still having such a low self esteem......good luck to you bro....have fun widenin the network.... But this is really not a place that can help u bro....

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

Sales don't need you to study alot. but I don't understand how do u do sales without mixing around much. kind of confused here. :rolleyes:

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

Btw, better to spend your 1.6k salary on upgrading yourself rather than the KTV girls lives :D

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthr...t=#post7200322

You this type sure kenna KC big time ;)

Need further assistance (non pussy issues), my mantra: Please go see your district MP ;)

Re: Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone
 

as long as he continue to tell the mm at ktv he only have $70 for beer and no tips, they will leave him alone eventually. :D :rolleyes:

He looking for mm to be his therapist in ktv mah :D