boring sex life
 

Hi guys I know its a little inappropriate but I am still going ask here

Had a girl friend for few years and I love her a lot had sex but recent years sex life had started to be dull and boring

Last time we used to try several new stuff like bbbj etc etc but now its jus strip fuck shoot wear clothes and sleep

I'm a bbbj and cim lover and its really fustrating sometimes to not receive a bbbj and cim

Sorry I know some of the samsters around here would ask me to go for fls but no I am going to first its not worth it second I love my gf

Any ways I can try to improve our sex life a little??? Need some good advices from seniors around here

Would gladly appreciate that

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talk to your girl about how she can make you aroused
tell her to give you bbjj or let you cim
look into trying some new sex positions,
look into using sex fantasy,like pretending to be someone else (role playing)
maybe try a little bit of bondage sex
maybe have sex in different places, maybe in the cinema, on Mount Faber, on the unused railway, when showering, in the cemetry, in the changing room of a store selling women clothing

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Talked to her before and at times I even want to try to make her aroused to see if I get something in return but just no go she says my dick stinks but I washed it throughly and especially before action begins maybe I can try your idea of making her aroused like new fantasy or places thanks for the info bro!

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Last time u got it now u dont .......It seen like yr relationship started to hv some problem ..... it all melt down to CHEMISTRY n FEELING tat call MAKE LOVE n not just F ....mayb u want to hv a serious talk with her b4 its too late

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When she say your dick stinks, don't just wash it right before you do the deed.
Keep it clean all the time.
The smell don't go away in one wash.
And it's really gross, do you want a smelly dick in your mouth?

Drink more water, eat more fruits and veggie.

maybe last time she tahan and eat the smelly dick, now she give up.
you need to make sure it's a pleasant journey for her, or she'll just turn off at the mention of bj. Since now she's already at this stage, you need to give her more incentive and encourage her lo. Make bonking more fun than just strip, bonk, shoot.
Where's all the tickles, giggles, jiggles?

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:eek::eek::eek:

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I keep it clean all the time esp before action maybe I can try to drink more water and eat more fruits and veggie hope it helps thanks for the advise anyway

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Perhaps bah also could be due to our busy work life do not really get that feel right all the time thanks for the advise

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Pour some honey, Herseys chocolate sauce over penis to mask the smell and vary sex life. If you are uncircumcised, do you pull back the skin to wash everyday? Try not to use soap to wash it, might not be clean enough. I tried using facial wash to clean penis. Works wonders. Do you shave? I was told a hairless guy is sexier and smells better in the crouch area. 69 is a good method to encourage her to bbbj.

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You serious about that? Facial wash? I pull back my skin everytime to wash with soap maybe that's the reason? Yea I trim my pubic regularly and try to keep as clean and as hygenic as possible for my girl tried 69 but she doesn't like it

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Wear fruit favour condoms for her to BJ u, at least better than no BJ :)

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No offense, but no sex is ever boring in my opinion. Look for ways to spice it up. Start with different actions.. I'm sure things will get better.

Oh ya, 1 more thing.. You can get "verbal" with your partner, ask her what she likes and wants, then let her tell you and guide you... Same applies to yourself.

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That t problem ....if u dum relax how to enjoy ....dum make it a routine ....it will kill t feeling

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Perhaps so bah the busy work life is making me exhausted and her tired and we ended up sleeping at night with no action

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Bro, this make me call you bad. :-p

No offence... this two focus on his needs, not hers. If she is already bored of sex, all these might turn her off more. Again no offence meant. Just an opinion.

I think need to talk about what she likes, then what he likes.

Bro magixballx,

1. Woman love sex more when they are emotionally fulfilled. So you got to work on that. After a few years, it could be that the passionate feeling has gone a bit stale. Recommend that you go and buy "The 5 Languages of Love" by Gary Chapman (or try the library). Make sure you get the original one. He had a few follow ups with similar title but for loving children/teenagers etc. Easy to read and understand and makes sense... not those chim chim psychology books. Quite cheap... a few years ago less than $15. With inflation, maybe slightly more now. If you truly love your gf, read this... then get her to read it too. Discuss it too. BOTH of you should practice it. I also think its a good set of tools for this or future relationships.

Most women, when they feel loved by you, they love to please you, including in bed.

2. How liberal/open-minded is you gf? Go slow because you don't want her to think you become a sex maniac for wanting to do it outdoors, etc. If she is already bored of sex or she's doing it to please you, it may not be so easy to get her to agree to spicing it up. Might backfire. Doesn't mean you should not try, just be careful how you go about it.

Ask her whether she has any sex fantasies.

3. Romance her. When was the last time you romanced her properly. Nice dinner, walk on the beach, maybe sit down somewhere to just talk and maybe make out... but don't necessarily lead to sex... read her signal to see whether she wants to move to that or she is happy to just smooch under the moonlight. Be nice to her without the sex agenda.

Compliment her when she wears nice clothes. Tell her she looks sexy when she does. Sometimes my gf catches me staring at her butt and she'll ask what I'm looking at and I'll reply "your sexy butt". Or sometimes I'll just tell her how much I love her legs or her butt.

Focus on making sex or making love more interesting and sex-citing for HER... before you make your requests.

What about alcohol? It's easier to turn on my gf after one or two drinks (beer or wine). Don't over do this... you don't want her drunk. Just a little high so she can get into a happy flirty mood. Watch your own drinks too... alcohol can affect your performance.

4. Stinky dick: Google "smelly penis". Lots of web pages about it. You also need to ask her what stink she smell. Is it urine like smell or fishy or what. Unfortunately most of us not flexible enough to smell/taste our own dick. And where is the smell... on the penis skin or the pubic hair? When did it start stinking? Recently? Or right from the first time she bj you? THis will help you figure out what is causing the smell.

Something to note: when you wash, make sure you wash the little "pocket" under the "vein/nerve" which connects the bottom of the penis head to the shaft.

Sometimes, if urine gets on your pubic hair and dries up, it will stay there and never go away. It could be urea from sweat too. To get rid of this, you need to cut the hair. You said you trim, but if the accumulation is near the roots of the hair, you may need to shave just this once to get rid of the accumulation.

Another thing, like pull back the foreskin and wipe your penis after peeing. In public toilets, use the cubicle. Or at least shake off the last few drops of pee before you tuck it back into your pants.