Love vs sex
 

When we were young and green, we were energetic and wanted to have sex a lot. The norm is, to find a girlfriend and sex is involved. So, I was thinking, was it the sex that makes me love my GF or is it sex?

Ok, now the main topic, I fell in love in a FL. I know a lot of you will say, not again, don’t do it, etc…. I have read most of the cases here and mine seems to be different. My GF is a local MILF. I was attracted to her, because she had a heart of gold. She is working in this line because she needs to earn a lot to support her family and since her educational standard is not high, she had no other options. I wish I could help her but I have more problems of my own and worst thing is I am a married man with kids.

At first when I just know her, definitely, it is sex, if not, I won’t ask for her service. The second time, I think of sex so just book her last minute, thinking just try my luck. And my luck stroked. This follows on the third, fourth, fifth and so on. Every session, we talked a lot discussing our problems. That’s where I get to know her more. The last second session, was like a date then a session. She wore a beautiful dress and worn makeup. She is already quite pretty without makeup and with makeup makes her dazzle. She told me she like to spend time chatting with me rather than us having sex. I was ok with that. I also felt good just chatting with her without sex. And for the last few sessions, we only chat, no sex involved. I am a man with HSD, but when I am with her, I never think of Sex. I only wish to see her. So, is LOVE really stronger than SEX?

For the few chatting sessions, my GF is really depressed. The only thing I can do is comfort her. She wishes she do not have to work this line but she had no other options. This makes me very depressed. Honestly, I cried every time I thinking how she suffers. We are Buddhist, we believe in Fate and Karma. Why fate is so cruel to me? Make me meet my love so late and make her suffer before my eyes. I cried almost every day thinking of her. Is it in my last life, I abandoned her and make her cried for me for the rest of her life? Now I have to pay back? I am now very lost. The only thing I can do, is try to see her and comfort her whenever I can.

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Brother, I'm not opining nor making a suggestion yet. But based on what you wrote, you love her but you really don't love her. Why do I say this? You don't seem like you love her enough to marry her. Why not marry her and take her away from her work? Ask yourself this and post back.

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TS, nv live with regrets, we only live once :D :D

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<<Honestly, I cried every time I thinking how she suffers.>>

You really do love her if you are crying for her.

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If u dont love your wife, why did you marry her in the first place? For fun, for money ?? I'm puzzled.

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bro,

firstly, you wanted is sex with this FL. Subsequently, you wanted something more than sex. That's not love. It's more like you are kced (or self kced).


To help her, you can pay double or triple the amount you used to pay? Or bao her? But I sure you won't doing that cos usual excuses like family commitment, etc..

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Are you sure you are in love with this WL? If she had an accident and her face was disfigured, you will still stick with her? Infatuation and love are very different animals. You have kids, you brought them to this world, you have responsibilities for them. How would their lives be affected by their father running away with a whore?

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might be love, might be another thing. but love . . how long can it last?

i also cried for my gf before. i am a very young dude, very unexperienced, but been through some relationships with wls and fls. dont ask me why i had been through all these at such young age, you can pm me, i can roughly tell your about their life and their tricks.

i suggest you not to think too much. think logically, logically. you are a married man with kids, what more can i say? you need a chat, can always pm. honestly it won't help much, but will ease you. after all decision if up to you. i know this thread purpose wasnt excalty seeking for this kind of response, but i am once a party in such cases before, or rather i am still a party, i can understand what you are feeling and thinking.

love got nothing to do with age, don't feel bad about communicating with me. we all are anonymous on the net. infact all bros who are suffering from kc, should start to communicate with each other, then you will realise how much of things u all are missing

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No, you are not different from them, a FL is a FL regardless of race - language & religion :rolleyes:, they choose to be in this line where they can contribute to the society in a different way even without full education (thats an excuse as they are plain lazy to do it & chose the easy way out)

Another stupid excuse..


3x time excuse ;)

Anyway we need "these" type of guys around to clear "these" types of women away for us :D

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Why are there always threads on people falling love with FLs????

First of all, all FLs have a HEART of GOLD...:D Why do I say that? Because simply the gold that their hearts are made of are contributed by cheongsters like all of us here. The very simple premise of an FL is someone who sells her body for money. Very simple. For cheongsters like us, we pay money to fuck and then forget. When we remember the FL, we pay money again, fuck her and then forget her again.

Before proceeding any further with this FL, please remember that you are already married with kids. Do you want to ruin your family for this FL? And is it worth it for you?

The problem with this is that you are already under her KC spell. Of course all FLs prefer to talk rather than fuck with their customer if they can get the same amount of money from it. Think about it, would the FL rather talk to 10 guys a day and get $1K or fuck 10 guys a day and get $1K???

Every FL I know told me they would rather not work in this line but this is a path they chose themselves and thus they can have no complaints about it. Seriously, wake up from your dream and take a really hard and serious look at the shit you have dug for yourself.

Since you are a grown man, do what you deem fit but remember, many times, taking a few steps back to analyze the situation will do more good than harm.

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TS, do you think you can change the situation by doing that? Obviously not! You are sinking in deeper and deeper.

pls quit before it breaks up your family. Rem you are a married man with kids. If you continue, you will regret and it's going to give you lifelong misery.

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Mr. Handsomeguy,

It's time to grow up and be a MAN. Seems you have kids but you are kidding with your own life. Do not ruin your life, your wife's life, your kids life plus all other that may be affected.

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U are a dilusional father, husband & Buddhist. I'm angry because u mentioned that u are both Buddhist; u are in this for LUST and infatuation grew then u go crying over karma?! WTF....

Like what another bro said. If she is ugly, will u love her, fuck her & chat with her?

Are u an ATM for her? U got own problems, don't go deeper. Go find FL from those super sexy hit & run Koreans and cut this one.

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Bro, why u so upset.
Isnt this what happens when one uses the small head over the big?

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Well, it happens to everyone including me but bringing in religion is no no. We are responsible for our folly, not God or Buddha. We're hell-bound sinners screwing around so don't hang that religion tag on the neck & be a crying puppy.

Also, people in this state are always very sotong so we need to be RSM :p

Btw, bro, thanks for your support in those dark time of mine. Back again & stronger :o